

| Name: | butterfly |
| Comments: | Thank you so much for the creaters and moderators of this site! To know that what was happening internally made sense and was a common reaction to abuse has given me so much hope and confidence! To know I am not the only one who struggles with this has given me the courage to stay away from my DNA family. I love visiting because it almost always makes me feel better and the moderators do such a good job of regulating content. And if the forums get too trigerry for me, the resources you guys have are so helpful. I have learned so much about my DID here as well! I really don't know what I do without the fort! Also, you guys have helped convince me to go to therapy, I'm scared, but I know I can do it! Thank you so much, your presence has been a huge blessing in my life! |
| Name: | Melissa |
| Comments: | Reading and posting here is a breeze! The members are so informative and giving to responses. This place has a great feel and I cant wait to get to know more here. The mods here are so helpful and very fast to get back with me! Thanks all! |
| Name: | Darlene Stillar |
| Comments: | I've known for about 5 years now that i am D.I.D. Anyone wanting to talk about it i am more then willing. with love - Dar |
| Name: | oneagleswings |
| Comments: | checking the site out signed up just a few minuits ago thin i will check it out looking fiorward to meeting you all |
| Name: | cathy |
| Comments: | thour siteank you for letting mevisit your site |
| Name: | Scott |
| Comments: | Self Harmer that continues to struggle because I don't numb myself with drugs or alcohol anymore. Having trouble dealing with intrusive thoughts. |
| Name: | Darren Park |
| Comments: | Ex self harmer tempted... |
| Name: | Tina |
| Comments: | I am glad I have found a place to go to talk to other survivors. My father molested me and my mother covered it up and didn't get me help. When I started going to therapy as an adult because I had all that rage bottled up in me, I told my mom why I was going and she disowned me and my kids and didn't talk to me for months. She came back and I told her they both have to get therapy and they expected me to pay for everything and my father wanted to know if fingers were going to be pointed at him. He feels no remorse and my mom supports him. Therefore, I have had to cut ties with my family. I can't have my children around them when they think they've done nothing wrong. I am healing now it's hard especially when my daughter talks about my parents. I did the right thing I'm just trying to get past the anger, resentment and flashbacks. |
| Name: | Garry |
| Comments: | This site is well organized and maintained. You are to be commended. Thankyou |
| Name: | Januaryhorse(Lee Ramey |
| Comments: | This site is very helpful, I am 18 years old, I live in Nova Scotia. I was adopted with my Biological sister, I was 4 she was 2. I was badly sexually and Physicaly abused by my birth family. I have DID with PTSD I was Diagnosed at the age of 16. I have gone though a lot of hard times since then but when I come to this site it takes some of the stress because I can talk and not feel misunderstood. I would like it if other people with DID who would like to email me to just talk I will be glad to talk. I know that there is not a lot of teens as the Main person because DID is mostly Diagnosed when your an adult but if there is any Teens out there I would be gald to give you advise or just talk to any of you. Thank you Fort Refuge This Site is Amazing. |
| Name: | kjpg |
| Comments: | I'm glad this is here. Maybe, if I get another urge to overwhelm the fear of socializing, I'll come again. |
| Name: | kami |
| Comments: | ths pwobablee tha bes serviivrs siit mi haev fowns |
| Name: | Aaron Golub |
| Homepage URL: | http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/Allies-in-healing/ |
| Comments: | Your site's very helpful and well designed! I can tell you work very hard on it, keep up the great work! Aaron ~*~ |
| Name: | Crystal |
| Comments: | im really glad i found this site. |
| Name: | Daisy |
| Comments: | This site is wonderful - I didn't stay long but wanted to let you know the visit was inspiring! I wish you all healing and happiness. |
| Name: | nobodys |
| Comments: | hi im very new and very scared. i was dx mpd long ago. im back with my first dr now again. ive been through another trama and its caused worse damage than the ones previosly. im very scared but looking forward to meeting others who understand. this will be new for me. ive lost all those in my life who did understand. im not able to sit long periods at a time so if you see me please dont leave or think im not answering. if you make a noise and give me at most 15 minutes i promise to be back. im very scared being alone and being new. im looking forward to meeting everyone. ive met two kind and wonderful people already. thank you for giving me a chance to be somewhere , you dont know how much it means to me and mine. thank you all again, nobodys |
| Name: | Charlotte |
| Comments: | Great to find this site and the little ones section. Cheered my day. Best wishes Charlotte |
| Name: | nancy |
| Comments: | what i have read isvery familiar i just got a lab top moved away from abuser and am not good with computers at all trying to find support and get better self esteem wise as of now after 6 yrs i have zero now.i need people who can relate and help me |
| Name: | Laurie |
| Comments: | This is an awesome resource that I will share with everyone I know and I appreciate the work you are doing for child abuse survivors like myself. |
| Name: | diana |
| Comments: | Comfy place to come and be with others who understand. I like the pictures and smiley faces. |
| Name: | Da Rockin Monkey |
| Comments: | what a gr8 place--i'm abso-rutely bananas over yor site! |
| Name: | Ezoria Aisuan |
| Comments: | I love this site and all the people in it are great. |
| Name: | Julia |
| Comments: | This sight is wonderful thankyou |
| Name: | lyssa |
| Comments: | we are happy to have found a friendly place that understands the term us and we |
| Name: | Jill |
| Comments: | I am a survivor of sexual abuse. From the ages of 7-11 years old my father molested me, and places like this help me understand that I am not alone. Thank you! |
| Name: | Dawn tetreault |
| Comments: | Iam a survivor always seeking to grow thrive and assist others while still learning myself |
| Name: | danielle |
| Homepage URL: | http://daniid2.bebo.com |
| Comments: | hiya ave been self harmin from i was 7 years old i strated of by biting myself then punchin things and now i use knifes razors anything sharp im gettin help now bcuz my mum has took ill and readin about this site is makin me ralise how much pain im puttin my family threw xxxxx |
| Name: | cas |
| Comments: | Hi, I am an ra survivor, looking for support and to support others. |
| Name: | Keysa Grable |
| Homepage URL: | http://www.militarycorruption.com/grable.htm |
| Comments: | Thank you for your detailed site for abuse survivors! I have been stalked, beaten, and nearly killed multiple times by my former abuser *****who sadly, remains completely unpunished!) And, I have also survived "ritual abuse" of some of the most sadistic circumstances. Although it has been extremely difficult, I KNOW that there is complete healing! Please let my story of severe abuse serve as an example for others to get OUT as soon as possible. You are never alone!!! http://www.militarycorruption.com/grable.htm |
| Name: | Keysa Grable |
| Homepage URL: | http://www.militarycorruption.com/grable.htm |
| Comments: | Thank you for your detailed site for abuse survivors! I have been stalked, beaten, and nearly killed multiple times by my former abuser *****who sadly, remains completely unpunished!) And, I have also survived "ritual abuse" of some of the most sadistic circumstances. Although it has been extremely difficult, I KNOW that there is complete healing! Please let my story of severe abuse serve as an example for others to get OUT as soon as possible. You are never alone!!! http://www.militarycorruption.com/grable.htm |
| Name: | Wanda |
| Comments: | Thanks for this site....it does truly help. For all survivors: LIVE |
| Name: | alex |
| Comments: | so i had been cutting for a while and i started on a small subjuct and i was so absorbed into cutting and i am three days without cutting its hard to stay on track for even three days but its easier to get by down here this is a blessing from the heavens themselvs |
| Name: | Angela |
| Comments: | This site has been so helpful to me. I can't express how thankful I am to have support from everybody on this site. Words don't seem to do this site justice. =) |
| Name: | laura |
| Comments: | this site has helped me out alot.thanks. |
| Name: | Emily |
| Comments: | Thank you guys so much. I finally broke down and decided that i needed help, that it wasn't time for hiding. I found helpful people and a safe enviroment, the only one so far in my life. |
| Name: | cynthia |
| Comments: | this is a wonderful sight.thank you for creating it |
| Name: | Megan |
| Comments: | Thank you so much for this. Being one who could never find the courage to call a cutting helpline, this is like a blessing.. Thank you so much.. XOXOXO-Megan |
| Name: | babybear |
| Comments: | A safe & warm place to be. Thank you1 |
| Name: | JordansMom |
| Comments: | This has been a godsend, referred to me when I was going through a depressing experience related to my past. I feel welcome and never have to worry about anyone making fun/not believing me. I enjoy the games, jokes, pics here as well. Very informative & helpful links as well. Thank you! |
| Name: | johnt |
| Comments: | I also found some real interesting information. |
| Name: | strange_one |
| Comments: | this is great, i think everything u guys are doing is just wonderful keep up the good work |
| Name: | rach |
| Comments: | Fantastic site!!! Excellent job!!! |
| Name: | stormydaze |
| Comments: | This site is great for support as well as expressing your creative side. I think I have a creative side, but is it the left or right side? Hmmm...I will have to ponder that. |
| Name: | echoes |
| Comments: | nice! |
| Name: | Crystal |
| Comments: | i have found this site so far helpful, and i see that people are safe here, thank you for making a site that helps survivors like us |
| Name: | Lala |
| Homepage URL: | http://www.fortrefuge.com |
| Comments: | Thank you for visiting us and stopping to sign our guestbook. We love to hear from you! If we can do anything to improve your stay, please feel free to email! Please come again. |
| Name: | Elvina |
| Homepage URL: | http://www.agiftfromwithin.org/ |
| Comments: | Great site - keep up the great work, |
| Name: | Earl |
| Comments: | Great site. Cool people in chat and great resorces. Keep up the good work! |
| Name: | Marcia |
| Homepage URL: | http://www.angelsthatcare.org/ |
| Comments: | Wonderful web site. Thank you |