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Wednesday, April 22nd 2009 - 09:43:51 PM
Name: Beth Lansford
E-mail address: lize1216@aol.com
Homepage URL: http://www.myspace.com/beth1216
Comments:Larry & Debbie and Willie & Carol,

I don't think a day goes by that I don't think of each of you. I so often have thoughts of Jennifer and Robbie. It's funny...I never even really knew them, but they've had such a tremendous impact on my life. Sometimes life seems so unfair. We don't know why things happen and it's so easy to get mad. When mom was diagnosed with terminal cancer last year part of me got mad. You all gave me strength when mom was in the hospital. When I saw you at church, your presence was an incredible encouragement to me. I don't know what it's like to lose a child, but I do know how it feels to come so close to losing my mom. It was a pain unlike any other. I thank God for the lives Jennifer and Robbie led! Their deaths were not in vain! God had a plan and a purpose for all of it! I can't wait until that day when I finally get to see Jennifer and Robbie...to tell them what they have meant to me..what they have done for me. There are not words to express how much I care for and love the four of you. Each Sunday that I don't see you at church I say a prayer for you all. A prayer that God would keep you safe...bless your families...a prayer of Thanksgiving for the lives you lead, the courage and strength you possess, and the love you show...the love you choose to share with me. I am truly blessed to have y'all in my life! Thank you. I count it a privilege and a blessing to know each of you! I LOVE YOU!
In Christ Always,
Beth
Wednesday, March 21st 2007 - 10:43:41 PM
Name: Liz
E-mail address: smebe@hotmail.com
Comments:Mr. and Mrs. Cook, and Mr. and Mrs. Castleberry, I have kept you in my thoughts and prayers everyday, but I am especially thinking of you today. I pray that your memories keep you warm. God Bless.
Thursday, December 15th 2005 - 03:34:00 PM
Name: Liz Eshenbaugh
E-mail address: smebe@hotmail.com
Comments: (Just a quick update)Right now I'm in school (i think for my 6th year!jeez!) but I will be graduating soon with a degree in Sociology with an English minor. I have no idea what I will do for a carreer, but since I come from a family rooted in law enforcement, I'll probably join the military or become a police officer.

Recently I ran into an old friend, Mike who was also one of Robbie's good friends. It has been a blessing to have him in my life. We've shared memories together and for the first time in a long while I felt like someone understood how I felt, how I feel. I can't always talk about Robbie with my other friends because they never knew him so,to be frank, their words of comfort feel empty even though I know they're said with sincerity.
The other night was an emotional night for me. Some nights are just that way. I cried so hard that I nearly got sick. I held one of his pictures so tight like it would bring him back or something, but it didn't. But these nights are not as often as they used to be. Most of the time now I can hear his voice and his laugh, which was so infectious that even now I chuckle at the thought. I know I will have more nights in the future that are sad, and that's ok. Sometimes it feels good to cry.
I am reading a book called "The Purpose Driven Life" which is wonderful and has brought me closer to God. I know that one day I'll see Robbie again, and get to meet Jennifer and that makes me so happy. I pray for everyone that knew Jennifer and Robbie and loves and misses them. I keep all of you in my heart even though I haven't met many of you. God Bless.

Sunday, September 11th 2005 - 10:49:19 PM
Name: Debbie Castleberry
Comments:To my baby girl and my sweet Robbie,
Time seems some day to just stand still. I have such mixed emotions now. I'm very homesick to join you yet I know I have to stay until my job is done. It is such a blessed feeling to know and have hope I will see you again. I cherish just the thought. Time is flying by and it won't be so long afterall. Jennifer you added so much to my life and the void is big but not eternal. I'll see you sweetie again. I swell with pride with your accomplishments and I remember to try my very best as I can only hope you are in the cloud of witnesses watching me. Just know you are most precious in my heart and I love you so very much. I'm looking forward to an incredible reunion. Robbie, you have so much to show me. I'm so glad you are a part of my life forever. Son, I have thought about you so much for March. My mind still chases the possibilities of what life would be like if I could communicate with you guys. I do know that nothing can separate me from my love for you. I miss you... always and forever, MOM
Wednesday, March 23rd 2005 - 01:40:23 PM
Name: Lauren Lenoir
Comments:Thinking of you all today and sending my hugs to Heaven for Robbie and his sweetheart.
Wednesday, December 15th 2004 - 11:03:23 AM
Name: DEBBIE CASTLEBERRY
Comments:Jennifer,
Ohhhhhh, how I miss you today. You've always been there for my birthday. So much of my life is a vacume because of the love we shared and now I have trouble expressing how much I do love you. It hurts so bad, I simply do not want to breath when I think of spending life without sharing it with you. Today, a look forward with a grateful heart for God allowing me to love and receive your love. I reflect about a happier time on my birthday when you and Robbie ate Pizza with me and Robbie brought in fudge. I get so homesick, sometimes I feel you would almost have to pry my mouth to get me to smile again. Other times I can reflect and smile when I think of times we shared and Robbie's mischievious nature. I'm so glad you found the love of your life. It sure makes for a better quality. Robbie, I'm missing you too today. So seldom, I saw you without you smiling. Thank you for loving my baby girl with your whole heart. I love you so much. Someday, we can reflect back on this dream called life and all spend a happier day in eternity. My heart is deeply planted in heaven with you guys and my feet are still planted here. My love I send to you both. MOM
Monday, December 13th 2004 - 09:58:07 AM
Name: Tammy Jacobs
E-mail address: TJacobs@wmu.org
Comments:Jennifer and Robbie:


I never knew you however, I feel like I do. I work with Jennifer's mom and she has been such a comfort to me in hard times. I know that your parents miss both of you very much and I know they are excited thinking about the day that they come home to be with you also. I don't think of you as leaving them just that you two are finally home and waiting on them. God truely blessed You both with wonderful parents and a caring family. I am sad to know that I have never met the two of you but I am excited to know that I will one day when I too will make it to my father's home. God Bless!
Thursday, October 14th 2004 - 09:49:12 AM
Name: dcastleberry
E-mail address: 1225LVC@BELLSOUTH.NET
Comments:JENNIFER NICOLE CASTLEBERRY

HAPPY 25TH BIRTHDAY. I WISH I COULD CELEBRATE WITH YOU. IT’S SO AKWARD NOT TO BE ABLE TO GIVE YOU ANYTHING. NOTHING I HAVE IS ADDIQUATE IN LIGHT OF WHERE YOU ARE NOW. HOWEVER, WITH TEARS I SANG HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU AS I TRIED TO SHOWER. AFTER I GET OFF WORK I WILL TAKE YOUR AND ROBBIES FALL FLOWERS TO THE CEMETARY. I WENT TO THE MALL SATURDAY AND REFLECTED ON OUR LAST NIGHT TOGETHER. IT WAS ALL I COULD DO TO KEEP FROM BREAKING DOWN ALL OVER THE PLACE AS I WANTED TO DESPARATELY GIVE YOU SOMETHING. WHAT I HAVE TO GIVE YOU COSTS NO MONEY. IT IS MY LOVE SWEATHEART FOR ALL THE YEARS I WAS GIVEN WITH YOU. JUST AS I TOLD YOU, I WAS GIVEN THE BEST. YOU ARE THE GIFT GOD GAVE ME AND ALLOWED ME TO LOVE, LIVE AND SMILE. I THANK HIM AND PLEA WITH HIM TO SPEED MY LOVE TO YOU. NOTHING CAN SEPARATE ME FROM THE LOVE I SHARE WITH YOU. YOU ARE MY BEAUTIFUL ROSE THAT I HOLD IN THE TREASURES OF MY HEART. I LOVE YOU WITH AN UNCOMPROMISING LOVE. WITH TEARS I SAY “THANK YOU FOR MAKING ME LOVE YOU SO MUCH” YOUR MOM
Thursday, October 14th 2004 - 09:13:49 AM
Name: Rachel Barnes
E-mail address: rlbarnes02@yahoo.com
Comments:Jenny,
i have not come to this website in a while but it has really grown with letters since the last time i looked. i think about you all the time and i miss you very much. i finally moved back from Auburn but when i was there i drove by your apartment everyday and thought about how much fun we used to have there! i hate that it was cut so short. remember when me and you used to sleep in a twin bed together every night and stacey was there too! you always let me come over and made me feel better when i was upset or counldn't stand my roomates anymore.
i have still not seen your brothers baby girl but i heard she is precious and looks just like you! i hate that you cant be here to see her.
you have always been very special to me...you always knew the right things to say when something was wrong and when i was heading in the wrong direction you always seemed to be able to turn me around. i really wish you were still here. you meant so much to so many people. but, i know you are in a better place with God in heaven. i cant wait to see you again...i have so much more to say. this is a little harder than i thought to write this.
i hope your parents are doing well. i keep saying i am going to go to their house but i get so nervous. it seems just like yesterday you were here. i think about them all the time though.
i hope you are taking care of robbie. i miss him too!!! he was just one of the sweetest guys i have known. i think yall were lucky to have met each other. two beautiful people! i miss you very much and i cant wait to see you again!

love, rachel
Monday, October 4th 2004 - 10:22:59 AM
Name: Chasity Payne
E-mail address: Barbiechik00@aol.com
Comments:I really didnt know u that well but i am audreys bestfriend and cousin i hear them talk about u all the time, and i wish i had known u better i love you so much because the way audrey talks about u i know u were a great cousin. I love u so much!!!
Monday, August 30th 2004 - 06:48:32 PM
Name: Madeline Smith
Comments:I don't know what drew me to the Dreambook today, as I prepard t-shirts for the upcoming Robie Cook Memorial Tournament, but somehow I felt that I needed to let Robbie and Jenifer know that you will always remain in the hearts of those that love you and the women of the WBFA.
Friday, May 21st 2004 - 03:05:43 PM
Name: Mandy (Jennifer's cousin)
E-mail address: AMFRANKLIN@ASHLAND.COM
Comments:Hey, guys. Well it's been about a year and a half since the last time I could write. So much has happened since the last time I saw you. I still can't believe you've been called home. We miss you so much that it still hurts to think of what happened. Hey Jenn, do you remember my cousin Matthew on my dad's side? He was killed in an auto accident on January 31, 2004 and it was like losing you all over again. I've prayed so many times for God not to take anymore people away from my family. We've lost so much already and I can't bear the thought of losing someone else.
I pray every night for the safety of my precious babies, Chase 3 and Savannah 3 months. I pray that you and Robbie are watching over them at all times and are with them wherever they go. I still feel like your presense is as strong as it was the day we lost both of you. You are still missed very much at all of the family functions we have every year and they don't feel the same without you. I don't know that they will ever feel complete again. Well, I just wanted you to know I think of you every day.
Love Always,
Mandy
Friday, May 21st 2004 - 02:34:40 PM
Name: Debbie and Evan
E-mail address: debyes@earthlink.net
Comments:Carole and Debbie,

You both are always on our hearts, as you know, but particulary last Sunday. We just wanted you to know that Jennifer and Robbie will be with Evan and I forever and inspire both of us on a daily basis. We are still (and always will be) heartbroken for you, but don't feel so distant anymore. Thank you so much for meeting with us.

Your graciousness has been beyond belief and has been such a testimony for the Lord. Not a day goes by that one of you does'nt cross my mind and encourages me in my walk with the Lord.

Always,

Debbie

Wednesday, May 12th 2004 - 04:39:39 AM
Name: Lauren (Eshenbaugh) Lenoir
E-mail address: lhel@uab.edu
Comments:My sister Liz dated Robbie for a while during High school. He always made me laugh and he was always smiling. I think about him a lot.
Wednesday, April 14th 2004 - 11:49:05 AM
Name: William Cook
Comments:Three years and four months. Seems like a short time, but it has also seemed an eternity in many ways. Each minute of each hour seems to bring some thought of Robbie and Jennifer to my mind. Every thing that I do seems to be related, in some way, to their presence in my life. Their names are mentioned many, many times throughout each week as the memories are relived by both families. Both families have become an extention of one another, and the support, love and memory sharing have become second nature. We all attend Bay Springs Baptist Church together, and each Sunday morning finds us gathered at Robbie and Jennifer's gravesite for a moment of prayer and rememberance. The graves are located underneath a beautiful magnolia tree and we have placed a bench, given to us by the women of the Women's Bass Fishing Association, at the foot of both.
Both families gather together for all holidays, birthdays and many other occasions. Yesterday was Easter, and we enjoyed the afternoon playing horseshoes and just being together. There have been six wonderful and beautiful babies born to these two families since the passing of Robbie and Jennifer. Jennifer's Brother and his wife have a darling little girl, Jenna, who looks just like Jennifer to me. I call her Stormy, since she was born during a hurricane, but her personality is anything but. Robbie's double-first-cousin gave birth, on last Christmas Eve, to a beautiful daughter, Lola, who incidentally looks just like Robbie's baby picture. I call her Angel because she was sent to bless my family. Her birth has caused my mother to actually look forward to Christmas once again. Three of Jennifer's first cousins have been blessed with babies. Mandy now has a son, Chase (2 years old and a handfull) and a 2 month old daughter, Savannah, that is precious in every way. Alicia has a son, 2 year old Daniel, who can carry on an adult conversation with you. Angie has a son, also 2, named Logan. I call him Humvee, since he is not a full grown tank, but will be someday.
Liz, one of Robbie's dearest friends, misses him deeply, and remembers him here on this site often. She was a great influence in his life and Carole and I love her dearly. Her love for Robbie is a testimony of the kind of person, and friend that he was.
Robbie's older brother, Michael, grieves in his own private and personal way. He seldom mentions Robbie and Jennifer. He hurts, but he does not show it outwardly in many ways. Since their death he visits us much more often and attends many of the combined family occasions. His strength has been a testimony to his character. My love for him is boundless.
I have come to deal with the loss of Robbie through my faith in God. After all, even though Carole and I begat his body, God Himself gave Robbie his breath of life and soul. Since Robbie belonged to God in every way, Robbie was God's child, to be called home at any time. Carole and I, and everyone who was ever touched by Robbie's life, were truly blessed to have hime here with us those short 19 years. Even though losing Robbie has been a devistating occurance in my life, It also served as a wake-up call for me. I know that in order to be with him again, I must now live in a way, such as to prepare myself for my own soul to be called back to God, from whence it came.
It seems as though time drags by since Robbie's death, but by Gods standard of time, it will be but the blinking of an eye that we are parted. What a wonderful day it will be, to be reunited with all my loved ones, who have gone before, in the presence of Jesus, my personal Savior. I do not wish for death, as God has not finished with my purpose for being here, but I no longer fear it either.
It is my fervent prayer that all who read this will seek God and his grace, through Jesus Christ, who was born of man, suffered, bled and died on the cross, for the remission of our sins. His sacrifice, ond our acceptance and recognition of it, is the one and only thing that will make it possible for us to experience life eternal.
Monday, April 12th 2004 - 09:11:17 AM
Name: Amanda Castleberry
E-mail address: AmandaCastleberry@srmagg.com
Comments:JENNIFER AND ROBBIE,
I HAVE BEEN TO THIS SIGHT TIME AND TIME AGAIN. IT IS SO HARD TO SIT DOWN AND WRITE. THERE IS NEVER A DAY OR HOUR THAT GOES BY THAT I DONT THINK ABOUT YOU. JENNIFER YOU WOULD BE SO PROUD OF YOUR BROTHER. HE HAS BECOME SUCH A WONDERFUL DAD. I KNOW WHEN HE LOOKS AT JENNA HE CAN'T HELP BUT THINK ABOUT YOU AND HOW MUCH HE WOULD LIKE FOR YOU TO BE ABLE TO SEE HER AND HOLD HER. SHE KNOWS HER AUNT JENNY. WE HAVE A BLANKET IN OUR LIVING ROOM WITH YOU PICTURE ON IT AND JENNA WILL GO OVER TO IT AND KISS IT. YOUR MOM AND DAD HURT SO BAD. THEY SAY IT WILL GET BETTER OVER TIME BUT I THINK THEY JUST MISS YOU MORE. AUSTIN IS QUIET AND TRIES TO BE STRONG BUT I KNOW INSIDE HE IS HURTING SO BAD. HE MISSES HIS BIG SIS. I MISS YOU TOO. THERE WERE SO MANY THINGS LEFT UNSAID. ROBBIE YOU WERE ALWAYS SO FUNNY MEAN BUT FUNNY. I ALWAYS LOOKED FORWARD TO SEEING YOU AND JENNIFER. I KNEW IT WOULD ALWAYS BE AN ADVENTURE LIKE THE TIME YOU BARROWED THE MAN'S HOSE PIPE. YOU LEFT ME LAUGHING FOR DAYS THINKING ABOUT THAT. I THINK BACK AND STILL LAUGH AT THE THINGS YOU DID. I HAVE GOT TO KNOW YOUR FAMILY AND I LOVE THEM SO MUCH. THEY ARE SO GOOD TO US. THEY HAVE BECOME A PART OF THE FAMILY. I KNOW KNOW WHY YOU AND JENNIFER STAYED OVER THERE SO MUCH. I MISS YOU BUT I KNOW THAT ONE DAY I WILL SEE YOU AND JENNIFER AGAIN

I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU



Tuesday, April 6th 2004 - 08:42:44 AM
Name: Audrey Benson
E-mail address: curlysue14c
Comments:Jennifer it has been 3 years before I could get the courage to write to you. It has been hard for our family these past 3 years. Every morning I wake up praying to God for him to tell you I love you. Jennifer you don't know how hard it is without you in my life.
Love you always,
Audrey
Saturday, February 7th 2004 - 01:13:05 PM
Name: Audrey Benson
E-mail address: curlysue14c
Comments:Jennifer it has been 3 years before I could get the courage to write to you. It has been hard for our family these past 3 years. Every morning I wake up praying to God for him to tell you I love you. Jennifer you don't know how hard it is without you in my life.
Love you always,
Audrey
Saturday, February 7th 2004 - 01:09:54 PM
Name: jennifer
E-mail address: bangin_aj@hotmail.com
Homepage URL: http://
Comments:I would like to send my deepest condolences....but I was wondering what Jennifers' middle name was, b/c my name is also Jennifer Castleberry, and I am curious. I don't know if you are Christian or not, but if you are, take great comfort in your faith of the Lord, for all things are in his control...and apparently he needed angels, so he called Robbie and Jennifer home, and if you aren't Christian and you don't believe in God, then I hope that I haven't offended you! You will be in my thoughts and prayers!
Monday, December 8th 2003 - 05:36:58 PM
Name: Jon
Comments:I'm so sorry for your loss and your tribute truly does their memory proud!

I'm sure as I am sure that the sun rises in the East...you will see them again.

My sincerest condolonces
Sunday, August 24th 2003 - 11:53:31 PM
Name: Teena Ford
E-mail address: drivinggrl17@wmconnect.com
Comments:I am very sorry about your loss. I lost my grandmother a little over a year ago and u never get over it. But the pain does ease with time. I also lost a woman that was like another mom to me on June 13th. I know time will ease the pain. U are all in my prayers.

Sunday, June 22nd 2003 - 09:17:55 PM
Name: Liz Eshenbaugh
E-mail address: smebe@hotmail.com
Comments:It's strange how sometimes things trigger memories. Today it was a scent. HUGO boss collogne. Robbie wore it. I tried not to smell it, but it reached my nose, and when it did it felt like someone opened a door to the past. Memories consumed me completely. They felt so real, and for a second I forgot he had passed away and wanted to call him. Then I was jolted back to reality and realized he was gone. I found myself almost inhaling this bottle of collogne as if it would make my memories come to life. I knew it wouldn't, but I didn't want the scent to go away. I miss you, Robbie. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. I don't talk to you as often though, or maybe I do and have just gotten so used to it I don't realize it. I have been meaning to visit you, but for some reason am still unable to bring myself to do it. Maybe I'm scared. I guess seeing your headstone makes it that much more real that you're gone and I still don't want to face it. It's been 2 1/2 years and I guess sometimes I still expect you to call or pass you on the street like I have before. I know all of this must sound silly, it sounds silly to me. All I know is that sometimes I miss you so much I cry so hard that it's difficult to stand, or think, or do anything. And then other times I find myself laughing out loud about something we talked about or did. You are always in my thoughts and prayers. You also Jennifer, I know we never knew eachother but I know we would have gotten along. I have heard nothing but the best of things about you. Knowing you're with Robbie is comforting. I know you loved one another so very much. Remembering you always, Liz
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Name: Jennifer
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Comments:I don't know you but i just happened to come across this website and it cought my attition. I lost my dad 5 years ago and all i can say is that you never get over it but it does get alittle better over the years. You just have to hang in there and be strong for the people who love you.
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Tuesday, November 5th 2002 - 07:20:55 PM
Name: Julie Hill
E-mail address: Julie_21170@yahoo.com
Comments:I don't your family at all,I was surfing the web,and I came upon this site.I would like to say that I'm so very sorry for your loss.I'm praying for all of you,that God will comfort you and give you strength. God Bless You Always!
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Sunday, November 3rd 2002 - 05:05:07 PM
Name: Liz Eshenbaugh
E-mail address: Mysfits@aol.com
Comments:Dear Robbie,

It's been so long since your passing, and still it feels unreal to me. I have thought of you everday, and I have talked to you everday as well. I wonder if you hear me. I wonder if you remember me. I didn't get a chance to say goodbye. We played phone tag for 6 months before you passed away. So many things were left unsaid, I tell you them evertime I talk to you, but it doesn't seem good enough. You had such an impact on my life and I will always remember you. Do you remember me? I am so afraid you don't, but I'm more afraid to forget you. That is my worst nightmare. I have not been able to visit you, or your family. Now that this much time has passed I am afraid your family won't remember me. Robbie, I miss you so much. My eyes flood with tears when I think of old memories and how I have no one to share them with. I have dreamed of you, and in my dreams you're always happy and laughing. I am always upset in my dreams and when you ask me what is wrong I reply " I just miss you so much, you don't understand" and you say to me " but Liz, I'm right here" and you hug me so tight and it feels so real until I wake up. I try to go back to sleep and live in my dreams, but I never can. I am so glad that you had Jennifer. I never knew her, but I know she made you happy and I am so thankful for that. All the wishing and praying in the world will not bring either of you back, and that is a hard fact to face. It would be selfish of me to want you hear on earth when you are sitting with our Lord watching over your loved ones. I Pray you are on my side as well. I don't think anyone will ever know how much you will always mean to me. I will miss you until the day I see you again.
Remembering you always, Liz
Sunday, September 29th 2002 - 10:31:03 PM
Name: MANDY (JENN'S COUSIN)
E-mail address: MANDY@SHELBY911.ORG
Comments:Dear Jennifer and Robbie,

This is the first time in nearly two years that I have been able to write to you. I have come to this site many times, but can never bring myself to say what I feel. Jenn, I have had two dreams about you in the past two weeks. They're always wonderful and sad at the same time. That's not the only two dreams I've had either. I dream about you quite often. In every dream I beg you to come visit me. You always just smile and say "Ok" but I'm always crying. The last dream I had I was able to hug you, and I remember the feel of my arms around you. It was so real. I'm finding it very difficult to get through with this letter because I'm having a hard time seeing through my tears.

It has been nearly two years since we sat and talked with the both of you and I can still here you're voices. Brandon also had a dream about you Jenn, a few months ago. I think it really affected him, it was a very moving dream. Sometimes I think you probably know about these dreams because you are actually there with me.

Well Jennifer, we are all waiting for the arrival of your niece, Jenna. Today, Amanda is officially overdue. I know that she is Austin and Amanda's baby, but I can't help but think she was really going to be yours. I know how you would have fallen in love with her. You would have been the absolute best Aunt in the world and don't worry she will definetly know who her aunt is, you. I keep picturing you with her and I know you will be watching over her every minute just like I know you are watching over all three of the boys.

Robbie, I know we never got the chance to get to know each other real well. But, I know how special you are and how much you are loved and I miss you too. You have a wonderful set of parents in Willie and Carole. I know I am blessed to have them in our lives and I know they miss you and think of you every second of every day. When I think of what happened, I don't just think of losing Jennifer, I think of how we lost you too. Both of you are never far from my mind, and every day since that night I have had a memory or thought of both of you.

I too, wish there was some way I could have kept you there at that table with me and Brandon just a few minutes longer.
It has taken me a long to accept the fact that you are never coming back and I can't imagine how hard it must be for your parent's and brother's. I know the both of you are watching over all of us. Please keep a special watch over all four of these babies and know that you will always be remembered. I miss you so much!

Love Always,
Mandy
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Tuesday, February 19th 2002 - 05:45:41 AM
Name: HEIDI
E-mail address: HeidiRap@msn.com
Comments:I'm so very sorry for your losses. I lost my first born son Nov. 10,2000 in a auto accident too. He ahd just turned 19 Sept 12, and just Grad. from high school. God bless you and take care.
Thursday, February 14th 2002 - 08:57:12 PM
Name: M WHITLOCK
E-mail address: WHITLOCKJH@AOL.COM
Comments:debbie and larry,
today,justlike many other days, i thought of your tragedy. i know that your pain has not deminished with time. i think about you often. haley and i miss jennifer too.
with love and sympathy,marilyn
Saturday, January 26th 2002 - 07:10:19 AM
Name: M WHITLOCK
E-mail address: WHITLOCKJH@AOL.COM
Saturday, January 26th 2002 - 07:05:28 AM
Name: martha giffen
E-mail address: margif2@aol.com
Comments:Robbie, it has been a year since we've not heard your voice. I am still so sad and miss you alot. You were a ray of sunshine to me. No matter where I saw you, you would always have that smile on your face that immediately made me smile too. . . . . that twinkle in your eye that would make me laugh. You were truly a joy to be around. Unlike many young people, you always seemed to open yourself up to me and made me feel like I was more than just "Jimmy's mom". You made me feel like we were friends and I will always love you for that. You would tease me in that charming way of yours. I would just shake my head and you would give me that great grin. You were taken from us way too soon but you left me a heart full of memories and I will never forget you. You left a mark on our family that can never be erased. Not only were you Jimmy's friend but you also always treated Will and Ben just like younger brothers. We all miss you and we all love you. .
Tuesday, December 25th 2001 - 09:23:24 PM
Name: Aunt Donna
E-mail address: Gidgetandbeau.com
Comments:Dear Jenn and Robbie,

I've been reading and crying and remembering but most of
all missing you two. I know God is carrying Debbie, Larry,
Carol, Willie and all the rest of us. I sometimes try to
imagine just how wonderful heaven must be. I have your
pictures on my fridge so that I can see you every time I go
thru the kitchen. You would both be so proud of your moms
and dads. God is doing so much in their lives. Jenn, I
know you were looking forward to the baby boom we have going
and I believe that God lets you celebrate the wonderful
blessings He sends down to us. Sweetie I love and I miss
you both with all my heart. Tell Grandaddy I love and miss
him too. I can't wait to be with you. I'm serving the
Lord with all my heart now and I wish I had never wasted so
many years. I hope we get new voices to sing with, or you
know I'll be in trouble. I feel better now it feels like I
have visited with you guys. I love you Jenny and I love
you Robbie. I will see you soon!!!


Love eternally,

Aunt Donna























god lets you
Thursday, August 9th 2001 - 09:14:22 PM
Name: Dan O'Sullivan
E-mail address: dannyo@ev1.net
Comments:May you always find the peace of the Lord, and know that
someday you will walk again with your beloved in the
presence of Christ Jesus our Lord.

DanO
Tuesday, July 24th 2001 - 10:10:45 PM
Name: Tracy
E-mail address: rytrav95@aol.com
Comments:I am so sorry that you or anyone has to go through such a traggic loss! I fully understand the pain and longing that go with this loss for I myself lost both of my dear sons in car accident as well. I find myself asking and wondering so many questions as you must as well. I am a part of arms of love and am visiting memorial pages to get to know all you fine ladies please know that my prayers are with you and your families!! God Bless You!!! Love to you, Your friend Tracy mommy to Ryan and Travis my precious little angels!!
Tuesday, July 3rd 2001 - 02:45:09 AM
Name: katye fuglaar
E-mail address: kfugla6773@www.business.uab.edu
Comments:it has been a long 7 months. i never imagined my life without jenn in it. i haven't written in a while. i haven't been able to. jenn, gosh i miss you. i'm glad robbie made you so happy. i wish robbie and i could have known each other better than we did. stacie and i go see your family as often as we can. it's good to see them. i know you're in a better place, but sometimes i'm just selfish and i wish you were still here. i want to hear your voice again and giggle about life. one day.... i'm glad robbie's parents are moving out closer to yours. i know you would have loved it. debs,larry,and austin-i think about ya'll all the time. i love you and i'll come see you soon. love, katye
Monday, June 11th 2001 - 07:12:02 PM
Name: Debbie Castleberry
E-mail address: LVC1225@aol.com
Comments:Ohhhhh Jennifer. Sweetheart my heart is breaking in grief today that floods my very being. I try to communicate my hurt but it is sometimes overwhelming to express. Today is one of those days. I made it through Mother's Day and received a carnation in the service as a tribute for the mothers. Oh sweetie, how I wish you could have had the honor of looking into the precious face of your own baby. Jennifer, you always were so beautiful. Both inside and outside. People often misunderstood your shyness but I knew you. You were a precious gift of God to me and I pray I can be with you soon. I was given a rose the day you were born and I am thankful for everyday God allowed me to be with you. How I miss your hugs, love and laughter. I will never understand why I had to give up such a wonderful gift but I am resting in the assurance that we will not be separated for eternity. When I went to Toledo Bend, I seemed to be walking in your shoes. It was wonderful to see things that we were never able to share together. Oh Jennifer, I hurt so badly today the words are difficult. I miss you and Robbie so much. Robbie, so many things son remind me of you. It seems you saw good in most all things and had a way to be happy in the most difficult times. I admire your courage and joy for life. I miss your teasing and watching you make everyone smile. Thank you for being my friend. I dread going back to work and the same envirnment. I will try to be as brave as both of you have shown me. I will miss the lunch break where I was allowed to talk to you Jennifer. It will be hard to walk in and see where I was the day my life changed forever. No, I'm not the same and never will be. But I hope in time to be a better person for God's purpose.....whatever that might be. I see your Dad's grief overpowering him. He cannot bring himself to look at this page yet and I wish he could. So many precious thoughts and wishes are recorded on these pages. He has changed so much. I pray for him to have strength to press on. Austin and Amanda bring joy here. You never know what to expect from them They are entertaining to observe. I wish you could have known Amanda better. I think in time you would have been close to each other. As I have been trying to get the pool ready to open.....all I can see is you two. I see memories of you playing by the pool, in the water.... diving off the board..... making homemade icecream.... laying in the hammock, playing the radio LOUD!!! and of course fishing.
Yes, I am missing you greatly today...... Love Debs (Jenn's Mom)

Oh, precious God the Father, please allow me to remember each detail of their lives and how much you blessed me being a part. Help me to let go of the grieving and hold on to the celebration they are embracing. I hope that in some point in my life I can go through all my memory banks without tears flooding my being. Lift our hearts today with the embrace of your loving hands and give me strength, courage, wisdom and love to do the tasks you place before me. Father, help me focus on those I can help through you and reserve my place in heaven by these precious children. I'm not home yet.....but I am homesick. I want to be careful to hurt none, love many, touch lives for you and be a vessel for your use. Fill me up Lord and allow me to lean into your arms of love with peace. Father, lift each grieving heart with your whisper and loving assurance. Please, Lord let all know how much you have prepared for us and the strength that is available to allow us to walk daily in your grace. Thank you Lord, for being there 24 hours a day to hear the plea from your servant. AMEN
Wednesday, May 30th 2001 - 09:24:47 AM
Name: Robbie's Dad
Comments:Robbie and Jenny,
This is a year of firsts. Our first Christmas without your excited faces and thoughtful gifts. Our first New Year's Eve with no fireworks lit by the both of you, in the middle of the street, as you scramble to avoid being blown away. Our first March 9th birthday for Teri and I without you Robbie, who shared that special birthday with us. Our first Mothers Day without you has come and gone and left in its wake anguish without end.
Your mothers have been drawn together and have formed an unbreakable bond of love and sharing of memories that are not only lovely but merciless in thir sadness. I can see the misery of lonliness in both their eyes as they try to adjust to a life without both of you in it. It is often times unbearable and there is no solace I can offer them or words I can utter to make them feel better. I feel so helpless then.
Our first tournament trip without you there to water the plants and feed the pets and miss us and welcome us home with your smile and excitement and love. Our first trip to granny's house without you both to go ride the hogs and go four wheeling in the mud and washing the truck off at Missy's house so I wouldn't know.
We will make our first trip to Michigan to visit Grandpa Rouleau without you in July. I cannot imagine the trip without you there with us. We will go to our first Classic without you in August and we will miss you more than you both could ever have imagined.
Soon we will place a monument, for the first time, on the graves of one of our children. A task that I prayed for many years never to have to perform. God grant that I never have to do it again.
How I wish I could turn back time and just delay your leaving that parking lot for just 30 seconds on that night. You were two of the happiest and most loving individuals I have ever known and It breaks my heart each time I think of what your families and friends lost when you were called home to God. I love you both dearly and miss you so very much.
Friday, May 25th 2001 - 12:24:11 PM
Name: Sammie Jo Stainbrook
E-mail address: stainbroo4@aol.com
Comments:My words are not going on paper as they are through my mind and heart as i try to write this for the third time. But I hope you can understand them. Yesterday was mothers day and i was anguished at the thought of having to work. I woke up got ready for work knowing it was going to be a long day.I found in that 7 hour shift you were all weighing heavy on my heart and mind. I think god's way of saying how selfish of me to complain. And i realized he was right. I can only imagine how long your day was and how painful, I pray you found solice in knowing Robbie and Jennifer spent this day with God and I know shined brightly as ever on you two wonderful mothers.. Carole, As a wonderful friend you are I can only imagine the gift of having you as a mother. Robbie was blessed when god gave him the gift of a mother like you. And god blessed you with a beautiful son hencing you the title of Mom.... I was blessed as god gave me a wonderful mother, one I admire, love and cherish. God's gift is everlasting as I know in heaven Mom and I when this life is old will be strategizing about bass fishing. mom still passing on her lessons to me... as will you be... what i am wanting to say is you and willie are so very special to me and your family is my family. It is not everyday in life i meet someone as wonderful as the two of you and can not only call you true friends, but claim you as my family as well.... I just want you to both know I love you and though i cannot through words or any measure ease your pain, I can let you know I love you and that I am your friend and as a friend am here for you..... robbie and Jennifer were and are two very special people. they both were raised and loved by two very wonderful families, god's gift to them... We love you and are always thinking of you.... God bless








Monday, May 14th 2001 - 06:40:09 AM
Name: Ralph Baker
E-mail address: baker_ralph@juno.com
Comments:Dear Robbie and Jennifer,

You represented perhaps the very best in what life is about.
Living life to the fullest and loveing others, and that in itself is a reflection or glimpse of that precious life to many who didnt know you like we know you..

You have ignited a torch in our hearts, we ache to see you
both again, and sometimes we cant function because of
that loss, and we fold under the pressure. Not wanting
to deal with pain, we cant speak for fear of upsetting
those around us and we anguish quietly about things known
only to god.. or worse that we run from it, only there isnt
a place to run or hide..

My comfort is knowing that one day we will be reunited
and we will see you again..

My comfort is knowing where you are.

God knows our heart, and he knows our burdens and
he knows what we can and cannot handle..
and I know he is there..

I take comfort in that too..

and I know that I have two smiling faces beaming down
on me at this very time.. how happy you both must be..

My heart goes out to Willie, Carole, Larry and Debbie
and our family.. I dont have anything to help with
such a loss, only that I might point in the direction
of the one who can help and the one who
can ease the pain..

and he is there..


Robbie and Jennifer you will never be forgotten on this
earth by us.. the torch is lit in our hearts to see you
again ignited by love and memories of those who knew you
best..

and Robbie I never got to thank you and Jenny for that fried
turkey you cooked
on thanksgiving it was wonderful..



Love always,

Ralph








Saturday, May 12th 2001 - 11:59:47 PM
Name: Robbie's Dad
Comments:A POEM FOR ROBBIE; INSPIRED BY LOVE, COMPOSED BY ME

WHEN I PRAY
DOES HE TELL YOU
AND DOES HE TELL YOU
WHAT I SAY
DOES HE TELL YOU
HOW I MISS YOU
EACH AND EVERY DAY
DOES HE TELL YOU
THAT I'M SORRY
I COULD NOT COME ALONG
AND DOES HE TELL YOU
HOW I'LL BE HAPPY
WHEN HE CALLS ME HOME

DOES HE TELL YOU
WHEN YOUR MOTHER
WEEPS FROM DUSK TILL DAWN
AND DOES HE TELL YOU
WHEN YOUR DADDY
FINDS IT DIFFICULT
TO BE STRONG
DOES HE EVER MENTION
THE PAIN WE'RE GOING THROUGH
AND THE LONLINESS WE SUFFER
FROM THE LOSS OF YOU

HAS HE OPENED UP
MY HEART TO YOU
JUST FOR YOU TO SEE
THE LOVE AND ADMIRATION THERE
SINCE GIVING YOU TO ME
AND WHEN YOU WALK
THE TWO OF YOU
THROUGH HEAVEN'S STREETS OF GOLD
DOES HE LET YOU LOOK DOWN
UPON ME OR EVEN BE SO BOLD
TO LET YOU LISTEN TO MY
LOVING THOUGHTS OF YOU
THAT FILL MY HEART AND SOUL

DO YOU SIT WITH JENNY
POP AND UNCLE FORD
GRANDADDY BAKER, UNCLE JC, LOLA
AND ALL WHO'VE GONE BEFORE
TO SING HIS PRAISE AND GLORY
TO GLORIFY HIS NAME
DO YOU WORSHIP HIM
CONSTANT AND ETERNAL
WITH ALL THE ANGEL THRONG
THANKING HIM WITH ALL YOUR HEART
FOR JESUS THE LAMB OF GOD
Tuesday, May 1st 2001 - 08:50:35 AM
Name: Linda S.
E-mail address: lgs57@txcr.net
Homepage URL: http://jeremy2575.homestead.com/index.html
Comments:Debbie, I am so sorry for your loss, I know how your heart hurts, and how much you miss your daughter, I welcome you to
our Arms of Love group. I hope you will find some comfort there, and I look forward to getting to know you. May God blees you and touch you with His love.....
Linda
Friday, April 27th 2001 - 08:40:45 AM
Name: Jan Hernandez (Lora's mom)
E-mail address: jlh44@hotmail.com
Homepage URL: http://www.angelfire.com/mt/vieja/index.html
Comments:Dear Debbie, and family,

I am so sorry for your loss... as you know, we lost our
Lora on May 22, 1999, but your daughter died 3 days after
Lora's 20th birthday--I remember the days in that week
vividly, and to know you and your family were entering such
loss, such devastation at the same time--tears at my
heartstrings. We welcome you into our Christian support
group with open arms--href="http://www.angelfire.com/mt2/grieving/">Arms of
Love
.
Thursday, April 26th 2001 - 04:16:19 PM
Name: Renee' Baker
Comments:Robbie and Jennifer i just wanted to say that I hope ya'll
had a good easter. Mr. and Mrs. Cook I hope ya'll are
hanging in there. I am glad to hear that you are moving
closer to him and jennifer and their fa mily. I will still
think about ya'll everyday. If ya'll ever need anyhting you
know that I am here for you. Jennifer's fa mily I pray
ya'll are doing okay. Hope everyone had a good easter love
Renee
Wednesday, April 25th 2001 - 08:10:29 PM
Name: Robbie's Dad, Willie Cook
E-mail address: ebcwbfa@aol.com
Comments:It has been over four months now and I still find it almost
unbearable each time I am reminded that Robbie and Jennifer
are no longer with us. Each afternoon is an exercise in
pain as I approach and pass the site of the accident, on my
way home from work. I still cringe at, and abhor the
thought of what terror they might have experienced those
final few seconds of their lives. It is a thought that I
cannot for the life of me keep from entering my mind and it
makes me shudder to my very core. I have relived those
three hours, from six thirty to nine thirty on December
fifteenth, at least ten thousand times in the last four
months. Meeting those four police cars, travelling towards
my house in procession, while knowing in my heart where and
why they were doing it, is a nightmare I lived and I cannot
seem to awaken myself. I await for our lives to return to
normal, all the time knowing and realizing that there will
never be a "NORMAL" again because Robbie and Jennifer were
part of "NORMAL".
Having so many friends, who have offered words of comfort
and assurance, has been the force that has kept me moving
these last 130 days. People who have experienced the same
loss as well as those who can only guess at what it must be
like, have been so kind and supportive. The people of Bay
Springs Baptist Church, where Jennifer's parents and many
of her family attend and where Robbie found that Jesus
Christ is truly the answer to all our problems, has
welcomed Carole and I into their midst and surrounded us
with love and hope. They are truly a wonderful group of
souls.
Robbie and Jenny; Carole and I have purchased the nine
acres of land that Larry and Debbie had set aside to give
to you to build your lives upon. We will move there this
summer, to be nearer to Jenny's family, the church and both
your graves. We will become part of the community and
nurture the land that was to be your home. We will love it
there just as both of you would have.
Robbie; though we leave behind a house where you spent many
happy years, we will take those memories with us and your
spirit will follow. The hardest thing will be the packing
and moving of your special things, which still remain in
your room today. Your mom and I still have not the
emotional strength to enter and seperate it all. It still
smells like you. We will do it together when the time
comes. God will provide the strength. There are still
note cards all over it with messages from Jenny expressing
her love for you and wishing you a happy day.
We miss you both so terribly.
We plan to go to Michigan to visit your Grandad this
summer. I don't know if I can handle going fishing up
there this time. You loved it so much there and we had so
many wonderful times and summers there that it just cannot
be fun without you. There were so many wonderful
experiences there that was shared by you, your mom and I.
I can't imagine it without you. I love you son and I want
you and Jenny to know that I have wished a thousand times
since that awful night that it would have been me taken in
place of you two.
But God does know best, and you both belong to Him. May
His will always be done and every thing for His glory. You
are not lost to Him, only to us, and that for a short time
only. I will see you again and we will rejoice in love and
happiness for all time. I just miss you so much that it
seems that I am frozen in time. My prayer is that He has
conveyed these thoughts of mine to you both.
Tuesday, April 24th 2001 - 12:38:20 PM
Name: Debbie Castleberry
E-mail address: LVC1225@aol.com
Comments:Dear Carol & Willie,
Just a note to say my thoughts are with you today and every
day. I miss Jennifer and Robbie so bad it is hard to
breath but there is a peace that floods my very being
because I KNOW where they are today. As Easter approaches,
this year will be so much more precious than ever before.
I look at what God was willing to do for them and us and to
give his only son for us. Because of this and only this, I
can face tomorrow with hope that he will collect the rest
of us soon. Our babies are in the loving embrace of Jesus
himself and we need to be strong for them. There is not a
day that goes by I do not cry and mourn for them. Oh the
days seem so long without seeing them. I wish I could ease
your pain. My heart knows how yours feels. Carol, Willie,
I thank God for allowing me to know you and love you. Your
friendship is priceless to me while I am here a little
longer. I want you to know your son made a difference in
this family and we will treasure every minute we were
allowed to know him. Soon he and Jennifer will escort us
to a new place. I pray life passes fast and we achieve the
plan God has set before us. Thank you for making my little
girl happy. She spoke so kindly of you and enjoyed hanging
out with you guys. I'm forever grateful for your
hospitality and friendship. Just know, as long as there
is breath, I will pray for you. Your friend in Christ,
Jennifer's Mom, Love, Debbie
Friday, April 6th 2001 - 03:31:13 PM
Name: Kim Barrett
E-mail address: kimjberlybarrett16@hotmail.com
Comments:Willie and Carol:
Just last week my grandfather passed away. He had been sick
for a good while from Altz-Heimers disease. It was hard to
deal with when I found out. (My, my brother, and my sister
were all down at Panama City for spring break.) I was trying
to look at things from the positive side of things because I
had to be the strong one and help my mother. I thought about
how happy he must be right now to be in heaven with my
grandmother (who just passed away 10 mon. ago). He was
truly lost with out her. I looked at it as if he was in a
better place because he didn't have to suffer any longer. I
thought that if I tried to look at it like that then it
wouldn't hurt as much but nothing could stop the hurt. It
made me think of you both and how much you must hurt. It is
never easy to let someone go. The closer you are to them the
harder it is. I want you both to know that if you need
anything at all I am here for both of you and you both will
be in my prayers. I love you both! HAPPY EASTER!(a little
early I know)
Friday, April 6th 2001 - 12:51:35 PM
Name: Beth Lansford
E-mail address: dixiedarling17@aol.com
Comments:I was thinking of Jennifer and Robbie and felt inspired to
write. Mr. Larry and Mrs. Debbie I just want you both to
know how much I love and admire you. When I see you at
church on Sunday I always seem to smile. You are both so
very strong and courageous and I look up to you so much for
that. Jennifer was such a sweet and loving girl and I'm so
happy that she is spending eternal life with her Savior
Jesus Christ. When I think about her I'm always overwhelmed
with a feeling of sadness but just knowing that she's in
Heaven is a great comfort to me. To the family of Robbie: I
know in my heart that he was a wonderful young man and I
can't thank God enough for Robbie's new born Faith in
Christ. I just want you all to know that the memory of
Jennifer and Robbie will always remain in my heart! I LOVE
YOU ALL!! ~Beth
Tuesday, April 3rd 2001 - 09:03:49 PM
Name: Renee' Baker
Comments:Dear Robbie i just wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday!!! I
hope you had a good one. The other day I was talking to
some old friends and we were talking about all the good
times everybody had with you. I pray that you and
Jennifer's family is doing okay I know they miss ya'll
alot. but everyone will be able to see you again. Till then
have fun and Happy Birthday. Love Renee'
Wednesday, March 21st 2001 - 03:54:16 PM
Name: Carole Cook
E-mail address: EBCWBFA@aol.com
Comments:My Baby, your birthday was yesterday, and I had all
thoughts of you that day. Remembering just that, your
birth day. I will never forget, how I didn't quite know
what to do with you. I was new to you and you were new to
me. We finally got it together, and as I well know we
became best friends your whole life. We had our moments,
but that is suppose to be what moms and kids do. You were
my whole life and I hope that you knew that. As Austin and
Amanda prepare for their day of marriage today, I know you
and Jenny are looking down on them and giving them a
helping hand. You both would be right there in the middle
of it. During the ceremony Debbie and I and I know Austin
and Amanda will be thinking of both of you as they take
their vows of love for one another. You will be in our
hearts and our minds. Your birthday was spenting thinking
of you by your dad and Teri. It was a sad birthday for
them without you but they had the memories of all of the
ones you had together. Every day to me is your birthday
cause I will celebrate each day as if you were just born to
me. I love you and and as each day goes by without you I
am that much closer to getting to be with you again.
MOM
Saturday, March 10th 2001 - 09:36:52 AM
Name: Kim Barrett
E-mail address: kimberlybarrett16@hotmail.com
Comments:Willie and Carol,
Hey there again! How are ya'll doing? I just want to
tell ya'll that you are always in my prayers. I wish the
best for both of you. I really enjoyed coming up to your
house for the meeting. I had a really good time although I
think I ate too much. Carol you were telling me that
Robbie's truck was put in The World of Wheels. They thought
that he might win in his division, I was just wondering if
he did. I definitely thought he should have b/c his truck
looked really nice. You and Willie are very lucky and Robbie
was lucky to have such wonderful friends like Robbie's. Most
people would rather fix their truck up than someone else's.
That just amazes me on how sweet they would do that. Robbie
must have been a really special person to have such good
friends and I am sure that he was with such wonderful
parents like ya'll. I am always here for ya'll if you need
anything at all. I will keep ya'll in my prayers. I Love
Ya'll Both!
Wednesday, February 28th 2001 - 11:59:35 AM
Name: jerry hunter
E-mail address: angler@apex.net
Comments:Dear Robbie & Jennifer
It is with a heavey heart as I type this to the two of
you.Robbie,I will neaver forget the first time I met you
and your MOM & Dad,do you remember? It was on KY Lake,and
you were 12 years old, your Mom had an upcoming tournement
and we spent the week end TRYING to teach her how to catch
a fish. For some reason you could not get the fact that my
name was Jerry not Larry, so now I must live the rest of my
life with your Mom calling me Larry, it's all your fault,
but thats ok I love you anyway. Jennifer: I only wish I
could have got to met you and know you. I know you must be
a wonderful lady. I look foreword to meeting you in that
wonderful place. I know that you,Robbie and Donnel are
having a big time up there looking down here at us and I
know I will meet you and get to know you in a better place.
Love Hunter
Tuesday, February 27th 2001 - 05:09:19 PM
Name: jerry hunter
E-mail address: angler@apex.net
Comments:Dear Robbie & Jennifer
It is with a heavey heart as I type this to the two of
you.Robbie,I will neaver forget the first time I met you
and your MOM & Dad,do you remember? It was on KY Lake,and
you were 12 years old, your Mom had an upcoming tournement
and we spent the week end TRYING to teach her how to catch
a fish. For some reason you could not get the fact the my
name was Jerry not Larry, so now I must live the rest of my
life with your Mom calling me Larry, it's all your fault,
but thats ok I love you anyway. Jennifer: I only wish I
could have got to met you and know you. I know you must be
a wonderful lady. I look foreword to meeting you in that
wonderful place. I know that you,Robbie and Donnel are
having a big time up there looking down here at us and I
know I will meet you and get to know you in a better place.
Llove
Tuesday, February 27th 2001 - 05:07:29 PM
Name: Kim Barrett
E-mail address: KimberlyBarrett16@hotmail.com
Comments:Willie and Carol,
Hey there again! How are ya'll doing? I just want to
tell ya'll that you are always in my prayers. I wish the
best for both of you. I really enjoyed coming up to your
house for the meeting. I had a really good time although I
think I ate too much. Carol you were telling me that
Robbie's truck was put in The World of Wheels. They thought
that he might win in his division, I was just wondering if
he did. I definitely thought he should have b/c his truck
looked really nice. You and Willie are very lucky and Robbie
was lucky to have such wonderful friends like Robbie's. Most
people would rather fix their truck up than someone else's.
That just amazes me on how sweet they would do that. Robbie
must have been a really special person to have such good
friends and I am sure that he was with such wonderful
parents like ya'll. I am always here for ya'll if you need
anything at all. I will keep ya'll in my prayers. I Love
Ya'll Both!
Tuesday, February 27th 2001 - 12:38:32 PM
Name: Willie Cook
E-mail address: ebcwbfa@aol.com
Comments:It has been over two months now since two of the highest
priorities of my life were lost to me. Up until this time
I have been unable to sit here and try to convey my
feelings for Robbie and Jennifer. It has taken most of two
months just to be able to read, more than one at a time,
the wonderful thoughts and messages expressed here on these
pages without a total breakdown of my emotions.

I never REALLY knew the depth of love I held for Robbie, or
the depth of my faith in God, until these past few weeks.
I never REALLY appreciated what a wonderful blessing God
bestowed upon me when he breathed the breath of life into
Robbie and placed him in my care. Would that with this
recent realization came there the opportunity to begin anew.

Robbie, my son, it seems rather silly to sit here and hope
to communicate to you through the keyboard of this
computer. But as I think it and as I write it, I trust and
pray that God in His infinite wisdom and all-powerful
abilities will bring this message to you.

As your birthday approaches I cannot help but reflect on
how happy your mom and I were on the day you were born. As
it turned out I was doubly blessed on that day, for not
only was it your birthday but mine as well. To add to our
happiness my sister, who was married to your mom's brother,
also gave birth to your beautiful double first cousin, Teri
on that same day. You two could have passed for twins and
have always looked like brother and sister.

It was as if you could not wait to be born. You were over-
active from the moment you first moved within your mother's
womb. You were born fighting the doctor and rightfully
earned your nickname of "Scrapper" that day. Memories of
your nineteen short years flood and occupy my mind now
every waking moment it seems. I was fortunate to be able
to spend countless and wonderful hours caring for you as a
baby since your mom worked evenings. We played hard and we
laughed even harder.

You fell out of a shopping cart AND the little league ball
park stands before you were six months old. You never
could be still and your curiosity was a sight to behold.
You took your mom's bent-wood rocking chair apart when you
were only four and then put it back together. You loved
tools and hammered untold pounds of nails right into the
ground. With each new accomplishment, injury or happy
moment my heart would almost burst with love for you. When
you were hurt, I could not help but cry with you and when
you were happy, I shed crocodile tears for you.

We traveled together on my job, you caught me being the
tooth fairy on a trip to Vicksburg, you ate fried dill
pickles in Hattisburg, I coached you for four years in
baseball, we fished together, hunted together and worked
together. You filled my life with joy and happiness beyond
measure. Your goal seemed to be to make your mom and I
proud to call you our son and you accomplished that goal
beyond your greatest expectations. You complained very
little, even when sick, and you took your failures and
disappointments in stride. You dealt with your sorrows and
a broken heart on two occasions with quiet acceptance and
went on about your business. You were very forgiving of
those who hurt or bullied you and your heart seemed almost
too soft and too big for such a little fellow.

Of course you grew up too fast for me and I will always see
you as the little tyke who loved to dance to the music and
jump up and down with delight when we would take you to
Showbiz Pizza. Or the kid who sat on the bench throughout
his final all-star game and hit one over the fence, to win
the game for his team, when he finally got in the game. I
will NEVER forget the look on your face when you rounded
third base and found your mom and I with your eyes. What a
smile... and you just KNEW how proud we were for you and
your accomplishment. The birthday boy who fell and split
his chin, and stained the ice red at his ice skating party,
and had to go with his mom and get stitches while I stayed
and kept the party alive. And finally as a young man who
worked hard, met a wonderful soul mate, started building
the truck of his dreams and had such good friends that they
put the finishing touches on, entered it in the World Of
Wheels, and won first place in memory of you and Jennifer.

We set the standards high, but you accepted and lived them,
and now I know you are proud that that was the way things
were. Proud of you I was and am son; love you I did and
always will. I miss you with every beat of my heart and
sometimes the hand of despair grips my heart and crushes it
till the breath literally leaves my body. There is no hurt
like the pain I am experiencing since losing you. But
there is no joy greater than the joy of knowing where you
are now.

I did not have nearly long enough to spend with you, I
would never have been able to give you all the things I
wanted for you, but I know that you now know just how much
I love you. I know that you are in a far, far better place
than I am and that given the choice you would choose to
remain in that place rather than return here. Given the
same choice, I would also choose for you to remain there,
son. My pledge to you and God is to live my life so that I
may join you in that wonderful place, where we can love,
sing and play together forever.

Jennifer, my sweet Jenny. You were the best thing that
ever happened to my son. Your positive influence in his
life was visible from the moment he met you. And what a
wonderful influence it was. Your kind and loving ways not
only helped Robbie through a difficult time in his life,
you and your family played a big part in bringing him to
Christ and his salvation.

I looked forward each and every day to having you try and
sneak up on us when you came for dinner. I could not wait
to see what special project you had in mind for you and
Robbie to tackle each week. Your smile was your trademark
and I never tired of seeing you display it to the world.
During the two years that you were part of our lives I came
to regard you more as a daughter than as Robbie's
girlfriend. I always wanted a daughter. I will never have
one, but if I could, I would want her to be just like you.
You were a tribute to your upbringing and it was obvious
how much you loved my son. He, in return, loved you with
all his heart, as you now so well know. We will always
love you and miss you terribly. Thank you for coming into
our lives and bringing so much love and joy with you. Each
trip we took together, each activity we shared and every
experience will be a memory more cherished than the most
precious gem or riches.

My prayer is that God will make each and every parent
recognize what a true blessing and privilege it is to be
given a child to nurture. That all parents will love and
cherish their children with all their hearts, bring them up
to seek God, and honor Him for being chosen to be so richly
blessed.
Thursday, February 22nd 2001 - 10:07:29 PM
Name: Ronnie (Jenny's uncle)
E-mail address: martin.ronnie@epenergy.com
Comments:Jenny it was a honor and privilege to have known you. You
were such a sweet and beautiful young woman. The pain we
feel can only be diminished by knowing that you are now
worshiping at the feet of Jesus and that we too will
someday sit beside you in His presence. Praise God!!!
Debbie and Larry my heart aches for you and I pray for you
every day. I have been amazed at the grace and dignity both
of you have shown since Jenny's death and seeing how both
of you are letting God work in your lives has been a source
of comfort and inspiration to me.
Robbie eventhough I didn't know you long, it was long
enough to know that you were a fine young man and to see
how much joy you brought in Jennifer's life. I rejoice in
the fellowship you know have in Heaven with Christ Jesus.
Carol and Willie please know that I pray for you both every
day. Please let me know if I can ever do anything for
either of you. Yours in Christ...Ronnie

Romans 8:28

Thursday, February 22nd 2001 - 07:30:03 PM
Name: Debbie Castleberry
E-mail address: lvc1225@aol.com
Comments:As Jennifer's mom and Robbie's friend, December 15, 2000
was beginning a new day and much closer to Christmas. My
husband was working out of town and we had celebrated by
birthday on December 13. Jennifer brought in "Captain D's
for dinner and spent and blessed time with me. That night
Robbie also brought in "home-made" fudge and cards. This
was the last night I saw Robbie. I hugged him and told him
I loved him as I prepared to go to bed that evening. He
told me he loved me too and smiled so sweet. The next
evening I left work to meet Jennifer to help her with her
Christmas shopping. What a blessed evening. We ate,
laughed, so friends from the past, and shopped so hard we
had completed her Christmas shopping that night. She
commented she had never finished that quick!!! I followed
her home and we were talking to each other on
little "remote radios". Sharing, loving, caring, smiling
and spending precious moments. We were listening to gospel
Christmas songs on the way home. It was about ll:30p.m.
when we got home and we were both tired and had to go to
work the next day.....we left the Christmas gifts in the
car and went in. We exchanged hugs and kisses and off to
bed. This was my last night on earth with my daughter.
You see on Friday night at about 7:00 p.m. she and Robbie
were driving to see his parents and they were on the
Highway to Heaven. Because they had trusted God with their
future and the salvation Jesus provided, I will be able to
be with them again. I feel however this story is not
over. Others need to know how to seal their futures with
the most important decision they could ever make. You see
there really is a Highway to Heaven. You won't find it on
a map, but it does exist. The Roman Road is explained in
the Book of Romans in the Bible, and it tells how to go to
heaven. The road begins at Romans l:l6. God is the source
of energy for our journey to heaven. He gives power for
salvation to all who believe. We needs God's power because
we all have a problem with sin. (Rom.3:23) "Sin means
missing the mark or falling short of God's intended
destination for us. None of us can reach that destination
on our own because all of us are sinners. When we work, we
earn money. Sin earns wages too---wages of death. Because
God loves all sinners, He provided another route: "The
wages of sinn is death; but the gift of God is eternal life
through Jesus Christ our Lord" (Romans 6:23). The HIGHWAY
TO HEAVEN is found in Romans l0:9 "If thou shalt confess
with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and believe in thine heart
that God has raised him from the dead, thou shalt be
saved." The Holy Spirit tells us we need to confess our
sin and ask for forgiveness. To confess Jesus as Lord
involves confessing (admitting) your sin and your need for
salvation. You must repent of your sin, turn away from the
direction in life that you have chosen and oben and serve
Jesus. To "believe in your heart" is to place your faith
in Jesus, trusting that He died on the cross to pay for
your sins (Romans 5:8). If you would like to have
salvation in Jesus Christ, pray a prayer like this one:
"LORD JESUS I CONFESS TO YOU MY SIN AND NEED FOR
SALVATION. I TURN AWAY FROM MY SIN AND PLACE MY FAITH IN
YOU AS MY SAVIOR AND LORD. AMEN .......... Share
your faith in Jesus with a Christian friend or pastor. I
know where these Children are and I heard both of them
confess and pray a similiar prayer. Their names were
recorded in the "Book of Life" and gave them entry to
heaven. If you died today......you can be sure of where
you will spend eternity. It's only a prayer away... The
price was already paid and it depends only on your
acceptance. Love, Debbie (Jennifer's mom, Robbie's
friend)
Thursday, February 22nd 2001 - 06:07:28 AM
Name: Aunt Donna
Comments:Dear Jenn & Robbie,
I just got a computer today. This is my first time to visit
your site. Jenn, I can't type so Mandy is typing this for
me. I know you would get a kick out of that. We have been
reading all of your mail & have been crying & enjoying
listening to people talking about you & Robbie. I didn't
realize how close this would make me feel to you. Jenny, I
miss you so much!! You would be so proud of your mom, dad,
& Austin. In everything they do, they love you & praise the
Lord. Robbie, I never got to thank you enough for helping me
with Alicia's wedding. You were so sweet! I enjoyed talking
to you so much. Jenny, you were just a little sweetheart.
Everything I asked, you helped me with & had the sweetest
smile. We were thrilled when the pictures came back & you
were in so many. I thank God that I got to be your aunt for
21 wonderful years. I can't wait to see you again. Jenn,
check in the book for a new member, her name is Amanda
Hyde. She is a new sister in Christ. I love you sweetie!
Robbie, I love you! Thank you God, that we don't have to
say goodbye. Thank you God, that our circle in Heaven won't
be broken. Say Hey to Grandaddy for me. I Love You, Aunt
Donna
Wednesday, February 21st 2001 - 07:55:09 PM
Name: Aunt Donna
Wednesday, February 21st 2001 - 07:42:26 PM
Name: Charlotte & Clifton Owen
E-mail address: dukdawgz@juno.com
Comments:Our thoughts and our paryers are with you all. All Though
we did not know the both of you. We fell the pain of your
family, you've left behind. Know this though, as time goes
by it gets just a little bit better(Heart).. Have good
memories of the two-- Son, Daughter, Friends,--Keep those
thoughts close and keep a smile about you..
Wednesday, February 21st 2001 - 03:33:17 PM
Name: Lane Garriott
E-mail address: lane69420@aol.com
Comments:Robbie and Jennifer are the best people I know. Im just
glad that i did get to meet them and be friends with the
both of them.
Sunday, February 18th 2001 - 03:53:16 PM
Name: Sammie Jo Stainbrook
E-mail address: stainbroo4@aol.com
Comments:Always in our hearts and on our minds each and
everyday......Our prayers are filled with each of you...
Sunday, February 18th 2001 - 06:11:02 AM
Name: Martin& Melody Edwards
E-mail address: minnowone@aol.com
Saturday, February 17th 2001 - 04:55:09 AM
Name: Renee' Baker
Comments:Robbie and Jennifer I wanted to wish you a Happy Valentines
Day! I am sure ya'll had a good one even though your family
and friends couldn't spend it with you. Robbie I think of
you and your family everyday. I miss talking to you and
telling you all my problems. I need someone to talk to, but
I do talk to you in my prayers everynight. One day I will
be able to talk to you and see you again to have the
wonderful friend back I would talk to, and you can let me
know how you and Jennifer are. I am sure ya'll are doing
great. I was so happy to see your truck in the Worl of
Wheels. I am sure you looking down on it made you happy.
Everyone is missing both of ya'll everymuch. The other day
I got a ticket and I wish you were here so you could laugh
at me for my first ticket I thought of you when I was
getting it. Today I was going through some pictures and i
saw one with you trying to push my mom in the pool. It just
made me laugh and remember the time you would always get
your blanket and put it in peoples faces when it would
smell so bad. I did find a piece of your blanket on my
blanket. I am glad to know i have something that was
special to you because you were a very good friend to me
and I thankyou for that. Hope ya'll are doing well and
everyone misses ya'll very much, but I know that ya'll are
in heaven and God is taking of ya'll. I also wanted to say
that i was saved a month ago. Can't wait to see you again
and see that wonderful smile and Jennifer's to hopefully i
will be able to meet her. God Bless and we ya'll love you-
Renee'
Thursday, February 15th 2001 - 05:20:47 PM
Name: debbie Castleberry
E-mail address: lvc1225@aol.com
Comments:Jennifer, my special sweetheart. I just wanted you to know
you are on my heart today and everyday. It seems like only
yesterday you graced me with your presence. Oh, little one
we've shared so much. I thank God he allowed me to have
you for 21 beautiful years. We were able to share love in
so many ways. You were so easy to love!!! The pain I feel
is for me.... I miss you terribly. Written in tears, the
grief I feel is hard to express. But still every day we
spent is precious and every memory I will charish. What a
blessing you have been. Honey to just hold you again and
tell you again how proud I am of you. I am in complete awe
to know that part of me is standing in the presence of a
loving God that can keep you from hurt, lonliness, sorrow
or saddness. I look forward to the wonderful reunion
someday. I pray every night for God to tell you we miss
you but we will be with you soon. I look around at so many
people that don't know the kind of love we have been able
to share. If only they knew today could be the only day
that they have.
If I Knew
Hold your loved ones close today,
Whisper in their ear,
Tell them that you love them
And you'll always hold them dear,

For tomorrow is promised no one,
Young and old alike,
And today may be your last chance
To hold your loved one's tight.
Author Unknown

I'm deeply gratefully, that we did express and show each
other true love. Jennifer, you can never be replaced!! I
love you with all of my heart..... MOM

Robbie, son I miss you. I wondered all day today what you
and Jennifer would be doing to celebrate Valentine's Day.
I am so honored that I was allowed time to love you too.
What you are experiencing now has to be awesome, but we
miss your presence here. Robbie I will always love you and
look forward to the day you can introduce me to a new life.
Thank you for loving me and being a wonderful addition to
this family. I pray God will give the command soon to
collect the rest of us. I'm so ready to go, always
listening for the midnight cry!!! I hope to see you soon.
Your friend and sister in Christ, Debbie Castleberry
Wednesday, February 14th 2001 - 07:53:07 PM
Name: Terri - Robbies cousin
E-mail address: aamz2000@mindspring.com
Comments:The last time I saw Robbie was the first time I met
Jennifer.They are both so beautiful.I wonder sometimes why
they were both taken away from us, but then i stop and
think God never makes mistakes. I know they both are happy
and peaceful up in heaven and somehow that gives me peace
knowing that.When Robbie and I were younger we use to take
our blankies and put them in the refridgerator until they
got good and cold.Then we would sit and suck our fingers
with our blankies until the coldness wore off.this would
keep us entertained all day long.This is only one of my
favorite memories with Robbie.Theres so much I would have
liked to have shared with Robbie and its a comfort knowing
that one day i will still be able to.i love you
Tuesday, February 13th 2001 - 06:33:29 AM
Name: Terri - Robbies cousin
Comments:The last time I saw Robbie was the first time I met
Jennifer.They are both so beautiful.I wonder sometimes why
they were both taken away from us, but then i stop and
think God never makes mistakes. I know they both are happy
and peaceful up in heaven and somehow that gives me peace
knowing that.When Robbie and I were younger we use to take
our blankies and put them in the refridgerator until they
got good and cold.Then we would sit and suck our fingers
with our blankies until the coldness wore off.this would
keep us entertained all day long.This is only one of my
favorite memories with Robbie.Theres so much I would have
liked to have shared with Robbie and its a comfort knowing
that one day i will still be able to.i love you
Tuesday, February 13th 2001 - 06:31:48 AM
Name: Carole C.
E-mail address: EBCWBFA@AOL.COM
Comments:Robbie, my baby, it has been almost 2 months since I have
seen that smile, heard that laughter and "what's for
dinner". I miss you more than anyone can ever know. There
is not a minute, an hour, a day that goes ever so slowly by
that you are not in my thoughts. Your buddies got your
truck dressed up and took it to the World of Wheels like
you wanted to do and they got lst place for you. I know
you would have been dancing in the ailes for that. You got
to show your truck off to alot of people. I have never
been away from you more than a week your whole life and it
is so hard to not have you here. My heart breaks with the
pain of not having you close. I so look forward to the day
I can see you again in heaven. I pray every day that you
know how much I love you and miss you. Not only do you
have the hands of God to keep you, you still have Jennifer
by your side and helping to keep you safe there.
Valentines Day is coming and I know you would have roses
waiting for Jennifer but I will make sure she get some.
The pain inside me we only be gone when I can see you again
and it won't be long. Thank you for being who you are for
being my baby. I love you.........MOM
Monday, February 12th 2001 - 04:10:33 PM
Name: terri rouleau
E-mail address: aamtransport@mindspring.com
Comments:every night when i pray i alway ask God to tell you hello
for me and to remind you how much i love and miss
you i love you, terri
Monday, February 12th 2001 - 09:16:46 AM
Name: terri rouleau
E-mail address: aamtransport@mindspring.com
Comments:every night when i pray i alway ask God to tell you hello
for me and to remind you how much i love and miss you
Monday, February 12th 2001 - 09:15:49 AM
Name: terri rouleau
E-mail address: aamtransport@mindspring.com
Comments:every night when i pray i alway ask God to tell you hello
Monday, February 12th 2001 - 09:14:31 AM
Name: terri rouleau
E-mail address: aamtransport@mindspring.com
Comments:every night when i pray i alway ask God to tell you hello
Monday, February 12th 2001 - 09:14:30 AM
Name: terri rouleau
E-mail address: aamtransport@mindspring.com
Comments:robbie,just had you on my mind today you are missed so much
Monday, February 12th 2001 - 09:13:19 AM
Name: Katye Fuglaar
E-mail address: kfugla6773@www.business.uab.edu
Comments:Jenn-my true friend. You only have a precious few of
those, and she was one. I am so thankful for all of the
memories. We shared everything together. We laughed,
acted so goofy and crazy, cried, shared secrets and hopes
and dreams. All of our trips-- they were always an
adventure!! She was always there when I needed her-for
anything. She supported and loved me. She included me in
her family-I feel like the other sister, the other
daughter. There are so many wonderful things to remember
about her. She will always be with me in everything I do.
One day we will be together again in the best place of all-
Heaven. Until then, my sister, my friend.... I love
you Jenn!!
Thursday, February 8th 2001 - 01:08:56 PM
Name: Karla Bullard
E-mail address: kbullard@delrio.com
Comments:This is just such a beautiful tribute to both of them.
May God bless.
Monday, February 5th 2001 - 01:15:16 PM
Name: Madeline Smith
E-mail address: madeline@smith.net
Comments:My sincerest sympathy to both families. I feel very sad
about the loss of your loved ones. My prayers and thoughts
are with you. I learned of this trajedy through the
Women's Bass Fishing Association. I am not anyone that you
know, but as a mother I feel great empathy.
Sunday, February 4th 2001 - 07:50:23 PM
Name: Debbie Castleberry
E-mail address: lvc1225@aol.com
Comments:Oh, my baby girl. How I love you. Today I found your
Mother's Day card for 2000. Every where I look, I see
where you've been. I have always kidded you about being a
pack-rat. I'm so thankful you were. Every toy, or item
that was given to you is here. Oh....Jennifer, my heart
breaks to see you again. Soon, baby, soon. In God's
time. Now, the days are slow and somehow, because of your
loss it is painfully isolated. It's now been over a month
since I saw your beautiful smiling face. I can still see
you in my spirit. I look forward to sleep in hopes of
catching a dream of you. Jenny, you were and are my hero.
I've been so blessed to have been your mother. I so looked
forward to the day to be a grandmom by you. God had other
plans, I have to accept that. With his tender mercy and
grace, I will spend the rest of my time here with care to
do His precious will. I am indebted to him for making a
reunion some day possible. Sweetheart, know that every
night I pray he hugs you for me. I miss you so much it
rips at my very being but still....I have hope it won't be
too much longer that I can be with you. I love you!!!
'til then Love MOM
Wednesday, January 31st 2001 - 08:26:56 PM
Name: Patti Drake James
E-mail address: PattiJTx@Aol.com
Comments:No one knows quite what to say at a time of loss. I
celebrated the 30th birthday of my son as you lost your
loved ones. May GOD smile over your shoulder and make The
path for you to follow an easy one.
Patti James
Wednesday, January 31st 2001 - 07:41:28 PM
Name: Patti Drake James
E-mail address: PattiJTx@Aol.com
Comments:No one knows quite what to say at a time of loss. I
celebrated the 30th birthday of my son as you lost your
loved ones. My GOD smile over your shoulder and make The
path for you to follow an easy one.
Patti James
Wednesday, January 31st 2001 - 07:41:03 PM
Name: Kimberly BARRETT
E-mail address: kimberlybarrett@hotmail.com
Comments:Dear Willie and Carol,
I never got the pleasure of meeting Jennifer and Robbie
for I have just gotten the pleasure to meet ya'll. I am one
of the new junior members and we fished in Kentucky Lake
together for my first tournament. I really enjoyed it,
everyone was so sweet and really made me feel welcome. That
meant alot because I was really nervous at first. I know
that if I would have gotten to meet Jennifer and Robbie that
they would have been the sweetest people too. You can't be
around such wonderful people as you two and something not
wear off. Both of you are in my prayers and I love you both.
If there is ever anything that I can do feel free to contact
me because I will be happy to help in any way that I can.
God Bless you both.
Wednesday, January 31st 2001 - 10:13:51 AM
Name: Nikki Cheek
E-mail address: LABassNGal
Comments:"With Hope"
This is not at all how / We thought it was supposed to be /
We had so many plans for you / We had so many dreams / And
now you've gone away / And left us with the memoires of
your smile / And nothing we can say / And nothing we can
do / Can take away the pain / The pain of losing you, but /
We can cry with hope / We can say goodbye with
hope / 'Cause we know our goodbye is not the end, oh no /
And we can grieve with hope / 'Cause we believe with hope /
(There's a place by God's grace) / There's a place where
we'll see your face again / And never have I known /
Anything so hard to understand / And never have I
questioned more / The wisdom of God's plan / But through
the cloud of tears / I see the Father smile and say well
done / And I imagine you / Where you wanted most to be /
Seeing all your dreams come true / 'Cause now you're home /
And now you're free, and / We can cry with hope / We can
say goodbye with hope / 'Cause we know our goodbye is not
the end, oh no / And we can grieve with hope / 'Cause we
believe with hope / (There's a place by God's grace) /
There's a place where we'll see your face again / We have
this hope as an anchor / 'Cause we believe that
everything / God promised us is true, so / We can cry with
hope / We can say goodbye with hope / 'Cause we know our
goodbye is not the end, oh no / And we can grieve with
hope / 'Cause we believe with hope / (There's a place by
God's grace) / There's a place where we'll see your face
again / We wait with hope / And we ache with hope / We hold
on with hope / We let go with hope
1Thessalonians 4:13-14/Hebrews 10:23
Steven Curtis Chapman, Speechless
Tuesday, January 30th 2001 - 01:55:20 PM
Name: Malcolm & Janice Baker
E-mail address: MalcolmBaker@Compuserve.com
Comments:Our deepest heartfelt symphony goes to her family along
with our prayers. My she rest in peace forever.
Tuesday, January 30th 2001 - 12:19:52 PM
Name: Wayne, Darlene, Brooke & Candice Pate
E-mail address: GPate62746@aol.com
Comments:We want you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with
both families at this time. Just remeber to keep your eyes
on God, and he will see you thru this. And just remember
that we will all be together one day in Heaven. That is his
promise to all of us who believe.
Sunday, January 28th 2001 - 12:20:52 PM
Name: Darlene Rasco
E-mail address: Darleneras@aol.com
Comments:I remember Jennifer and the night we spent "all night" at
the baseball field. She was a trouper!!! May GOD bless
and keep her as I know he will.
Friday, January 26th 2001 - 09:30:14 PM
Name: Marilyn Biszmaier
E-mail address: mbisz@email.msn.com
Comments:Remember the ostrich eggs Robbie carved into various
designs and sometimes baskets.
Friday, January 26th 2001 - 06:33:21 PM
Name: Sylvia Graham
E-mail address: GRAHAM4REEL@aol.com
Comments:To Carole, Willie and the Castleberry family. I am so glad
I had the opportunity to interact with Robbie and Jennifer
the week of the WBFA Classic. They were such sweet and
caring kids. Both of them were always smiling and were so
willing to help all of us. God called home two of his
finnest earth angels. I pray for all of you that with
each day that passes, your pain is softer and your sorrow
is less. I pray that the lord comfort you and keep you
healthy and safe. God Bless, Sylvia Graham

Friday, January 26th 2001 - 06:20:22 PM
Name: Sylvia Graham
E-mail address: GRAHAM4REEL
Comments:To Carole, Willie and the Castleberry family. I am so glad
I had the opportunity to interact with Robbie and Jennifer
the week of the WBFA Classic. Both of them were always
smiling and so willing to help. God called home two of his
finnest earth angels. I pray for all of you that with each
day, your pain is softer and your sorrow is less. I pray
that the lord comfort you and keep you healthy and safe.
God Bless, Sylvia Graham
Friday, January 26th 2001 - 06:09:31 PM
Name: Michael Williams
E-mail address: Feival26@aol.com
Comments:I would like to say that my prayers are with the families
of Jennifer and Robbie. My friend Derrick and I met Austin
and Jennifer in Helen Ga. in November of 1999. We had a
great time getting to them. Jennifer had a very sweet
personality adn we became very close friends. She was like
a siter to me and Derrick, and Austin is like a brother.
She holds a very speacial place in my heart and her memory
will live on in my mind.
Friday, January 26th 2001 - 03:53:15 PM
Name: Deb Turner
E-mail address: dturneripm@aol.com
Comments:I am on the IPM sales team and am located in Pennsylvania.
I did not get a chance to know Jennifer, but I know she was
very well liked and was a special person.

I am so sorry for your loss and my prayers and thoughts go
out to all of the family and frinds of Jennifer and Robbie.

Friday, January 26th 2001 - 06:25:39 AM
Name: friend
E-mail address: john222@aol.com
Comments:In reading this beautiful memory book, I find that there is
a lot of love out there especially for these 2 kids.
Please as you read all of the thoughts, take a few minutes
and write a memory or encouraging note. The parents of
these children need all the support and love they can get
and all of your words are so encouraging and binding. It
with help them with the healing process as they are both
missed so much.
Thursday, January 25th 2001 - 01:45:51 PM
Name: Ralph Baker
E-mail address: baker_ralph@hotmail.com
Comments:
there are few words that can adequately express how
we feel when we lose someone we love, Robbie and
Jennifer are two we grieve for, and long to see again..
it is my hope to all who see these pages, and are grieving
and aching in their hearts to feel comfort from God who
promises comfort for his children.. It is my hope that
all who read these pages will understand that they too
have a decision to make about salvation.. Robbie and
Jennifer did make that decision and asked Jesus into
their hearts and lives.. The hope that God gives us
is based on his promise that whosoever shall call upon
the name of the lord, shall be saved.. Jesus said, behold
I stand at the door and knock, if any man hear my voice,
I will come in and supp with him and he with me..
Eternal life is a free gift of God.. in Ephesians 2;8,9
for by grace are you saved by faith and that not of
yourselves, it is a gift of God, not of works, lest any man
should boast.. We cant earn heaven, we dont deserve heaven,
it is a free gift.. it is my hope that those who come to
see this page, who need that salvation shall find it in the
same way that Jennifer and Robbie have and so complete the
circle of life together and be re-united with them again one
day..

If you do not know how to pray the prayer of salvation
stop and ask forgiveness for all sin, ask Jesus to come
into your heart and life, ask him to wash away all sin, and
lift off any burdens you have on you, he will,
he is faithful that promised..and he does it for his
glory and his honor..

forever

amen



with love,

Ralph Baker
Wednesday, January 24th 2001 - 09:00:32 PM
Name: Derrick Hutchens
E-mail address: jamesdean311@hotmail.com
Comments:I want to send my condolences to each family in there time
of need. I want Austin to know that Mike and I looked at
Jennifer as a sister and to him as a brother. We will be
here if you need us and we will always hold a special place
for Jen in our hearts.
Wednesday, January 24th 2001 - 01:01:40 PM
Name: Derrick Hutchens
E-mail address: jamesdean311@hotmail.com
Comments:I want to send my condolences to each family in there time
of need. I want Austin to know that Mike and I looked at
Jennifer as a sister and to him as a brother. We will be
here if you need us and we will always hold a special place
for Jen in our hearts.
Wednesday, January 24th 2001 - 01:00:52 PM
Name: Patrick Garrett
E-mail address: patrick4998@cs.com
Comments:While I didn't know Robbie near as much as I did Jennifer,
the times that I was around them both will be remembered
forever. I cherish the time that we had on this earth
together and will rejoice with them when I see them in
heaven.
Sunday, January 21st 2001 - 11:56:42 AM
Name: Mish-Robbie's Aunt
E-mail address: kervind@bellsouth.net
Comments:Sweet Dreams Sweet Precious Children of the Lord. I know
you are both asleep in Him. You are so loved. I thank
Jesus for the gift of knowing Robbie for 19 years and for
knowing Jennifer for a couple of years. I am blessed.
Robbie, remember not so very long ago you and Matt asked me
what the shortest verse of scripture in the bible was and I
said "Jesus Wept". You and Matt were always trick me
wern't you?? I Never thought I would miss the tricking so
bad. I believe Jesus wept on December 15th and then told
you and Jennifer to come forth just as He did Lazarus.

Thank you for my Christmas present. I wrap up in it every
night and think of you sweetly.

Robbie, I am so sorry that I didn't come to your
graduation. Us adults can be so hardheaded and
unthouthtful of others and I only wish I had had the smarts
to tell you sooner. I'm gald you and Jennifer came to see
me not too long ago and you will always have a special
place in my heart. I will remind Terri forever that you
are the oldest.

Loving and missing you.
Aunt Mish
Saturday, January 20th 2001 - 01:55:20 PM
Name: Bill Graves and family
E-mail address: sf_latam_trooper@yahoo.com
Comments:We offer all the family, especially my cousin Carole, our
heartfelt condolences and pray for the understanding of all
that this world is difficult but can be made easier through
the belief that God is in fact present in all of us and we
will be reunited in the future. bill, sandy, valerie and
vivian
Saturday, January 20th 2001 - 12:31:10 PM
Name: DAVID AND CINDY
E-mail address: POOH4STACK@AOL.COM
Comments:TO EVERYONE WHO KNEW AND DID NOT KNOW THE TWO SWEETEST
PEOPLE IN THE WORLD, I AM SORRY. JENNIFER AND ROBBIE WERE
IN OUR LIVES FOR ONLY SIX MONTHS, BUT IN THOSE MONTHS WE
HAD THE BEST TIMES. WE WENT BOWLING, TO THE MOVIES, AND
JUST RELAXED AND ENJOYED LIFE TOGETHER AS ANY OTHER YOUNG
ADULT WOULD. I(CINDY) WORKED WITH JENNIFER AT REGIONS AND
SHE BECAME MY VERY BEST FRIEND. SHE WAS WONDERFUL TO TALK
TO, LAUGH WITH, SHOP WITH, AND CRY WITH. THERE ARE MANY
THINGS THAT SHE HAS TAUGHT ME. ONE OF THEM IS TO LOVE
EVERYONE. TO THE FAMILY OF JENNIFER, I WANT YOU TO KNOW
THAT I KNOW SHE LEARNED THIS FROM ALL OF YOU. YOU ARE VERY
SPECIAL, LOVING PEOPLE.
ROBBIE HAD MANY GREAT CHARACTERISTIC ALSO. HE WAS FUN,
LOVING, EASY TO TALK WITH, AND FULL OF LIFE. IT WAS VERY
EASY FOR JENNIFER TO LOVE HIM SO MUCH. WE BONDED WITH HIM
AS IT WAS EASY TO DO. HE ALWAYS KEPT OUR LAUGHTER UP AND
OUR TROUBLES DOWN.
BOTH JENNIFER AND ROBBIE AND THE FAMILIES OF BOTH HAVE
TOUCHED OUR HEARTS WITH A GREAT IMPACT. AS WE ALL MISS THEM
SO MUCH, WE ALL KNOW THAT THEY ARE HAPPY AS THEY WILL
ALWAYS BE. WE LOVE ALL OF YOU FOR SCULPTING THEM BOTH INTO
BECOMING SUCH LOVING PEOPLE.

THANK YOU FOR HEARING WHAT WE HAD TO SAY, AND WE KNOW THAT
THEY CAN HEAR US TOO. WE LOVE YOU JENNIFER AND ROBBIE
LOVE ALWAYS AND FOREVER, DAVID AND CINDY
Friday, January 19th 2001 - 06:53:59 PM
Name: David &Alexis
E-mail address: daelectric@cs.com
Comments:Our heart's are heavy with sorrow and grief our mind's are
clouded with though's of why and what if. We love you all
and are thinking about you and you'r faimly.
love David,Alexis and all our faimly
Friday, January 19th 2001 - 06:21:25 PM
Name: Dawn M. Iverson
E-mail address: dawnmiverson@aol.com
Comments:May God grant strength, comfort, and love to the loving
family members and friends of these dear children of God.
Dawn.
Friday, January 19th 2001 - 03:41:14 AM
Name: Jeri Mifflin (Graves)
E-mail address: mifflin@okemos.k12.mi.us
Comments:Carole, It's been years since we've seen each other and
talked but I wanted to let you know how sorry I am about
Robbie's death. I didn't have the opportunity to know him
but he sounds like a wonderful son and a great guy. My
thoughts and prayers are with you!
Thursday, January 18th 2001 - 07:43:25 AM
Name: Gayle Butterfield
E-mail address: gfg@gifts-from-god.org
Comments:I am Carole Cook's cousin and feel so blessed to of read
such an awesome tribute to Robbie and Jennifer. May all of
us have the faith in our Lord with all our heart and lean
not on our own understanding, but in all our our ways
acknowledge Him (Proverbs 3:5-6) Thank you for
acknowledging Him. Remember that God promises never to
abandon His children. So He was always there with Jen and
Robbie and is there for Jenn's family and Carole and
Willie's. I wanted to share something that was given to
me: "Do not look forward to what might happen tomorrow;
the same everlasting Father who cares for you today will
take care of you tomorrow, and every day. Either He will
shield you from suffering, or He will give you unfailing
strength to bear it. Be at peace, then, and put aside all
anxious thoughts and imaginations."
Mike and I pray for unfailing strength for you all. With
all our love, Gayle and Mike
Wednesday, January 17th 2001 - 05:56:38 PM
Name: John Wilder
E-mail address: wilder@libertybay.com
Comments:Peggy and I continue to pray that through the Grace of our
Lord you find the strength needed in these difficult
times. Please know we are thinking of you all. We are
charged by our Savior to love and care for each other,
please call on us if there is a need we might fill.
In Christ, Johnny & Peggy Wilder
Wednesday, January 17th 2001 - 04:29:41 AM
Name: Renee
E-mail address: Scarlett011
Comments:To Robbie's and Jennifers family I am so sorry for what
happened. I didn't know Jennifer, but from what Robbie told
me she was a great girl. The Cooks I have you in my prayers
everyday. God will help everyone through this, but we will
always remember the good times we shared with both of them.
I remember when Robbie would always call me and talk about
his problems. I miss that, but i know he is looking down on
everyone. Someday we will be able to see both of them
again. Till then we can keep them in our thoughts.
Jennifers family I heard she was a wonderful person, God is
here with you. To Robbie's family I love ya'll and I am
here if need anything. God Bless Renee'
Tuesday, January 16th 2001 - 05:15:05 PM
Name: Donna Graves, Robbie's great aunt
E-mail address: digraves1@yahoo.com
Comments:The last time I saw Robbie, he was at his grandfather's
house in Alpena, MI, where he was strutting his stuff on
the riding lawn mower and loving the sun and the world. Met
Jenn at that same time and saw in her a beautiful lady so
in love. It is consoling to know that God is holding them
in the palm of His hands and they will always be together
in His love. God puts us on earth for a purpose and takes
us home after completing that purpose. Robbie & Jenn had
an impact on the their world and there's a beautiful reason
for their lives....... if only to bring many of us together
again, it has served me well. I love you, Carole & Willie,
and keep you in my prayers daily....... Aunt Donna
Tuesday, January 16th 2001 - 03:50:48 PM
Name: Monica Brown Clayton
E-mail address: Mbrown01@hotmail.com
Comments:We sometimes don't think about what today, tonight, or what
the next day may bring. God has given each one of us a
special gift, love, life, family and friends. Every chance
we get we need to tell the people we love and hate we love
them, we are sorry, and I'll see you soon. If you do not
have a close relationship with God you are missing out.
Please don't get left behind. If you need help or
understanding call me or email me. I'd love to talk to
you. Jennifer was precious to me, I miss her. But I know
I will see her soon, the question is "Will You?"
I love you Jenn!!!!
Tuesday, January 16th 2001 - 03:10:09 PM
Name: Monica Brown Clayton
Tuesday, January 16th 2001 - 03:00:28 PM
Name: Beth
E-mail address: BZR10@aol.com
Homepage URL: http://members.aol.com/FCR10/index.html
Comments:My son, Corey, was a friend of Robbie's and Jennifer's. I
remember when he came into my bedroom and told me what
happened. My heart went out to both families. I know the
pain you are feeling. We also lost a child, almost 7 years
ago. Please be nice to yourselves and let family and
friends help you and share your grief. Remember "Grief
shared is grief diminished". Family and friends should
educate themselves on the grief process so that they can be
there when you need them. In their memory, Beth
Tuesday, January 16th 2001 - 10:54:25 AM
Name: Beth
E-mail address: BZR10@aol.com
Homepage URL: http://members.aol.com/FCR10/index.html
Comments:My son, Corey, was a friend of Robbie's and Jennifer's. I
remember when he came into my bedroom and told me what
happened. My heart went out to both families. I know the
pain you are feeling. We also lost a child, almost 7 years
ago. Please be nice to yourselves and let family and
friends help you and share your grief. Remember "Grief
shared is grief diminished". In their memory, Beth
Tuesday, January 16th 2001 - 10:53:08 AM
Name: Beth
E-mail address: BZR10
Homepage URL: http://members.aol.com/FCR10/index.html
Comments:My son, Corey, was a friend of Robbie and Jennifer. I
remember him coming into my bedroom and telling me about
your loss. My heart just breaks for you and your families.
I know the pain you are feeling. Please be kind to
yourselves and let your friends help you. Remember "Grief
shared is grief diminished". It has been almost 7 years
since we lost our child and time does help. In their
memory, Beth
Tuesday, January 16th 2001 - 10:26:32 AM
Name: Janice
E-mail address: farmerswifevrga@aol.com
Comments:I didn't personally know anyone involved in this tragedy.
However, I want to send my sincere sympathy and know that
you all will be in my prayers.
Between my husband and I we have 7 children (5 males, 2
females) a 6 year old grand daughter, and 3 more
grandchildren on the way (Feb, April, and August). I can
only imagine how much of an emptiness you have in your life
at this time. But, at the same time you must also have a
peace knowing that both these 2 beautiful young people are
in Heaven. Once again, you are in my thoughts and prayers,
please let me know if there is anything I can do. Love and
Prayers.
Saturday, January 13th 2001 - 06:10:24 PM
Name: Chief-George Braswell and Family
E-mail address: sing@sstelco.com
Homepage URL: http://www.fish-n.net
Comments:I will always remember our last supper together at the WBFA
Classic. The joy and happiness Robbie and Jennifer shared
at the table with family and friends is a lasting memory.
Also, I will always remember Robbies last conversation with
me as we were leaving the WBFA Classic in Gadston Alabama,
Robbie asked for my CD titled "Jesus You're My Hero." This
was a comforting thought that a young man would want a
gospel CD. I did not know at the time that would be our
last conversation on planet earth. Now, I can talk to
Robbie and Jennifer in Heaven through prayer!! "FISHERMAN'S
PRAYER: God, grant that I may live to fish until my dying
day and when it comes to my last cast, I then most humbly
pray when in the Lord's safe landing net I'm peacefully at
rest, that in His mercy I be judged good enough to pass His
test." The great news; God does not have a size or slot
limit, we are all keepers in his care. Now, Robbie and
Jennifer are Gods Keepers. May God's blessings fill their
families and friends while their pleasant memories fill our
thoughts. Prayerfully, Chief-George Braswell
Friday, January 12th 2001 - 01:56:53 PM
Name: Helen Baker
E-mail address: n/a
Comments:

Dear Debbie, Larry,
Carrole and Willie,

Our hearts and love go out to you in this most difficult
time.. there will never be a day when I dont think of
Jennifer and Robbie and cry, but we know where they are and
we will be with them again.. this is the hope we have and
the promise that god gives us..

with love,

Helen and Family
Thursday, January 11th 2001 - 05:39:40 PM
Name: MARILYN
E-mail address: WHITLOCKJH@AOL.COM
Comments:ONCE UPON A TIME,NOT SO VERY LONG AGO A BEAUTIFUL CHILD WAS
VISITING IN MY HOME,SHE WAS A FRIEND OF MY DAUGHTER'S. THE
LITTLE GIRL SAW A WOODEN BOX,A GOLF CLUB HAD BEEN DELIVERED
IN IT. SHE SAID THAT IF YOU CUT IT INTO PARTS THAT IT WOULD
BE PERFECT TO STORE CASSETTE TAPES. MY DAUGHTER SAID THAT
HER DAD WOULD NEVER FIND THE TIME TO WORK ON THE BOX. THE
LITTLE GIRL SAID "MY DADDY WILL!" A FEW WEEKS LATER SHE
CAME BACK TO VISIT AND GAVE MY DAUGHTER A BOX FOR HER MUSIC
TAPES. THE CHILD'S NAME WAS JENNIFER, AND HER DADDY HAD
TAKEN THE TIME TO FULFILL HIS DAUGHTER'S DREAM. JENNIFER'S
MOTHER AND FATHER ALWAYS TOOK TIME TO HELP JENNIFER WITH
HER DREAMS. TO DEBBIE AND LARRY, WE ALL NOTICED HOW MUCH
YOU LOVE YOUR CHILDREN
Thursday, January 11th 2001 - 04:20:47 PM
Name: Ren Reeves
E-mail address: swtsuthernbaby
Comments:My heart is with the loved ones of Jennifer and Robbie. I
did not know them personally, I heard about it though a
friend who knows the family. I to have felt the pain of
loseing a child and a friend and send my send my deepest
sorrow and love to the greeving families and friends. If
any need someone to talk to please e mail me. I will be
more than happy to help in any way I can.

In Loving Memory

Ren
Thursday, January 11th 2001 - 11:26:35 AM
Name: Kathy Magers
E-mail address: kmagers@flash.net
Comments:To Willie,Carole and the Castleberry Family: I didn't know
Robbie and Jennifer as well as some of the others but as a
parent, I can only imagine the pain you have all been going
through. We know that God will not give us more burden than
we can bear - which is why he gives us friends. Your
friends come to cry with you, to share the pain - to
carry some of the immense load of sorrow you must bear. It
is obvious looking over this memory book and messages on the
website that your families have truly been blessed by God to
have so many people there to "help." It is truly sad to be
separated from our loved ones but in reality, we are all
going to the same place - just at different times. One day,
we'll ALL be together again. Until then, my love is with
you all. Kathy Magers


Thursday, January 11th 2001 - 11:22:54 AM
Name: JoNell Whitstine
E-mail address: jwkickbass@aol.com
Comments:Wiilie, Carole, Mike & the Castleberry Family,Robbie &
Jennifer touched so many lifes they were such a beautiful
couple they will always be remembered.We are praying for
God to wrap his arms around you and give you strength.
Willie & Carole we love you and are here for you anytime
you need us.

Buddy & JoNell Whitstine
Thursday, January 11th 2001 - 09:08:23 AM
Name: Joy Clark
E-mail address: peeweec@lorettotel.net
Comments:What a beautiful tribute. To the parents of both these young
people- you have my deepest sympathy. I hope that knowing
that others grieve with you will be of some solace. Having
lost a daughter, I understand the emotions you are dealing
with now. But we must all "let go and let God..."
Love, Joy
Thursday, January 11th 2001 - 07:34:04 AM
Name: Beth Lansford
E-mail address: dixiedarling17@aol.com
Comments:Well,I'm not sure exactly what to say. I was in such shock
when my mom told me the news of Jennifer and Robbie's
death. Mr.Larry and Mrs.Debbie, I guess I have probably
known you both since you joined the church. I didn't really
know Jennifer, but I did know that she was a beautiful,
young woman with a bright future ahead of her. You both
have always been such sweet and loving people to me, as
well as my family and I am so very thankful for that. We
never know what tomorrow holds, but I know that God has His
own special plan for each one of us. I believe that
Jennifer and Robbie lived their life exactly the way God
had planned, and that on December 15,2000 He called them
home. I want you both to know that I think about Jennifer
and Robbie everyday, and your family will always remain in
my thoughts and prayers. To the family of Robbie I send my
deepest sympathies. I did not know Robbie, but through the
words of others I truly believe he was a wonderful young
man. I want you to know that your family will always be in
my thoughts and prayers. In closing I want to leave you all
with this quote, "When you were born, you cried and the
world rejoiced. Live your life in such a manner that when
you die the world cries and you rejoice."--I believe that
Robbie and Jennifer did just that! May God bless you all.
Love Always, Beth
Wednesday, January 10th 2001 - 08:06:48 PM
Name: Pamela Gray
E-mail address: pamgray@hiwaay.net
Comments:I do not know Robbie and Jennifer but I do know Willie and
Carole. Losing a loved one is probably one of the hardest
things to bare. There are no words to express the grief
you are feeling and no words to express the empathy I feel
with you. I can only hope that these few words wrap you in
a hug. Life is like a candle, it only burns so long and so
bright. From the words others have expressed about Robbie
and Jennifer, their candle may not have burned long, but it
burned as bright as the star over the manger and they will
never be forgotten. God is with you and you are in my
prayers.

Pamela Gray
Wednesday, January 10th 2001 - 02:45:40 PM
Name: Ann Milligan
E-mail address: amilligan@compaq.net
Comments:Carole, Willie, Mike and the Castleberry Family. My heart
goes out to each of you for your loss was great.There's not
a day goes by that you have not been in my thoughts and
prayers. Carole. Willie I love you guys. Robbie and
Jennifer were very special young people and I know that
they are smiling down at us. The Website was beautiful. May
God be with each of you. Love Ann and Dennis
Tuesday, January 9th 2001 - 06:39:14 PM
Name: Larry and Emily Shaffer
Comments:Thinking of you in our prayers. Believe it or not as time
goes by it gets easier.
Tuesday, January 9th 2001 - 05:31:01 PM
Name: Doss and Cindy Hill
E-mail address: dosschill@home.com
Comments:Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tuesday, January 9th 2001 - 05:29:21 PM
Name: Ryan Castleberry
Homepage URL: http://cinnamin.www2.50megs.com/forjennrob.htm/
Tuesday, January 9th 2001 - 03:38:42 PM
Name: Ryan Castleberry
E-mail address: rcandtc@aol.com
Comments:We are keeping you in our prayers and love you very much.
We take life and eachother for granite so many times. Most
importantly, Jennifer and Robbie had accepted Jesus Christ
as their personal saviour. That is the most important
decision we all can make!
Tuesday, January 9th 2001 - 03:31:23 PM
Name: terri rouleau
E-mail address: aamz2000@mindspring.com
Comments:i think about you alot and the fun and silly times we
shared i love you and miss you so very much.
love,terri
Tuesday, January 9th 2001 - 02:47:56 PM
Name: Ralph, Marsha & Daniela Phillips
E-mail address: ralph@apex.net
Comments:Carole, Willie, and the Castleberry Family.
I am so sorry to hear about your loss.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
My God Be with you always.
Monday, January 8th 2001 - 02:45:53 PM
Name: Dana Stewart
E-mail address: maverick@ckt.net
Homepage URL: http://www.danasplace.net
Comments:Hi. My name is Dana Stewart. You don't know me but I am
Donna Newberry's daughter. Mom had told me about your loss
& you have been in our prayers since then. We can't
possibly understand what you are going through since we
have not been there but we wanted you to know we care.
Monday, January 8th 2001 - 01:41:34 PM
Name: Brenda Carter
E-mail address: Junebugbc@aol.com
Comments:Robbie and Jennifer will always hold a dear place in my
heart. As I came to know them I came to Love them. They
were very smart, caring, and giving persons that did not
know a stranger.
Monday, January 8th 2001 - 01:19:59 PM
Name: Dianna & Ralph Mason
E-mail address: dianna@fuse.net
Comments:Thank You for sending this to me.
You All will always be in our prayers.
Monday, January 8th 2001 - 11:38:13 AM
Name: Dianna & Ralph Mason
E-mail address: dianna@fuse.net
Comments:Thank You for sending this to me.
You All will always be in our prayers.
Monday, January 8th 2001 - 11:37:39 AM
Name: Donna Newberry
E-mail address: champ99@peoplepc.com
Comments:Carole, Willie and the Castleberry family,

I only got to meet Jennifer and Robbie for a short
time, but they were lovley people. They gave so much help
at our W.B.F.A. championship. Time and prayers can only
ease a pain like the one I know the families must have. I
will keep you in my prayers. Love you Carole and Willie.
Thanks for all the hard work you do for ALL of the W.B.F.A.
girls. The poem was very pretty.

Donna Newberry ( CHAMP99 )
Monday, January 8th 2001 - 07:44:54 AM
Name: Ann
E-mail address: ann@wpcs.net
Comments:Sorry to hear about Jennifer and Robbie for one that you
meet once you know she was a very happy person.
To leave here on earth but to leave to go to a much better
place.. My prayers are with you all the family they left
behind.. And to Ralph the one who wrote the pome I know
your words come from your heart and what a great job you
did.God bless you for a wonderfull page that can be seen
for everyone to see..
Ann
Monday, January 8th 2001 - 06:32:16 AM
Name: Lindsay Stainbrook
E-mail address: stainbroo4@aol.com
Comments:Robbie and Jennifer were very good friends to me. Robbie
helped me release the big fish and Jennifer helped me to
put a hook on my line. Robbie pickd me up and put me in the
boat when i was going fishing. they were very nice to me
and I will miss them so very much. I am 8 years old going
on 9 this month, and they treated me so nice even though i
am a little girl. Mr. Willie and Mrs. Carol I love you
both. Jennifers mom and dad, Jennifer was a beutiful girl
she looked like a princess and you or in my heart.
Monday, January 8th 2001 - 06:15:05 AM
Name: Joe & Sammie Jo Stainbrook
E-mail address: stainbroo4@aol.com
Comments:Our hearts go out to the Cook and Castleberry families.
Though we knew Robbie and Jennifer for a short period in
our lives, that short period was all it took to realize how
very special they both were. Most memorable was their
kindness and gift of smile upon anyone they came in contact
with. They will be missed and forever remembered. The
Website is beautiful....... You will be in our thoughts and
prayers.. God Bless you... Joe, Sammie Jo Stainbrook and
Family............
Sunday, January 7th 2001 - 07:25:20 PM
Name: Shelley Perry
E-mail address: ldperry10@aol.com
Comments:To the Cook and Castleberry families,
I did not know Robbie or Jennifer personally but I do feel
like an aquaintenance for knowing Willie and Carole. I know
the agony of the sudden loss of a loved one. See, my
father-in-law was killed in a wreck several years ago and
it was probably the most devistating event in my life thus
far. He was a very important person in my life and to lose
him was mind-blowing. Granted, he was not my own flesh and
blood but the loss was staggering. The reason I share this
with you is just to let you know that I DO understand.
Sudden loss is so unfair. We are left behind to sort the
pieces and finish the business left unfinished. Though
several years have passed, eight to be exact, the loss is
still there, however, not as fresh. We, the entire Perry
family, have survived. It really may not seem like the
pain will ever ease, but it will, I promise. Be strong and
take care and comfort of each other.
Sunday, January 7th 2001 - 06:56:02 PM
Name: Jane Rogers
E-mail address: rogerskc@mail.tqci.net
Comments:My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jane.
Sunday, January 7th 2001 - 06:31:07 PM
Name: Jane and Kyle Rogers
E-mail address: rogerskc@mail.tqci.net
Comments:Thinking of you.
Jane
Sunday, January 7th 2001 - 06:23:39 PM
Name: Mary D.
E-mail address: bassladymd@aol.com
Comments:What a beautiful way to show the world, how special and how
loved these two children are, to all that were fortunate
enough to have come in to contact with them. My heart
breaks for both families and I pray for God to help you
through this painful time.
Sunday, January 7th 2001 - 06:03:43 PM
Name: Deborah Baker Castleberry
E-mail address: LVCl225@aol.com
Comments:Ralph, Thank you so much for the precious labor of love you
gave me when I read your memorial for Jennifer and Robbie.
I look at these two precious gifts and realize how blessed
I am to have been part of their lives. It is so comforting
to know where these children are. Jennifer trusted in
Jesus as her Lord at the tender age of l2 and Robbie asked
and received Jesus as Lord on January 4, 2000. I thank my
God thru many tears that he allowed me to know where they
are spending eternity. I could not have asked for more in
my precious daughter than she delivered. I was so proud of
her for her accomplishments in life. As so many parents, I
looked forward to sharing her life but I cannot here. I
have beautiful memories but most of all I have the
assurance that I will be allowed to join her in Eternity!
Jennifer, how can I thank you in words that would be
adequate to describe your contribution. Jennifer you had a
smile that would brighten the room. Always kind, loving,
caring and sharing. I miss those incredible hugs and the
smell of your perfume. Just being you was enough to make
me humbled at God's special gift to me. He smiled on me
the day you were born and he smiled on you the day you went
to be with Him. Oh, my heart aches to hold you again baby
but I am trying to be strong.
Robbie, my friend, I loved you too! I long to see those
soft brown eyes and sweet smile. So many people God has
allowed me to witness to. You are my first child that has
been able to see the face of Jesus. You parents are
precious people and if I could erase their pain I would. I
am praying with all the strength that is left. I know that
God's grace is sufficient and even now....NO MATTER WHAT...
FORSAKING ALL I TRUST HIM. My friend, thank you for making
life so happy for all those who came in contact with you.
Most of all, thank you for making my only baby girl smile.
I look forward to the day God allows me to see you
again.Debbie Castleberry, Jennifer's mom,Robbie's friend
Sunday, January 7th 2001 - 05:44:06 PM
Name: Robbies Mom, Carole
E-mail address: EBCWBFA@AOL.COM
Comments:Robbie who is and was my world and to the lovely Jennifer
who was at his side and whom I came to love as my own.
Words cannot tell how much you are both missed and loved.
The short years I had with Robbie were not enough but he
was loved and gave as much love as possible. One day, I
will be with you both again, until then I can't wait. I
love you both will all my heart....mom
Sunday, January 7th 2001 - 12:53:43 PM
Name: LASTRENEGADE
E-mail address: lastrenegade@hotmail.com
Comments:Such a tragic loss! My deepest condolences to both families
at this time in their lives.

"And miles to go before I sleep"
Saturday, January 6th 2001 - 01:50:49 AM
Name: angelina
E-mail address: ticie@catlover.com
Comments:Oh dear..............I am again stunned by the deaths of
those so young....it's just......well.........I'm at a loss
for words ..............

I hope that You might take a small amount of comfort in the
words of a Rebbe (Rabbi, teacher) that was said a few years
ago at a memorial service for a lady I never met; but that
I was friends with her family....these words from the
heart.......................



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When I die, if you need to weep
Cry for someone on the street beside you
And when you need me, put your arms around others
And give to them what you need to give to me.
You can love me most by letting hands and souls touch souls
You can love me most by sharing your simchas and
Multiplying your mitzvot.
You can love me most by letting me live in your eyes
And not in your mind.
And when you say Kaddish for me, remember what our
Torah teaches:
Love doesn't die, people do.
So when all that's left of me is love, give me away.
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Words of wisdom..........and so true...

Shalom.......(peace) and Shalom.

respectfully, angie (ticie K. Powers)
Thursday, January 4th 2001 - 07:52:17 AM
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