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| Name: | LMW1970 |
| E-mail address: | WYNNES4@MSN.COM |
| Comments: | I have a daughter who is 20 yrs old that i have bee paying child support for. Her mother and I were never married. THANK GOD. My problem is the mother has been in and out of prison all my daughters life,on drugs, charged with theft, abuse, dui's and you name it...she has done it. When she was in prison, I tried so hard for many years for full custody and lost to the maternal grandmother because my ex had another child from a previous relationship and the courts thought is was in the best interest to keep the two kids together with the maternal grandmother.So needless to say i continued my child support, for years, sometimes i paid late, missed a few payments from time to time,didn't see my child for months. I got back on track financially, been paying my child support while my daughters mother was in and out of prison I still had to send the support to her, when she would get out of prison she would have a copule thousand dollars of uncashed child support check and never once gave a dime to her mother who was raising our daughter. My ex would cash the checks, take off for a few days to support her drug habit and come back home to her mothers house, where she lives all here life(which she still lives with her mother now and she is 41 yrs old)she would come home totally broke. So even though i was paying my child support my daughter never seen a dime, so there were additional things my daughter needed. S there I was buying school clothes and supplies and so on on top of child support. I just could not do this anymore. I was financialy a mess. The courts do not care if my childs mother was in and out of jail.I still owed. So i continued to pay my support to a drug addict that never spent a dime of it on our child. So when my daughter was almost 18, she asked me to take her to be emancipated so her mother would get out of her life. And this i did. for one i knew once she wase emancipated my support would stop going to the druggie,and my daughter would not have to deal with her druggie mother anymore.So she was emancipated and now has a job, her own apartment and a new car. She has done well for herself and i am a proud dad. Her and I are very close and I am there for her in whatever she needs. So now the ex is mad because she no longer has money to support her habit. And one other thing i should mention, she is 41 yrs old and has never,ever had a job in her life. How pathetic is that?
so now she is taking me to court for back support. go figure. I owe$5500.00 in back support so the judge has ordered me to pay her $100 a month back support. For once i got a break and boy was she mad.So I have been paying this for about 2yrs and yes she is still in and out of jail,all cracked out and lives with her mom.Earlier I said she had another child by another man. Well guess what??? Now she needs money still for her habit. Her son is now 24 yrs old and his dad has never paid a dime he ran from her when he found out she was pregnant and has never been found.So she takes him to court and was granted $700 per month!!! Again, this is for a child she has never ever raised, a child that hates her and barley knows her. How sad. So now she gets that money for her back support from her son. So last week she strolls into my job all cracked out and serves me court papers. She has decided she cannot live on $100 per month, she wants more!!!!!!!!! I cannot believe this, i am trying so hard not to go off the deep end with her. All this child support is to support her drug habit. What can I do?? I owe the back support I am paying, and now she wants more????? she will probably get it too. What can I do?? I will explain all this to the judge and my daughter said she will go to court with me against her mother but I am so worried she wil get more money out of me. I need help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
| Name: | PENNY YEO |
| E-mail address: | i-yeo62@hotmail.com |
| Comments: | THIS ALL RINGS TRUE AND FAIRLY STATED. |
| Name: | Robert Ballard |
| E-mail address: | shorty_ballard |
| Comments: | im not sure what to say , i didnt think there was enyone out there that actualy paid attention to fathers like me , its really nice to see that there is , thank you |
| Name: | Scott |
| E-mail address: | madpoet418@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | I need help!
Sixteen years ago, I was in a casual relationship with a young woman. I was nineteen, she was twenty. She became pregnant. We were not monogamous. I'm not going into the gory details but the chance that I am the biological father of her child is nil. But I was a stupid kid. I had moved out of state by the time the court-ordered paternity test was scheduled (not to escape the law, mind you, my move was scheduled long before the court date). Needless to say, I am now the legal father of a child I have never met. Luckily, the judge carried over the issue of support. He ordered that no support order would be set unless (1) I appeared in a court in that state or (2) I came under the jurisdiction of a support agency in another state. Lucky for me because the mother has been on welfare for the entire time, and you all know what that means. So, more background. I have no college. Not even a highschool diploma. I've worked for minimum wage-ish all my life, until three years ago when I managed to get an assistant administrator's position in a company I'd worked at for years. That's when the mother's state decided to levy a support order even though none of the conditions had been met, to the tune of $500/month. That same year, I got married. Shortly thereafter, through honest mistakes, I lost my job and home. Dutifully, I notified the support enforcement agency, both over the phone and in writing. They refused to adjust the order unless I forced them to through the courts. I contacted a specialist attorney (and paid handsomely for the privlage) and all he could tell me is that he would help me for a few thousand dollars I didn't have. And maybe we wouldn't win, but I still had to pay him upfront. My wife and I spent almost a year homeless with very little income (about 5,000 altogether). We had been trying for a child and it seemed like it wasn't possible. Then, when everything was at its worst, she got pregnant. We moved to another state, she got a job. I got one too, part time because I'm the stay at home dad, but my support garnishment was so high that it didn't even make sesne for me to work, so I just take care of my new son, clean the house, etc. So, over the last two years, my total (not annual) gross income has been under $7,000. But the state is telling me that my arrears are already over 8,000. As it is, we are one step above the welfare system ourselves. If it wasn't for barter and free stuff and craigslist, my infant son would be starving and naked. I already know that I can't own property. They take my wife's tax returns. Now they are taking my license. And I've been reading about the federal laws that might put me in prison. But what can I do? The state didn't even adjust my support amount when they reached the mandatory adjustment period. They just refuse. I'm not educated enough in law to fight this myself, and I can't find any resources that I can afford. Please, if anyone has been through something like this, and knows where I can get help, let me know. My email address is m/a/d/p/o/e/t/4/1/8/ at yahoo dot com (remove /s). |
| Name: | benny |
| E-mail address: | bennybankster@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | Department of Child Support Services
Forces dads to be Deadbeat dads My ex signed up for Welfare on 7-2005. I got out of prison on 9-2005, and was hit with a 101,000.00-dollar child support bill. Went to court on 12-2005 got the bill reduced to 62,000-dollars because I was in prison. Went to court on 2-2006 got the bill reduced to 22,000-dollars because my ex waived 38,000-dollars for non-aided arrears plus the interest owed to her. Went to court on 5-2007 a Laches motion was awarded. I have paid 15,000-dollars in support, and according to calculations it shows them owing me almost 6,000-dollars. DCSS cannot show them owing someone money. So I believe this is merely a Tactic to keep collecting child support without adjusting the accounting accordingly coupled with the aggressive, and manipulative tactics? I was ultimately “Hit” almost 2 years later with another court date. That my ex couldn’t waive her arrearages on 2-2006. Child Support Services took me to court on 10-2007 and sued me under the Welfare Institutions Code 11477 Which states “To whom the recipient is applying for or receiving aid, not exceeding the total amount of cash assistance provided to the family.” That my ex couldn’t waive her arrearages on 2-2006, because when she went on aid she gave any unpaid money to the state. So now they say I owe them 4,000-dollars The Judge granted them their motion and stated, “Once collection of arrears payments has been made that are sufficient to pay off the unassigned assistance pool” Let me de-code 11477. This states that anybody paying child support now owes arrears until the full amount of welfare that is paid to the entire family is paid off. Whether they belong to you or not. In my case I am even paying for the husband, and his 4 children, and his wife! History: My only child was born out of wedlock, and will be 17 soon. My ex has been married to her husband now for 16 years, and they have 4 children of their own. He got hurt, and they went on welfare for 23 months. They both work now, and will be off welfare next month. Total amount of welfare paid to the entire family of 7………….. For 23 months is 19,877 They are adding 35 months at 341 a month when ex was. Not aided… 341 x 35 months is 11,935 I pay 341 monthly for child support for one child On aid……...341 x 23 months is 7,843 Total 58 months is 19,778 Why should I have to pay for a family of seven on Welfare when only one child is mine? The Judge, and DA both told me they didn’t agree with the code. That they both have to abide by it, and enforce it, and if I didn’t like it that I should write my congressman. Welfare Institutions Code 11477 needs to be re-written. |
| Name: | Tonya & Gary |
| E-mail address: | selfsolutions@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | I am on both sides of the fence with this one. I am currently the recipient of child support payments from my ex (3 kids = $800/month). His payments were sporadic at best until I received a garnishment order (he was in the military) but I NEVER filed against him with any agency. As I am the custodial parent, I feel it is my responsibility to maintain my children's lifestyles, whatever that takes. He takes no interest in their life at all, hence, their "dad" is my new husband. Enter his child support responsibilities. His ex lied to the court about where the children were living throughout the separation (they resided with him) and received back child support and current support. Okay, so he keeps up with his payments but she files for the back support, add interest and penalties from our lovely state government agencies and you now have someone with a $20,000 bill for "arrears". How in God's name is someone supposed to pay that? Now he has been injured in 2 separate accidents and can't work & they want to throw him in jail. Do the laws need to be amended, absolutely! Unfortunately, there does not seem to be any lawmakers out there who really care. We highlight the cases of the parents who are living high on the hog and not paying but don't stop to look at the ones that love their kids and will do anything they can to have a relationship with them but just don't have the capability to pay $800/month for one child plus money towards arrears gained through lying to the courts.
All I can say is what goes around comes around. If you are one of those parents that tries to "stick it" to your ex, be careful. It will come around to bite you in the butt sooner or later. God Bless to all out there who are struggling to make ends meet & just want a relationship with your babies! |
| Name: | Sandy |
| E-mail address: | mrs_bumgarner@hotmail.com |
| Comments: | I admit some deadbeat parents (men and women both) may get unfair treatment. But trust me when I say some of them really deserve it. I hear these men talking about how unfair it is that women make the choice to have the child even though the man really doesn't want it. Well boys..all I can say is put on a freaking condom. If you didn't strap up you are just as guilty as the WOMAN IS. If you didn't wear a condom then you have NO right to complain if the woman ends up pregnant. That is UNLESS she lied and said she was on birth control. Because we all know that unprotected sex can lead to pregnancy right? That is a basic understanding that we learn early in life, so no excuses there...sex can equal babies, so don't act shocked. My ex told me he wanted a child, as soon as I got pregnant he split and married a woman twenty years older than him with three kids of her own. He didn't pay one red cent in child support for SEVEN years and I never once bothered him for it. When my daughter turned 7 HE made the choice to get involved in her life, HE went to the court and asked for child support to be collected out of his check, NOT ME. But after the newness wore off (six months) HE now decided he didn't want to be around my daughter anymore and hasn't been by HIS choice for SEVEN years. But that court order for child support is still in place and when the OCSE raised his support order HE quit his job to avoid paying a lousy $97.00 a week...even though HE didn't pay crap for SEVEN YEARS! So I would say he is a lousy deadbeat, definately. He is licensed electrician and I know he works under the table so he can avoid paying $50.00 a week in child support, the OCSE wasn't able to increase it because he quit his job before the order took affect. So please don't say the majority of deadbeats are unfairly judged because it is just not true at all and that goes whether that deadbeat is male or female. |
| Name: | Alana Chaffee |
| E-mail address: | alana.chaffee@gmail.com |
| Homepage URL: | http://www.ilovecaitlinchaffee.com |
| Comments: | My husband gained custody of his daughter but had trouble keeping up the criteria the court said he had to have. The maternal grandparents offered to take care of his daughter wile he got on his feet. Not long after he recieved adoption papers and could not afford to go across the country to fight them in court. Now he is not allowed to talk to his daughter. It is a huge injustice that this has been allowed to happen. Both him and his daughter are really missing out. He started a website to get the word to her that he loves her. Please check it out. He would love suggestions and encouragement through his support book. Please check out ilovecaitlinchaffee.com |
| Name: | Pj |
| E-mail address: | pjoyce0807@peoplepc.com |
| Comments: | it's a sad situation but best for all if my son gives up his parental rights which the mother has proposed to him. He does pay child support would that be eliminated in NJ? The situation is just not good with no forseeable future with his son. He's (child) in Florida & my son in NJ. MY son is painstakingly considering the forfeiture of parental rights but wonders how it affects child support pmts. Any knowledge out there of NJ LAW? thanks |
| Name: | BLISU |
| E-mail address: | BLISU@YAHOO.COM |
| Comments: | I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHY THOSE FATHERS THAT DO NOT SEE THERE CHILDREN BECAUSE THE MOTHER MAKES IT INPOSIBLE, WHY THEY DO NOT FORFEIT THERE PARENTAL RIGHTS. THEN THEY WOULD NOT PAY CHILD SUPPORT!!! |
| Name: | FAIR for All |
| E-mail address: | blisu@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | What is fair for all? Well let me start by saying that divorce is wrong, it is bad and it only leads to bad things. But sometimes it is the only choice, because it takes two to avoid.
I am in the process of divorce. The laws states that the standard of living of the children must be maintained. This means the standard of living of the custodial parent (most of the time the mother). This is WRONG!! Divorce should mean the standard of living for all goes down, unfortunatelly. The Dads are usually granted 1 weekend plus every Wednesday visitation. This is approx. 25% of "a wake" time with the Dad and 75% of "a wake" time with the mom. The law is then saying that the standard of living with the Dad does not matter. This is WRONG!! Child support should not purport to maintain the standard of living for the children, as if the Dad were living there. Why? Because he does not live there, that is why. He needs his children, and he needs to have a standard of living when he is with his children that should be equal to the Mom. I beleive that Dads should be made accountable for there children. I have never been late with my child support, but the truth is that the numbers are just not fair. Negociating more time with your children is also amazing. First of not all Fathers want to spend a lot of time with there children. Well the laws per say do not help. I have always felt that I would be the better parent. But I am not the mother and BIASED do exist. Well when it comes time to sit down to negociate, the Mom has all the cards. She is given child support, she is given residencial parent status, and she is still living in the marital home. So how can you get more time with your children? Well in my case offer to maintain child support at the current levels just to have more time with your children. I is the only thing you can offer. They even know more money is out of the question (where I get the money to buy basic needs for the children when I have them.). MOMS, please Realize that just because the law entitles you to everything, this does not make it right. The laws are making divorce appealing (both financialy and socially accepted) for women. This is WRONG!!! |
| Name: | David Ralston |
| E-mail address: | easynow7@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | There should be more websites like yours to bring to lite to America the realities a Father faces when confonted with divorce. There is simply no support for the Fathers and the Fathers are are seen by the courts as no benificial value to their children other than a financial one. This becomes a powerful tool for angery and bitter mothers who's need to tourment the Father outweighs her desires to do what is right for the children envolved. This kind of power instantly removes the Father from his correct role. It then becomes easy for the Mother to replace the Father's role with the man of her choice or turn her children against their father. Although there are many civil divorces with lucky children who's parents work together, there are more that are not and it is the fault of our judicial system. Our laws not only make it easy, but offer a huge financial benifit that encourage mothers to divorce their husbands. To make matters worse, our judicial system engages in name calling of these fathers (deadbeat dads), many of whom may have earned it, but many others who have have not but instead themselves are victims of the judicial system and have lost the Fatherly roles. How can the judicial system refer to them as dead beat dads when many of them have had the "dad" role taken from them by the courts?
I would advise any father to fight because this is a war. Don't give up and take it because you have children and they need you more than your money. |
| Name: | Roy patterson |
| E-mail address: | rook200090@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | I realy like your site. I have a problem of my own I`d like to share with everyone. I`m looking for help with this problem.
I am a father that is unfairly shafted by the law,or system as it is. I have a court order for visitation every weekend,after I took her back to court, with calls every wednesday, so I can have better relations with my son. It worked for about 2 weeks, now I`ve seen him once in the last 13 years. When she stopped my visitation, I stopped the support. Now there trying to jail me for back support, and to top it off. Last month,just before my son turned 18 I recieved a letter that her husband has adopted my son. He has a brother, and a sister (10,and 11 years old) that he has never had a chance to meet. I`m also a stepfather to 4 more children (2 are married with children,and 2 still in school ). I`m unable to work, and have no insurance. Believe me I have realy tried many times. It`s realy taking a toll on me, and my family,mentaly, and emotionly. I am a loving father, and I`m willing to fight this all the way to the suprem court, or even congress. I realy need help with this problem, and dont know how to go about it. My family is behind me all the way. I believe that she should be jailed as well, if i am. Thank You Roy Patterson |
| Name: | Roy patterson |
| E-mail address: | rook200090@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | I realy like your site. I have a problem of my own I`d like to share with everyone. I`m looking for help with this problem.
I am a father that is unfairly shafted by the law,or system as it is. I have a court order for visitation every weekend,after I took her back to court, with calls every wednesday, so I can have better relations with my son. It worked for about 2 weeks, now I`ve seen him once in the last 13 years. When she stopped my visitation, I stopped the support. Now there trying to jail me for back support, and to top it off. Last month,just before my son turned 18 I recieved a letter that her husband has adopted my son. He has a brother, and a sister (10,and 11 years old) that he has never had a chance to meet. I`m also a stepfather to 4 more children (2 are married with children,and 2 still in school ). I`m unable to work, and have no insurance. Believe me I have realy tried many times. It`s realy taking a toll on me, and my family,mentaly, and emotionly. I am a loving father, and I`m willing to fight this all the way to the suprem court, or even congress. I realy need help with this problem, and dont know how to go about it. My family is behind me all the way. I believe that she should be jailed as well, if i am. Thank You Roy Patterson |
| Name: | Chris |
| E-mail address: | cluv88n38@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | I have enjoyed your site over the last few days. I wish to relate my story here as well. My oldest 2 children turned 19 in December, one moved from his mothers house, the other still lives with her. I filed to modify CS in early December 2006, leaving only one child to continue pay CS. Just this past week, june 28th did I finally get the order for support, even though the Judge ruled on this action in March. My X and her attorney claimed they never received any documents from my Attorney. This is the reason we must do something to change the attitude of the courts. The over payments I made during this time I will have to try to recover from the mother of my children myself. During this entire court action, i was called numerous times by my x to inform me of what a sorry father I was and how I have never taken care of my children the was I should and how she tells them this and reminds them every single how lucky the children are that they have her to love them and care for them, because there Father does not. I live with the guilt of hearing this in my mind everyday and I hope someday all this will change. A side note to custodial parent. You seem quite bitter, I hope your not taking this out on your children too! |
| Name: | Chris |
| E-mail address: | cluv88n38@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | I have enjoyed your site over the last few days. I wish to relate my story here as well. My oldest 2 children turned 19 in December, one moved from his mothers house, the other still lives with her. I filed to modify CS in early December 2006, leaving only one child to continue pay CS. Just this past week, june 28th did I finally get the order for support, even though the Judge ruled on this action in March. My X and her attorney claimed they never received any documents from my Attorney. This is the reason we must do something to change the attitude of the courts. The over payments I made during this time I will have to try to recover from the mother of my children myself. During this entire court action, i was called numerous times by my x to inform me of what a sorry father I was and how I have never taken care of my children the was I should and how she tells them this and reminds them every single how lucky the children are that they have her to love them and care for them, because there Father does not. I live with the guilt of hearing this in my mind everyday and I hope someday all this will change. A side note to custodial parent. You seem quite bitter, I hope your not taking this out on your children too! |
| Name: | Michael Deshawn Key |
| E-mail address: | mcharmonie@aol.com |
| Homepage URL: | http://www.orgsites.com/ny/legacieinc. |
| Comments: | Hello,I feel that the child support system has gone way too far the way they just completely demolish a mans integrity.This is very bad and many laws need to be changed immediately.Thankyou,for all your insight and support on child support services and info. |
| Name: | Triston Dakota Mitchell |
| E-mail address: | triston.mitchell@insightbb.com |
| Comments: | Great site. I am have major issues of my own, and am in search of any helpful information available. That is how I came across your site. Any credible sources that you may have, I would like to know about.
Thanks for sharing, Triston |
| Name: | Bobby |
| E-mail address: | Kickboxx@hotmail.com |
| Comments: | cool site fran! |
| Name: | spepi |
| E-mail address: | spepi@heroix.com |
| Comments: | Moms Can Be Deadbeats Too
Friday, August 09, 2002 By Liza Porteus HI, I am a custodial father of my twin 11 year old boys. I am remarried, so my new wife and I provide a very stable environment for my boys. My ex-wife has been in the legal system since I got custody of them. She was ordered to pay child support while she was incarcerated. This was 2 years ago. She is out of jail, out of rehab, but still doesn’t think she owes me anything. She is behind over 13,000.00. I have myself contacted the Massachusetts Child support enforcement agency and they have been in contact with the California child support agencies. I don’t understand why woman think they are above tha law and don’t have to pay for their children. When she had custody...if I was a day late, she was on my case. It’s not all about the money either, but if it were being paid on time or even paid at all, my kids would be able to have more extra curricular hobbies. Sorry for the vent, but I found your article. |
| Name: | Jeanette |
| E-mail address: | gonzalezvana@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | I am so glad to hear that I am not alone, I felt that the whole world had turn against me. I came from a very abusive relationship, my husband physically, verbally abused me, in front of my 4 children, my oldest then was 7, but she remembers like it was yesterday, she is now 12.
I really thought that the System would protect us, I was wrong.. My ex-husband Joel made my children lie about me, which I thought the court would go futher and investigated, they did not do that. I was devastated I LOST CUSTODY, my oldest was 7, my youngest was 1, it was horrible how could this happen. My world came to an end at that moment, everything stood still, how could it be possible for him to get custody, how? I had stay in that relationship beacuse of my children, and now left with nothing. Five years have past, it was hard but I pulled through, I remarried have 3 beautiful children, a professional, who ever thought, now I'm ready, I have to get them back. My oldest is now 12, she says " Mom my dad made me says those horrible things about you, he said he would hurt you, so I did it, I was scared." She thinks is simple, to just go and talk to the judge and tell him the truth. I tell her is not that simple. We would like some advise, my daughter is suffering and I can't help her, I have my hands tight behind my back. I am afraid of the system, I do not trust them. She cries she feels is a her fault, I tell her is not but she does not lisen, she says her sister and 2 brothers are so sad and she feels that she has let them down. She so little but behaves like an adult. I pay child support and everytime he feels like taking me back to court he does it, is a game to him, why are people so cruel. I am happy today but my life is not complete, while my suferring ended, my children are still trap, PLEASE HELP? HELP US |
| Name: | Jeanette |
| E-mail address: | gonzalezvana@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | I am so glad to hear that I am not alone, I felt that the whole world had turn against me. I came from a very abusive relationship, my husband physically, verbally abused me, in front of my 4 children, my oldest then was 7, but she remembers like it was yesterday, she is now 12.
I really thought that the System would protect us, I was wrong.. My ex-husband Joel made my children lie about me, which I thought the court would go futher and investigated, they did not do that. I was devastated I LOST CUSTODY, my oldest was 7, my youngest was 1, it was horrible how could this happen. My world came to an end at that moment, everything stood still, how could it be possible for him to get custody, how? I had stay in that relationship beacuse of my children, and now left with nothing. Five years have past, it was hard but I pulled through, I remarried have 3 beautiful children, a professional, who ever thought, now I'm ready, I have to get them back. My oldest is now 12, she says " Mom my dad made me says those horrible things about you, he said he would hurt you, so I did it, I was scared." She thinks is simple, to just go and talk to the judge and tell him the truth. I tell her is not that simple. We would like some advise, my daughter is suffering and I can't help her, I have my hands tight behind my back. I am afraid of the system, I do not trust them. She cries she feels is a her fault, I tell her is not but she does not lisen, she says her sister and 2 brothers are so sad and she feels that she has let them down. She so little but behaves like an adult. I pay child support and everytime he feels like taking me back to court he does it, is a game to him, why are people so cruel. I am happy today but my life is not complete, while my suferring ended, my children are still trap, PLEASE HELP? HELP US |
| Name: | FranApple |
| E-mail address: | franapple@suscom.net |
| Homepage URL: | http://www.franapples.com |
| Comments: | Make an entry private if you only want me to read it. |
| Name: | john Gillespie |
| E-mail address: | john@helivesin.us |
| Homepage URL: | http://www.helivesin.us |
| Comments: | I am A victom of a growing problem in the united states and around the world.
Parental abduction and parental alienation PAS. On Dec. 06,1998 my wife fled the state of Virginia taking my 6 year old son Matthew. She violated visitation orders and kept here and my son's whereabouts unknown for 4 years moving from state to state.In June of 2003 unknown by me she was living in Perkasie ,Pa.And her new husband(the man she fled with)filed for adoption in Bucks county Oprhan's Court for adoption.Claiming they didn't know my whereabouts. I found out about it and they lost the case.You would think know I would be able to see my son after 5 long years. Wrong! she filed an appeal Pa.Superior court Phila. Feb.03,2005 they lost appeal.and I have a court date for custody at Bucks County D.R.S. March 30th 2005@ 10:00 am.Gillespie Vs. Kulesza for minor child M.J.G.<.(note has been 6 1/2 years since I seen my son). My son was a victom of parental abduction and child mentalabuse.and Authorites do nothing.I called F.B.I., state police in 3 states,Social services in 3 states, local police and wrote to senators ,congressmen,state senators and state reps.No one would do anything.I went to sellersville Elementry school where my son was attending in 2004 to get his school records and was removed from school and denied his records and they violated my civil rights. This is just the tip of the ice burg. P.S. I was Mr. Mom to my son and my wife worked at the Post office 6 days a week. Day of child support order she told the judge I made her salary and was order to pay support on here income.It worked because a womens word in court is the Gospel Truth. May GOD help Us all. |
| Name: | M SMARJESSE |
| E-mail address: | SMARJ4@YAHOO.COM |
| Comments: | I REALLY ENJOYED THIS WEBSITE AND I THINK PRESIDENT BUSH IS DOING A GREAT JOB |
| Name: | Susan Gray |
| E-mail address: | grayszy1@aol |
| Comments: | There's no doubt about it, too many good guys are getting the shaft and too many children are being deprived a father by the system's hand. Laws definently need revised and a balance, so to say, needs to be established.
Thus far, the ball has been in the court of the 'biological mother' merely by the virtue of sex. Time's are changing and it is times for both the system and society to recognize the fact that it takes more than than merely 'giving birth' to create a 'mother' Because of the prejudice exercised against 'Deadbeat Dad's' the issue of 'Deadbeat Mom's" is virtually swept under the the rug when, in fact, the deadbeat mother should be considered in a somewhat harsher light. How, may I ask, can a woman carry a child within her body, give birth then totally shun the responsibility? How can a woman use her own child for personal gain? For every so-called deat-beat dad there is a woman who gives 'motherhood' a bad name. Ultimately it is the child who pays the price. It is time for change. |
| Name: | Ethan Bering |
| E-mail address: | cbering@woh.rr.com |
| Comments: | It is an emotional experiance threw perolous moments. |
| Name: | custodial mother |
| Comments: | and another thing ,This is not about you and your rights...Fathers!!!This is about your children and providing everything that they need.Who cares if you have anything .I don't. All my money goes to the care of my children as any decent parent would agree.Sure times are tight but you as a father should go without before one of your children ever do.What is wrong with you people??Shame on any one who would help a man get out of supporting his children!! God says He is the defender of the fatherless.
I'm telling you dead beat dad's you will answer to God!! |
| Name: | Cusodial Mother |
| Comments: | You are way off base. I think the court system does everything it can to help the ncp/father work out a way to catch up arrears before taking away the license or putting him in jail. And I am sick to death of the excuse if he doesn't see his child he shouldn't have to pay!!!There isn't a mother out there who would keep a decent kind loving non alcoholic father away from her child.This is just another whiney excuse from a man and his new wife to keep from paying his part. And for the record the child support goes to my child for all his basic needs and a few things he enjoys,it is never enough to lift our standard of living or for me to blow on hairstyles and manicures .Quit acting like somekind of victim and pay what is owed. |
| Name: | mark |
| Comments: | I am a life-long republican from Iowa, and am very concerned with the direction the Republican party is going.
I hope this is a true and open dialogue so that we may keep to our values and keep “the good” in office. I want my two children to grow up in a country with real Republican values, many of which reflect the Christian household I was brought up in. I was also taught there MUST be a separation of church and state, a small government, and compassion for fellow man are necessary. I want to live in a country where I can speak my mind about the issues that matter to me without fear. Some of the things I am concerned with are: What is Cheney saying “Go Fuck Yourself” to other national politicians?? And making money through Haliburton off of the war? He thus Breaks the commandment “Thou shalt not steal”. I do not think that increasing the national debt by 400 billion dollars is very conservative, I myself have no debt and was raised to never ever go in debt. Now that it proven there were no weapons of mass destruction, didn’t President Bush break the commandment “Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbour”? There seems to be a lack of compassion for our fellow man via: Cuts in education, healthcare and Headstart. Going to war breaks the commandment “Thou shalt not kill”. My family has fought in every American war since the Civil War. War is SOMETIMES justified obviously, but violence begets violence. And to quote a fellow blog poster: "The only thing necessary for evil to triumph is that good men do nothing." Take that, hand-wringing liberals! So, I guess I am asking any fellow citizens what they think, any suggestions?? thanks, mark |
| Name: | JoshuaBoyce |
| E-mail address: | JoshuaBoyce@marinecorps.com |
| Comments: | I am a 16 year old from WA. And I was raised right...I mean I was raised with good Christian moral values. And I thank my parents each and every day for raising me with character honor and integrity. I have learned to recognise others with these qualities.
George W. Bush is a man of honor, character, and integrity and I would do anything to get him back in office to be God's hand in running the United States of America. Thank You what you do by supporting our president! Joshua Boyce Civil Air Patrol - United States Air Force Auxiliary |
| Name: | martin law |
| E-mail address: | spyder168@sbcglobal.net |
| Comments: | Nice website,good pics of our commander and keep up the good work. |
| Name: | KIM |
| E-mail address: | babygirl_cupiedoll@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | Nice website! |
| Name: | KokoBerryMountianHunter |
| E-mail address: | need4speed4u2@hotmail.com |
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| Comments: | I like your website and the chat room is awesome......glad I found it,thought I was alone in the world,lol.......later |
| Name: | Michael |
| E-mail address: | plundered@hotmail.com |
| Comments: | Court this morning. I was terminated in Oct 2003. Ex wife is on strike with the California grocery clerk strike. She is not working in the meantime. I have acquired employment at about 60% of my prior earnings. The court upheld the original support order due to her being on strike with no income.
The amount I will be left with is under $1,000 per month. My rent is $800 a month. Even if it was $500, there is no way I can live. She lives with her boyfriend who pays the bills. I am not so lucky. What I need to do is gather info on what is going to happen when I quit paying my support order and how do I deal with the ramifications. The judge actually told me that "some people go into bankruptcy trying to make their support payments." And then where does that leave one? There are fathers out there that know how to get around the system. Please contact me. I refuse to let the biased system destroy my life just because I had a severe decrease in my income. There must be options. Thank you. |
| Name: | Gram-ma Riki |
| E-mail address: | gogramgo@hotmail.com |
| Homepage URL: | http://www.angelfire.com/ks3/krazykritters |
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| Name: | Randy Cameron |
| E-mail address: | randyhc1@netzero.net |
| Homepage URL: | http://www.free-books-1.com/b/h.w_brands/ |
| Comments: | You have only touched the tip of the iceberg. I have been doing comprehensive background work over the past ten years regarding child support, dad's rights and the way that the court's use the children, the mother and the father as pawns in the game the court calls...."Divorce"....
Here is a little something to wet your appetite.... There are companies in the state where I live that are getting kick backs under the table out of a fathers child support that is being garnished out of his paycheck each month. The state gives a percentage of the monthly child support check back to the company the father works for and that "under the table". It's called graft. The reason it is being done is because in all reality the State does not have the legal authority or the legal right to take the mans money in the first place. When you force a business or an individual to do something and that agains their will, that is tyranny, slavery, involuntary servitude. So what does the state do for these companies that get the kick back? They tell the companies, if you do this for us, (actually break the law against the father by garnishing his paycheck), we will give you a percentage of his child support check back to you. In other words they are bribing the company officials to do this for them. Here is the kicker to all of it. After the kick back is given, the state goes ahead and cuts a child support check for the total amount and sends it to the mother, even though a percentage of it has been given back to the company that garnished it for them. Where does that leave us in all of this? Well, the only way that they can send a check for the total amount is to have two sets of books, of accounting books. One book is the one they tell us about that is always in the hole, and that requires more tax dollars each and every year just to keep the state's head above water. The other accounting book is the one that is the "real" accounting book, the one that is not in the hole, but that in reality no doubt is busrsting at the seams with more than enough money. This is not a bedtime story I have just told you here, it is the truth and only the tip of the iceberg. I am only free to share this portion of my ongoing investigation with you. God will in due time bring out the rest. And believe me, that hour is at the door. Respectfully, Randy H Cameron 1-03-2004 |
| Name: | Randy Cameron |
| E-mail address: | randyhc1@netzero.net |
| Homepage URL: | http://www.free-books-1.com/b/h.w_brands/ |
| Comments: | You have only touched the tip of the iceberg. I have been doing comprehensive background work over the past ten years regarding child support, dad's rights and the way that the court's use the children, the mother and the father as pawns in the game the court calls...."Divorce"....
Here is a little something to wet your appetite.... There are companies in the state where I live that are getting kick backs under the table out of a fathers child support that is being garnished out of his paycheck each month. The state gives a percentage of the monthly child support check back to the company the father works for and that "under the table". It's called graft. The reason it is being done is because in all reality the State does not have the legal authority or the legal right to take the mans money in the first place. When you force a business or an individual to do something and that agains their will, that is tyranny, slavery, involuntary servitude. So what does the state do for these companies that get the kick back? They tell the companies, if you do this for us, (actually break the law against the father by garnishing his paycheck), we will give you a percentage of his child support check back to you. In other words they are bribing the company officials to do this for them. Here is the kicker to all of it. After the kick back is given, the state goes ahead and cuts a child support check for the total amount and sends it to the mother, even though a percentage of it has been given back to the company that garnished it for them. Where does that leave us in all of this? Well, the only way that they can send a check for the total amount is to have two sets of books, of accounting books. One book is the one they tell us about that is always in the hole, and that requires more tax dollars each and every year just to keep the state's head above water. The other accounting book is the one that is the "real" accounting book, the one that is not in the hole, but that in reality no doubt is busrsting at the seams with more than enough money. This is not a bedtime story I have just told you here, it is the truth and only the tip of the iceberg. I am only free to share this portion of my ongoing investigation with you. God will in due time bring out the rest. And believe me, that hour is at the door. Respectfully, Randy H Cameron 1-03-204 |
| Name: | Labeled "dead beat" |
| E-mail address: | robbort23@hotmail.com |
| Comments: | I'd really like to thank people like whoever wrote this web site in deffense of, especially, fathers like myself who would do anything...ANYTHING...to see their child or children and don't because of one of the reasons mentioned here on this site. I just got out of an over crouded prison at which I spent 4 months, lost my business and my day job, and pretty much my life. Why? All because my childs mother prefers to be promiscuous and I call her a slut, and kick her out of my life. Even though there is a custody order I haven't seen our child for over a year. But yet I am to pay into domestic relations an un-godly amount a month that I can't afford and if I miss one payment I go back to prison like a criminal for 6 more months. While she does nothing, doesn't work, doesn't even try to make something of herself and collects child support from me and welfare benefits. It is rediculous! Justice my ass!!!
I'm not a criminal and I don't belong in jail. Why don't these wonderful judges start sending mothers that don't fallow court orders to prison? They don't, even with high amounts of proven contempt, and numerous times in court for contempt, they just continually say "don't do that again" and let them go but they're sooooo willing to ruin an honest mans life - completely. Because of my time spent in jail (which has done really nothing besides this) has made me severly depressed, and I'm not sure what I'm going to do with myself now. Replacing a $40k a year job and a business in which the profits were equivelant isn't easy to do when you're at an interview and they ask "So why haven't you worked in 4 months?" What, really, can we do about this? There needs to be enforcement for the fathers side of this subject, or at least a LOGICAL way of combining custody and support. (Which should be considered the same issue: Dad don't pay= he doesn't see kids; Mom doesn't let dad see kids= she doesn't get paid.) Really, anyone out there know what we can do about it? Vote? don't make me laugh... |
| Name: | fred Cole |
| E-mail address: | wildbuthousebroken@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | My children have lived with me for the last three years and I have lost my job and had my license taken and I have no ways of even trying to pay child support even thou the children have lived with me. How can this be fair when the children were living with me ask me to take from them to give to their mother who lives in another state and is remarried. It just doesn't make any sense.But she has legal custody. |
| Name: | fred Cole |
| E-mail address: | wildbuthousebroken@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | My children have lived with me for the last three years and I have lost my job and had my license taken and I have no ways of even trying to pay child support even thou the children have lived with me. How can this be fair when the children were living with me ask me to take from them to give to their mother who lives in another state and is remarried. It just doesn't make any sense.But she has legal custody. |
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| Comments: | wow, interesting site.
I've been reading anti-bush sites over the last weekend and today I started to look for pro-bush sites. There doesn't seem to be that many of them, I wonder why... really I do. One thing I've noticed about your site is that you've not given any reason to support gw. Nice pictures, but no arguements as to why you support your president. |
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| Name: | Carrie |
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| Comments: | I am sorry for your situation, and the things that have happened to your family. You are right , laws can be very unfair to fathers :( Yet in other cases, (and in my view).. fathers are NOT CRACKED DOWN ON ENOUGH for the most part.. especially on those that are TRULY a dead beat father (yes, and a mother if it were the same case). My kids dad lives in this town, and always has. Yet has not ONCE seen his child, NOR PAID ONE DIME to me in child support. Yet, the man is FREE and always has been to raise another family , go bowling, drink beer, and work under the table so he need not pay me a dime.. you see the problem there?? This whole COUNTRY is screwed up on this issue... all the way from your end to mine hon. God Bless, and gl with things. I pray they get better for you.... I can only image. |
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| Comments: | Good guestbook and good site ! |
| Name: | Joy |
| E-mail address: | zblue@ihug.co.nz |
| Homepage URL: | http://www.titocares.com/ |
| Comments: | Hello! Very lovely site, it's been a pleasure to view - thanks for sharing. Keep up the excellent work. Joy.
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| Name: | Head Guardian Nefertiti |
| E-mail address: | scouts@battleoftheancients.com |
| Homepage URL: | http://battleoftheancients.com/ |
| Comments: | I have just been looking at your site, and I think you
have done a wonderful job on it! I would like to invite
you to show off your site in a web site competition
called -
It is a web site competition where you can put your site up against other web sites to see if your site can move to the top and RULE THE WORLD! There are thirteen teams in the competition,
The House of the Aztec I hope you will come and visit us and consider joining our competition. It is a great way to gain more exposure to your site, while having a little fun as well. I know that your site would make a wonderful addition!
'Copyright Battle of the Ancients 2002' |
| Name: | Master SnowKitten |
| E-mail address: | snowkitten70@yahoo.com |
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| Name: | Taku Ashu |
| E-mail address: | tashu74@yahoo.com |
| Homepage URL: | http://jump.to/takuashu |
| Comments: | Hey,
What a great page you have here with good graphics and well arranged thus it makes it easier for somebody to navigate through. Keep up with the hard work. Taku Ashu  |
| Name: | charles edwin tew |
| E-mail address: | xwalk2@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | Your page is interesting. I have full custody of my only son, but in the process, the system cost me everything I owned. In addition, his mother has liberal visitations that I agreed for outside of the court system, but she still refuses to get a job and pay child support. The real answer to your delimma is for the court system to have enought COMPETENT judges who can actually enforce the child support and visitation orders. As it stands now, most state family courts are a joke. To resolve the problem, teach your children good values about committment and responsibility and remind them that they are the future of this country and the family. It will be up to them to put an end to multi-generational femi-nazis who want men to pay for everything while they live the life of Gomer (read the book of Hosea in the bible for a better enlightenment of today's PROGESSIVE? women). As for the men who don't pay their child support and vigorously use the legal system to combat these evil women, GET OFF YOUR BUTTS at ALL COSTS. SHOW NO MERCY to these evil women who are set on revenge and YOUR destruction. Treat them as the evil people they are. Gotta go, have to get back to the court-house to file a contempt order and show cause on my ex-wife for not paying child support or equitable distribution. If you snooze you lose.
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| Name: | Joyce |
| E-mail address: | foxldy@satx.rr.com |
| Homepage URL: | http://www.geocities.com/foxldy |
| Comments: | I would like to welcome you to Phoenix Rising. We are so happy to have you as part of our group. 
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| Name: | Faith |
| E-mail address: | princessfaith46@yaho.com |
| Homepage URL: | http://faithsfantasy.tripod.com/ |
| Comments: | I would like to welcome you to Phoenix Rising. We are so glad to have you as part of our group.
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| Name: | Elsinore |
| E-mail address: | elsinore4u@yahoo.co.uk |
| Homepage URL: | http://209.123.169.4/PhoenixRising.htm |
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| Name: | Elsinore |
| E-mail address: | elsinore4u@yahoo.co.uk |
| Homepage URL: | http://www.geocities.com/elsinore4u |
| Comments: | Hello Fran,
I have stopped in at your lovely web home to personally welcome you to Phoenix Rising. I am delighted that you have chosen to join us, and I am sure you will feel very much at home in the warm and comfortable atmosphere of our group.
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| Name: | Mags |
| Homepage URL: | http://www.blacklace.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk |
| Comments: | Hi there! I enjoyed looking round your site and would like to welcome to our group, Phoenix Rising. I hope you enjoy the group and getting to know us all, if there is anything you need to know just ask, everyone is happy to help. Keep up the good work.
Mags Welcoming Committee Phoenix Rising  |
| Name: | Linda |
| E-mail address: | book_knook@yahoo.com |
| Homepage URL: | http://www.huxhold.net/Book_Knook.html |
| Comments: | Hi!!
A warm welcome to Phoenix Rising!!! We are glad to have you with us!! Hugs! Linda
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| Name: | Betty |
| E-mail address: | faerie@icx.net |
| Homepage URL: | http://www.yellowroseprincess.com |
| Comments: | Hello...we at Phoenix Rising welcome you to our family of wonderful ladies..if you need anything just yell...
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| Name: | Andrea |
| E-mail address: | webmistress@alwaysevolving.org |
| Homepage URL: | http://www.alwaysevolving.org |
| Comments: | Welcome to Phoenix Rising! Hope you enjoy your time with us.
Be In Joy, Andrea Phoenix Rising Welcoming Committee
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| Name: | Kimmie |
| E-mail address: | miracle@htc.net |
| Homepage URL: | http://miraclebaby128.freeservers.com |
| Comments: | Just checking out your site.
Phoenix Rising Site Review Team |
| Name: | ibeth |
| Homepage URL: | http://www.geocities.com/ibethdellemann |
| Comments: | Good Morning,
my compliments on your cause, I could not agree more.In a self absorbed society of wants we often forget the most important thing, our children. Of course this is not only an american problem, but worldwide, I call it the greed factor. keep up the Excellence I send my Love Ibeth |
| Name: | Joyce |
| E-mail address: | foxldy@satx.rr.com |
| Comments: | Greetings! I am from the Phoenix Rising Site Review Team, just taking a look around your webpage on the net!
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| Name: | Linda |
| E-mail address: | book_knook@yahoo.com |
| Homepage URL: | http://www.huxhold.net/Book_Knook.html |
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| Name: | Chilady |
| E-mail address: | chilady@ukonline.co.uk |
| Comments: | Hi, Will you please get in touch with me regarding your RAOK fragment? Thank you. :)  |
| Name: | ANYA |
| Homepage URL: | http://home.no/anyas |
| Comments: | ENJOY YOUR SUMMER!
Best wishes & greetings from Anya c",) ANYAS WINNIE THE POOH PARAD(IS)E 1000+® |
| Name: | Claudia/Aliarene |
| E-mail address: | aliarene@spamcop.com |
| Homepage URL: | http://www.survivingasthma.com/webrings.htm |
| Comments: | I just want to wish you a very happy and safe Halloween.  |