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Francoise
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Name: TeresaR
E-mail address: Teresa@maro.net
Homepage URL: http://www.maro.net/teresa/
Comments:Francoise,

This is my gift to you and Nick. While I never met Nick in
person, he seemed like a wonderful man. To hear you speak
of him, and to hear of him teasing you while we chatted on
IM, I felt him to be a wonderful person, with an extra
strong strength of character. As JD said, the Head Trainer
only recalls the BEST so early. While it all may not make
sense now, know that we are with you, and we love you. And
we send our love.
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 05:23:08 PM
Name: Boot's Mum
E-mail address: macado@gate.net
Comments:I sent this to you, but I'll repost it here. Words are
woefully inadequate to express the depth of our feelings,
especially at a time like this. But remember, as long as
you have your memories, he will never truly be gone.

Memories...

The memories
of the moments
we have shared
I wrap around me
like a blanket
to keep me warm
when you are gone.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dianne
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 05:34:05 PM
Name: Robin/Furfeather
Homepage URL: http://home.earthlink.net/~reg3/
Comments:Grief and sadness
Loss overwhelming
Our eyes, weeping
Our hearts, aching
Our arms surround you
Giving support, comfort
Shoulders to lean on
You're not alone

Feel the love
Of our Acme community
Reaching out to you
Enduring with you
Soul numbing pain
Which somehow
Must be borne
You're not alone

Our prayers with you
That peace be found
In memories cherished
Share your grief, your pain
Your tears, your sorrow
With us, we're here
To help you through
You're not alone

~~~~~

Bless you Francoise, for always being there with a giving
heart and a helping hand whenever it is needed. I simply
don't have the right words to express how badly I hurt for
you. I'd do anything if I could undo this and give you more
precious time with your beloved Nick.
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 05:49:05 PM
Name: Agne
E-mail address: laberner@ameritech.net
Comments:Thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of unbearable
grief. Be strong in the knowledge that you had a wonderful
husband for many years and that he will be forever alive
within you.
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 05:51:21 PM
Name: Ruth aka Urge to Herd
E-mail address: organize@sonic.net
Comments:Francoise,there is nothing to say except that we love you,
and are thinking of you now and in the days ahead. Give
yourself a hug from me and the Border Weasels, pass one
along to Leilah from us. I wish I could be there to hug you
in person.
Ruth, Sammie and Shona
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 05:57:40 PM
Name: Wisconsin
E-mail address: EileneR@hotmail.com
Comments:Our deeptest sympathy on the loss of your partner and
friend, Nick. Kindred spirits are never really parted. We
just need to be at different places for a time. All the
joy, all the love, that you have shared together will
always be. Carry your memories close in your heart for
these treasures will be shared...when you meet again.
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 06:06:55 PM
Name: newfie
E-mail address: newfie@cybrzn.com
Comments:my prayers are with you. i remember when i first joined the
dog house you were one of the first to welcome me and give
me your web page with all your wonderful advice and laughs.
you struck me as a very happy well adjusted person. i only
hope thru all of this you never lose that sense of humour
and the hapiness you shared with a wonderful man. JD sums
it all up in the write up for you. there is some wonderful
stuff in that that would make a person look at things from
a different prospective. give leihla a hug for me and
please know you can e-mail me at any time......this truly
is a trying time for you but you sure do have so many
wonderful friends at this bulletin board.

newfoundly yours,
christine
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 06:10:48 PM
Name: Stacie/Twinkie's Mom
E-mail address: chimom@ptdptolog.net
Comments:Dear Francoise,
Words cannot begin to express my deepest sympathies for your loss. Please know that you are not alone in your grief, that I will share your tears and send you prayers for strength to get through this. Take comfort in Leilah, she will need you as much as you need her. I wish love and peace.
Stacie
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 06:16:38 PM
Name: bsp
E-mail address: bsp@frontiernet.net
Comments:I am so very sorry for your loss, and hope that you find
comfort and solace knowing that Nick is at peace.
Bev
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 06:17:39 PM
Name: Stacie/Twinkie's Mom
E-mail address: chimom@ptdptolog.net
Comments:Dear Francoise,
Words cannot begin to express my deepest sympathies for your loss. Please know that you are not alone in your grief, that I will share your tears and send you prayers for strength to get through this. Take comfort in Leilah, she will need you as much as you need her. I wish love and peace.
Stacie
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 06:18:11 PM
Name: Wauchula Woman
E-mail address: rl62@hotmail.com
Comments:Francoise, I don't have any flowery words to say because I
am a plain type person, but I would like to offer a bible
verse that I have clung to in times of deep sorrow and pain.
It is Psalm 34:18...The Lord is nigh unto those that have a
broken heart. It sounds useless, but if you really think
about those words, it means that God is especially close to
people whose hearts are broken. At my worst times, God has
always been there. I may not recognize it at that
particular moment in time, but later, I look back and say,
"Yes, God was with me." I hope that somehow, someway, that
this verse will comfort you. It's all I have to offer other
than my deepest sympathy.

We love you,
Lisa Shires
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 06:20:00 PM
Name: Marge
Comments:Francoise. I wish I could do more than offer words of
condonlence. Know that you will be in my thoughts and
prayers in the days and months to come. Also know that you
are loved by so many who wish to help you through this. You
have always been so caring and giving, now it is going to be
time for you take. We will be here for you.

You are in my thoughts.
Marge
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 06:23:21 PM
Name: Karen Queenie II
E-mail address: littlebit@hubserv.com
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/Petsburgh/6739/index.html
Comments:Dear Francoise,

It hard to know what to say at a time like this. You are
such a wonderful person, and you do so much for so many. I
wish there was something I could do to make your heart stop
aching. All I can do is send my love and prayers to you,
and tell you how sorry I am. God be with you...Bless you
and Leila...

Love Karen
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 06:40:10 PM
Name: Patti
E-mail address: myhound@webtv.net
Comments:Dearest Francoise
My heart aches for you over your loss of Nick. You are in my prayers and in my thoughts.If you need to talk or some company, im around the corner. Ive got a big shoulder to lean on. Im one of the lucky ones as I have met you a couple times and know what a truly wonderful person you are,and know God is there to help you through this.
Your friend
sincerly
Patti
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 06:45:13 PM
Name: Codes
E-mail address: codes@cybrzn.com
Comments:Francoise,

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult
time. I'm am so very sorry for your loss. My heart just
breaks for you. All of your friends are here for you day
and night. Please lean on us and let us help you get
through this, however we can. Please take care of yourself.
I'm only an email away should you ever want to talk.
{{{ }}} to you and belly rubs to your wonderful
pupper.
Love,
Mary K.
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 06:47:41 PM
Name: Zan
E-mail address: suzy.k.rogers@uwrf.edu
Comments:I'm used to thinking of you as "one of the LMs." I've had
my share of crises in the past few years, and as of late,
I'd come to think of you as one of the other insomniacs on
the board. I'd log on late at night occasionally, or early
in the am, and feel less lost and lonely because you were
out there too.

I hope in the tough days that will follow, that you will let
your Doghouse pals help in any way we can. We are all so
very, terribly sorry for your loss.

Your Nick will always be with you, in your heart.

And your friends are keeping you in their hearts.

Take care.
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 06:49:10 PM
Name: Robin/Bluburd
E-mail address: howlinghillfarm@mindspring.com
Comments:Francoise......What can one really say at a time like this?
No words will ever be able to completely say what one is
feeling, and when spoken, they seem so empty. Words, as we
know them, can never truly express what one's soul feels,
and mine feels deeply for you, and with you.

It is comforting to know that Nick is at The Rainbow Bridge
with my Skeeter, Yodel, Gracin, and Noel - the pups in my
life which have passed on since I've known you. And it's
comforting to know that he's there with the ones who you
have not known much about.

"To die completely, a person must not only forget
but be forgotten, and he who is not forgotten is
not dead". **

My thoughts and prayers are with you now, and will be there
for you in the coming days. Never hesitate to call on me,
my late-night buddy........I'll always be there for you.

Love,

Bluburd


**Samuel Butler (D. 1902), "Death," NOTE-BOOKS (1912)
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 07:21:59 PM
Name: Lynn/Pupr
E-mail address: dthorn1913@aol.com
Comments:My thoughts and prayers are with you during this most
difficult time. Nick must have been a wonderful man; the
love between you incredible. You memories will be a comfort
when reality sets in. My deepest sympathies to you.
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 07:27:45 PM
Name: whisper
E-mail address: shelties3@hotmail.com
Comments:My Dearest Francoise,
I cannot express in words just how sorry I am for your loss. But please know that I do feel your pain and heartache at the loss of Nick. I hope that we, your friends at Acme can somehow help you through the tough times to come. You've been there for us in our times of need, please let us help you through yours. (((HUGS))) Jan
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 07:29:52 PM
Name: Cheyennemama
E-mail address: cocker1@earthlink.net
Comments:I know all the words in the worlds cannot ease the pain in
your heart and soul at this moment~ dear God how I wish I
could help ease this for you. God says I will not let you go
threw anything more than I know you can take...and he must
feel you are a very strong person.
You are such a wonderful and giving woman..and I hurt all
over thinking about your pain...I pray that God will comfort
you and help you get threw this trial that is before you.
Because of this terrible loss in your life I have now become
so much more aware of my husband..and my love for him.
My heart aches for you...and I am so very very sorry and I
am here whenever you need me.
With love~ Cathy
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 07:36:40 PM
Name: Poochini/Robin Pressnall
E-mail address: pup3@aol.com
Homepage URL: http://members.aol.com/pbl2/cancerfiles.htm
Comments:Dearest Francoise..I love you and I am glad it was me you came to on the phone today..My heart is breaking for you and I have said "I love you" to Dale a million times..So very sorry this has happened..I am praying for you and using that hotline I told you about..Love,Robin
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 07:37:00 PM
Name: Dax O'Buff
E-mail address: daxobuff@hotmail.com
Comments:Francoise, I haven't the words to tell you how sorry I am
for your loss. I can tell you that I am here for you, any
time, night or day, if you need to talk, or rant, or cry on
someone's shoulder. I wish I could be there to comfort you
in person.

May God grant you peace.
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 07:42:06 PM
Name: Neaner and Labs
E-mail address: labluver@yahoo.com
Comments:Even tho I am new here at the Acme boards, I have enjoyed
your posts and adv. God bless you and your family in this
time of grief. Big hugs from my family and labbies to you
and yours.
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 07:44:04 PM
Name: Maggie too
Comments:Oh Francoise, there are few words that can truly lend comfort in times like these, yet I know how words no matter what they are can mean so much. Just know that we are all here for you. In time the days will get a little brighter, and you will be able to smile a little more easily. But for now just take it one step at a time. Remember the love you and Nick shared, and thank god for the time you did have together, no matter how short it may now seem. Most importantly I can assure you that he is still with you and will remain with you always. My thoughts have been with you all day, and I have shed many tears as I recall my own losses of loved ones. You will remain in my thoughts, and I will say a prayer for you. I told my husband I loved him tonight, before I hung up the phone, and I told all my children too. You just never know what day, hour, or minute might be your last on this earth. So we all have to learn how to appreciate every ray of sunshine, every drop of rain, and live each day to the fullest.
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 07:52:25 PM
Name: LisaM
E-mail address: dalmatia@eburg.com
Comments:Francoise....I am so very deeply sorry for your sudden and
so unexpected loss. You have been so very compassionate and
understanding for so many of us. We are all with you, we all
share in your sorrow. I don't think one of us would hesitate
to help ease this burden from your shoulders. We are there
for you in every sense of the word. May God bless you in
this time of deepest sorrow. God, how my heart aches for
you, my friend.
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 08:10:47 PM
Name: Jennifer W
E-mail address: vanbasti@tcac.com
Comments:Just wanted to send you a *hug* and warm thoughts, best
wishes, and prayers.
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 08:19:16 PM
Name: Moonshadow--Anne
E-mail address: mnshadow@bbtel.com
Comments:There is nothing I can say to make your pain go away.
Please know that I hold you in my heart and will remember
you in my prayers. If i could take the pain away, I
would.
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 08:32:37 PM
Name: peke-mom
E-mail address: wbrandes@telcosolutions.com
Homepage URL: http://www.telcosolutions.com/chubbs.html
Comments:
I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts.
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 08:34:59 PM
Name: Patsy
E-mail address: patsyd@in-tch.com
Comments:Dear Francoise: May I extend my deepest thoughts and
prayers to you and your family at this very difficult moment
in your life. Please accept my deepest sympathy. It is so
hard to understand why such things happen, but hold onto
your faith for comfort and healing. Your Acme family and
friends all send you strength and courage to help you endure
these painful times. God bless you and Leilah and keep you
safe. We love you. With sincere sympathy, Patsy and "Cash"
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 08:45:14 PM
Name: Patsy
E-mail address: patsyd@in-tch.com
Comments:Dear Francoise: May I extend my deepest thoughts and
prayers to you and your family at this very difficult moment
in your life. Please accept my deepest sympathy. It is so
hard to understand why such things happen, but hold onto
your faith for comfort and healing. Your Acme family and
friends all send you strength and courage to help you endure
these painful times. God bless you and Leilah and keep you
safe. We love you. With sincere sympathy, Patsy and "Cash"
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 08:45:19 PM
Name: Sena
E-mail address: sena67@hotmail.com
Comments:I don't post on Acme very often, I don't really chit chat on
the board, and I've been very reserved where making
"friends" online is concerned. Despite all of that, one
fact has always been apparent to me: that the person behind
the the screen name "Leilah's Mom" was a big-hearted,
decent, caring woman.

Tonight when I logged on, I read wept at the news of your
loss. I wish I had the ability to write something eloquently
comforting... all I can say instead is that you will be in
thoughts and prayers. If you need *anything* at all, please
let me know.

Remember that when the shock wears off and this horrible
tradgedy "hits" you, we'll all be here (I think this might
be the only time I could speak for all of Acme and be
accurate). It might be tomorrow, next week, or months from
now... but we'll be here. Please lean on us when you need
us.

Sena


Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 08:46:50 PM
Name: Goldie-mom
E-mail address: dbl@idirect.com
Comments:Françoise, there are no words that can possibly express how very sorry I am for your loss. Ma très chère amie, mes larmes se joignent aux tiennes, je te souhaite beaucoup de courage. Nick sera toujours dans ton coeur et avec toi. Tu as mes coordonnées, je serai toujours là pour toi.

Diane
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 08:48:23 PM
Name: Deb
E-mail address: debdogs@hotmail.com
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/Petsburgh/3078/webfix.html
Comments:Im so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your
family.
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 08:54:05 PM
Name: Dani
E-mail address: rblyell@hotmail.com
Comments:Dear Francoise,

I am moved by the response to your sorrow. If nothing
else, tonight it has renewed my faith in people. I don't
know what to say except that I am praying for you. I know
what it is to loose someone. I hope you still stay with us
on the boards, I will truly miss your messages and all of
Leilah's antics :)
Last Monday I put my dog to sleep and that night this
quote was in my devotional: " Sorrow stretches the heart to
make room for joy." I can only pray that you remain strong
and kind at a time when it is so easy to grow bitter and
angry. God never takes away without a reason- you must have
some pretty imprtant work ahead. All my hope to you,
Danielle
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 08:56:20 PM
Name: Nina - Cody's mom
E-mail address: ninhar@erols.com
Comments:Francoise I am deeply sorry for your tragic loss. In the
worst of times allow yourself to remember the all the good
times. It will help to heal your heart. Nina
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 08:59:23 PM
Name: jexx
E-mail address: jexx@my-dejanews.com
Comments:Dear Leilah's Mom--
My thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult
time. You have been a good friend to all at Acme (and on
many boards), and we are here for you.
Please be sure to contact any one of us if we can be of
help.
Love,
jexx
(semi-lurker at DogHouse)
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 09:01:56 PM
Name: CHat
E-mail address: dochat@megsinet.net
Comments:Dearest Francoise,


Nick's passing is heartwrenching even to those of us who only know you through the internet. Mostly because "there are glimpses of heaven to us in every act, or thought, or word that raises us above ourselves" (as written by Arthur P. Stanley) and that is what you do. Your kindness and thoughtfulness have touched so many.


I'm glad you had such a wonderful relationship and partner in Nick and am achingly sorry for what's happened. This is a favorite poem of mine, and I hope that joy in memories is not too long in coming. "Sorrow with his pick mines the heart, but he is a cunning workman. He deepens the channels whereby happiness may enter, and he hollows out new chambers for joy to abide in when he is gone."


Much love and solace to you,
Cyrene

Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 09:17:06 PM
Name: LORI/4Paws
E-mail address: Lam420@aol.com
Comments:I'm so terribly sorry for your loss, Francoise. Know you have many friends that care and never hesitate to seek comfort, strength, and support from them. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Lori M.
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 09:30:42 PM
Name: Jo-Anne
E-mail address: jjace@smartlink.net
Comments:Dearest Francoise, I am so very, very sorry to hear of your
loss. My heart is aching for you. I can't begin to imagine
how you are feeling right now, but for whatever's it's
worth, please know that I will help you in any way possible.
You are in my thoughts and prayers. Your friend, Jo-Anne
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 09:42:08 PM
Name: dylansmom/Connie
E-mail address: safewire@alltel.net
Comments:Dearest "Leilah's mom", I am still in tears for your loss
even hours after I read JD's lovely tribute to you. I am
not a frequent poster in ACME, but I do visit and
contribute wherever I feel I can. You are always a light
that shines on those boards, and I pray that in your time
of sorrow and need, God's light will shine down on you and
bring you warmth and solace when and where you most need it.
Keeping you and Leilah in my prayers...
Connie
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 09:51:35 PM
Name: DobieMaid/Sandy
E-mail address: sandybob@micron.net
Comments:Dear Francoise, I am holding you, Nick and your families in
my thoughts and prayers today and in the difficult days to
come. Sometimes it is difficult, if not impossible, to
understand life's tragedies and sadness, but your friends
here will be with you as you work your way through this.
Never forget that the time you had with Nick will keep him a
part of you always. God Bless you and yours. Sandy
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 09:55:59 PM
Name: cleverpooch
Comments:Leilah's Mom,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss...words fail me here...
JD's tribute is lovely, and I hope of some comfort to you...
You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 10:01:40 PM
Name: Yippeeskippy - Wendy
E-mail address: yippeeskippy@excite.com
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Ridge/5490/
Comments:Dear Francoise,

I am so very sorry for the great loss that you have suffered
today. All your friends at Acmepet have rallied around and
encircled you with a great outpouring of love in this sad
time. I think we have all been taken by the scruffs of our
necks and shaken, not too gently, in reminder that we are
not ever to take life for granted.

I am reminded of the "Footprints" story where a man & Jesus
were walking along a beach and suddenly, their two sets of
footprints became only one. That was an especially
difficult time when Jesus was carrying the man. He will
carry you too, Francoise, if you let Him. I have little to
offer you except prayers, but that is the best thing!
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 10:26:23 PM
Name: Jan Porter (JanP)
E-mail address: djporter@ix.netcom.com
Comments:Dearest Francoise,

I have been sitting here all evening looking for the right
words to say to you, but as hard as I tried, I just couldn't
seem to find them. I finally realized that there aren't
any right words. Nothing I can say can fix what has
happened or take away your pain. My words feel empty. I'm so
sorry for that.

I would like to tell you that my heart breaks for you. I'm
so very sorry this has happened. What has happened to you
is probably every wife's worst nightmare. I know it's mine.
I wish there was something that we could do or say that
would make you feel better, but I know that isn't possible
at this time. Just please remember how much we all love
you. You are a wonderful, sweet lady and I wish there was
something that I could do to help you through this. We're
here for you. Please lean on us for support. My thoughts
and prayers are with you and Nick. God bless you both.

With love and prayers,
Jan
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 10:37:00 PM
Name: Julie
E-mail address: boretal@aol.com
Comments:Francoise, until today, I didn't even know your first
name. But I feel like I know your heart. It is full of
love, caring, sharing, and today it is full of pain and
sorrow. Today, I have wept for you. Today, I have prayed
for you. Today, my heart is breaking for you. In such a
short time, your life has gone from calm to chaotic, from
peaceful to plaintive, from delight to despair. I'm so
sorry that Nick, your best friend, the joy of your life is
gone. I pray that God will grant you peace and hold you up
in His arms. With my deepest sympathies and most
heartfelt prayers, Julie
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 11:03:14 PM
Name: Tigger's Mom
E-mail address: pottle@nortelnetworks.com
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/Yosemite/Geyser/1178/
Comments:Hi Francoise,

There is not much I can say that will make you feel better.
Nothing will make you feel better now except time, love,
and healing. I just want you to know that I (and hundreds
of other "cyberfriends" are thinking of you. We are wishing
you the time, healing and love that you need. And perhaps
we can help out a little with the LOVE. You are well-loved
at ACME and a friend to all.

Take care. We are all thinking of you.

Janice
Wednesday, January 27th 1999 - 11:23:39 PM
Name: Marcia & Mandy
E-mail address: mmontal@webtv.net
Comments:Very sorry I don't know you, but you have been there for you. Lots of prayers & hugs. Like everyone else I am here for you. Just email me.

Marcia & Mandy
Thursday, January 28th 1999 - 03:29:18 AM
Name: Stacey
E-mail address: troublenFl@aol.com
Comments:Francoise,

Again I want to send you my deepest condolances. Please
know that I, and everyone on Acme, will be there for you any
time you need us.

Although Nick may be physically gone, he'll never really be
gone. He'll always be with you in your heart.

Take care, my special friend.

Love,

Stacey (Tri-Dog Mama)
Thursday, January 28th 1999 - 04:32:46 AM
Name: LA Jo
E-mail address: Minrox@aol.com
Comments:Francoise,

I'm so very sorry about your loss. I have been trying for
hours to think of something to say to help you. I finally
remembered something I read a very long time ago. Part of
these words are what I read and part of them are mine as I
try to explain it. I hope this helps.

Life is like a tapestry. We are the threads in that
tapestry. Some threads are rather dull in color while some
shine brightly. Some threads are twisted, kinked, and even
knotted while others are straight and smooth. Some threads
are very long while others are short. We look at this
tapestry and all we see is a jumble of threads going in all
directions full of knots, twists, and turns. But that is
because we are looking at the back of the tapestry. God is
looking at the front of it. He sees the beautiful picture
these threads make and he knows that Nick's beautiful
thread was a crucial thread to the beautiful picture he is
looking at.

All of us here love you and you are in our thoughts and
prayers. God and his angels will be there to help you
through this.

Love,

Jo
(LA Jo)
Thursday, January 28th 1999 - 04:56:43 AM
Name: Ingrid
E-mail address:
Comments:Leilah's Mom, I don't know what to say - I'm so very, very
sorry.
My thoughts are with you and your family.

Thursday, January 28th 1999 - 05:00:57 AM
Name: Bonnie (aka LuvMyPups)
E-mail address: wickizer@mis.net
Comments:Francoise (it seems so strange to call you by your "real"
name!), I am so sorry this has happened. I've been trying
to figure out what to say ever since your post appeared on
the DogHouse board yesterday morning but nothing sounds
right....
About 10 years ago, I lost my best friend in a car accident
on Christmas Eve. Beryl was my best friend throughout high
school and college & we were "partners in crime" throughout
many adolescent and young adult hijinks. She was such a
character! You never knew what she was going to do next.
When she died, I was in a state of shock and couldn't cry
until the funeral when the minister started talking about
her sitting at the feet of God. At that point, I lost it
completely, because Beryl could NEVER just sit there! If
she was at God's feet, I know darned well that she'd be
tickling them!!!!! That's just how she was and that thought
brought me a lot of comfort. God must have needed to laugh
so he called her home.....
Maybe in Nick's case, something similar happened. Maybe God
needed to be reminded of our capacity to love so he called
Nick home.....
In any case, I am so sorry that the two of you have been
parted for now.
Love and hugs,
Bonnie
Thursday, January 28th 1999 - 06:54:55 AM
Name: Wanda
E-mail address: wsoto@aksi.net
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Bluffs/2483
Comments:Oh, Francoise, my heart is aching for you. Please know I am
thinking of you and praying for you, my friend (for I do
consider you a friend, though we've never met). God bless
you and give you strength, my dear.
Thursday, January 28th 1999 - 08:05:35 AM
Name: BJBear
E-mail address: nancy1don2@aol.com
Comments:Francois,

I am deeply sorry for your loss. May your heart and mind
heal soon.

Nancy
Thursday, January 28th 1999 - 10:07:39 AM
Name: PupMom - Laurie
E-mail address: lauriemac4@aol.com
Comments:Francoise, I don't have the words to adequately express my
sorrow at learning about your husbands death. But though I
lack words, I have certainly not lacked tears to shed or
prayers to offer. You are in my thoughts and prayers and,
as you requested, I've told everyone how much I love them.
Many times. Many, Many times.

Please remember to take care of yourself at this difficult
time and know that you can turn to me for comfort.

Hugs to you and Leilah,
Laurie
Thursday, January 28th 1999 - 12:02:15 PM
Name: Pati
E-mail address: pkent@tc3net.com
Homepage URL: http://geocities.com/Heartland/Prairie/2924.index.html
Comments:Dear Francoise,

My own words would fall far short of anything I would hope
to say, so may I send you those of another from a time long
ago, but still immortal to this day, in the hope that they
may bring you some comfort:

"And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the
greatest of these is love." -
Bible, 1 Corinthians 13:13

Love is eternal, hold your memories close in your heart.

Pati
Thursday, January 28th 1999 - 03:47:46 PM
Name: Zac's Mom
Comments:Dear Francoise,

I've no better words to share with you then to pass on these sent to me when my dad died ~ I hope they will be as special for you now as they were for me then. To My Dear Family

Some things I'd like to say,
But first of all to let you know
That I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from Heaven
Where I dwell with God above,
Where there's no more tears or sadness
There is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy
Just because I'm out of sight,
Remember that I'm with you
Every morning, noon and night.

That day I had to leave you
When my life on Earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me
And He said, "I welcome you.
It's good to have you back again
You were missed while you were gone,
As for your dearest family
They'll be here later on.
I need you here so badly
As part of My big plan,
There's so much that we have to do
To help our mortal man."

Then God gave me a list of things
He wished for me to do,
And foremost on that list of mine
Is to watch and care for you.
And I will be beside you
Every day and week and year,
And when you're sad I'm standing there
To wipe away the tear.
And when you lie in bed at night
The days chores put to flight,
God and I are closest to you
In the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on Earth
And of our love filled years,
Because you're only human
They are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry
It does relieve the pain,
Remember there would be no flowers
Unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you
Of all that God has planned,
But if I were to tell you
You wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain
Though my life on Earth is o'er,
I am closer to you now
Than I ever was before.
And to my very many friends
Trust God knows what is best,
I'm still not far away from you
I'm just beyond the crest.
There are rocky roads ahead of you
And many hills to climb,
But together we can do it
Taking one day at a time.

It was always my philosophy
And I'd like it for you, too,
That as you give unto the world
So the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody
Who is in sorrow or in pain,
Then you can say to God at night
My day was not in vain.
And now I am contented
That my life it was worthwhile,
Knowing as I passed along the way
I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody
Who is down and feeling low,
Just lend a hand to pick him up
As on your way you go.
When you are walking down the street
And you've got me on your mind,
I'm walking in your footsteps
Only half a step behind.
And when you feel the gentle breeze
Or the wind upon your face,
That's me giving you a great big hug
Or just a soft embrace.

And when it's time for you to go
From that body to be free,
Remember you're not going
You are coming here to me.
And I will always love you
From that land way up above,
Will be in touch again soon
P.S. God sends his love

Author unknown

Thursday, January 28th 1999 - 04:08:59 PM
Name: Thomas
E-mail address: dlttlt@earthlink.net
Comments:To my cousin.....words cannot describe the shock and loss
we all felt when we heard the news yesterday. All of your
fellow co-workers (maintenance and construction included)
have you in your constant thoughts and prayers.

If there is anything any of us can do for you, it will be
done. No questions asked. We are all here for you,
sweetie.

Thursday, January 28th 1999 - 04:14:50 PM
Name: linda hill
E-mail address: khill49er@aol.com
Comments:god will give you stregnth to take care of yourself and
leilah.she will bring comfort and love to you.
Saturday, January 30th 1999 - 12:13:59 AM
Name: Kim(for Gyro)
E-mail address: robot@earthlink.net
Comments:Dearest Francoise,
This is my tenth try at expressing how sorry I am for your
loss.I've come to the realization that mere words will never
be adequate.So forgive me, please, if they fall short. I
just hope you and your precious Leilah will know that you
have many many friends here to help you through these rough
times, and I am privilidged to be counted among this
wonderful and loving group. If I can ever do anything to
help, just let me know. I am available anytime(i'm a late
nite person).
Bless You Both!
kim(and her two babies Gyro& Rocket)
robot@earthlink.net
Saturday, January 30th 1999 - 01:48:07 AM
Name: Teddie's Mom
E-mail address: dara@colleges.org
Comments:Dear Francoise,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. I know how hard it is
to lose a loved one. By looking at the picture you posted,
I can see what a wonderful, happy man Nick was. This was
because you made him happy. Please feel free to e-mail me
any time if you need anything.

Dara (Teddie's Mom)
Saturday, January 30th 1999 - 04:48:32 AM
Name: Carly..My Beagles Mom
E-mail address: bobccc@worldnet.att.net
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Hills/7450
Comments:Dear Francie, words cannot express the sorrow I feel for
you. They say God doesn't give us more than we can handle,
so I believe that you have the strength within to get thru
this. The journey we take thru life has so many ups and
downs, and along the path we connect with so many spirits,
be it people or animal. Some of those connections touch our
souls so deeply there is no explanation needed...Nick was
your soulmate. He will never truly leave you, he will help
guide you thru this pain and sadness. I keep you in my
prayers Francie, and if you ever need a shoulder to lean on
or an ear to listen, I am always here. Give
Leilah *hugs* for me, I'm glad you have each
other. ((((((healing hugs)))))) to you my friend. Love,
Carly
Saturday, January 30th 1999 - 05:02:46 AM
Name: Erika aka hockydog
E-mail address: hockynut@magicnet.net
Comments:Dear Leilah's Mom, because I just can't think of you as
anything but. You have barely been out of our thoughts
since we learned of your husband's passing, and we have been
beaming positive energy your way every since.

You touch so many people with the work, and pictures, and
wonderful posts on the Dog House. I'm so very sorry for you
and Leilah and your family, and everything you are going
through. There is so little we can say, so just know that
we will continue to be here, to talk, and to listen, and to
share. (((hug))) we all do care so very much.

Erika and Czar
Saturday, January 30th 1999 - 06:27:25 AM
Name: Char (Puppy Luv)
E-mail address: doogs3@hotmail.com
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/heartland/village/5099
Comments:Francoise,


I was in shock the day I heard about Nick. My heart skipped
a beat and I was at a loss of words. I cried for you that
day as I cry for you now. I am keeping you in my thoughts
and prayers always. I know you are a strong woman and your
strength and time is what will heal you. My God be with you
and Leilah through this difficult time. I know I can speak
for the entire Acme board when I say that we are here for
you too. Stay strong and keep moving forward with the
wonderful memories you have. (((Hugs))) to you, your
family, and Leilah.


Char, Rudy, Twister, & Nikki

Saturday, January 30th 1999 - 07:48:13 AM
Name: callie's mom(Kimberley)
E-mail address: kimmatt1@worldnet.att.net
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/heartland/bluffs/3348/index.html
Comments:Francoise,
I cried when I read your post about Nick's passing. I do
not know you. I have never me you. Yet this affected me as
if you were one of my close friends. Your generosity is
more than obvious on the board as well as your diplomacy in
times of tumult and your warmth when dealing with the
feelings of others. For this tragedy to befall someone
close to my own age is unimaginable. Compounding that with
the fact that you seem like such a genuine person is
unnerving and beyond unfair. I truly do feel for you in
your time of sorrow and emotional dischord. There's just
not much more I can say....
Saturday, January 30th 1999 - 08:28:25 AM
Name: Laska's Mama/Leanne
E-mail address: lwarner@autodist.com
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Pointe/3376/index.html
Comments:Oh,Francoise...I wept for you when I read the news. I weep
for you now, when I think of what you are going through.
Keep Leilah near to you, she will be your platform from
which to leap. Keep your memories fresh and easy to retrive
of your dear Nick. Know that we all consider you our dear
friend, and we are here for you now and always. All of my
support is here for you. ((hug)) Leanne
Saturday, January 30th 1999 - 09:24:10 AM
Name: Rachel, aka Mitsy's Mom
E-mail address: couture@igalaxy.net
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Ridge/3054/
Comments:I haven't been on the BB much the past few months, and am
now just trying to get back on. I didn't know what was
going on but have now learned the news. I am so sorry for
you. I know how hard losing someone can be. Part of the
reason I was gone was because my grandpa died in December.
I have lost so many people in my life I can tell you the
hurt does start to go away and it is replaced with just the
most intense love and very happy memories. Right now I
know the memories and happy times are clouded with your
loss. Nothing anyone says or does will change that. Just
try to take one day at a time. I can tell you that the
only reason I am able to keep going is because of the hope
that I have. I don't know what your religious beliefs are
or if you even have any. Either way, talking to the
creator, whoever you think that is, is very comforting. It
lessens the pain when you know you will see your loved ones
again, knowing they are just waiting for you. After my dad
died I made a cross-stitch in his memory and then gave it
to my mom that Christmas. I can't find the words right
now, but it was an Irish blessing - you may have heard it.

May the road rise up to meet you, may the wind be always at
your back. ..... and until we meet again, may God hold you
in the palm of His hand.

Went something to that effect. It was very healing for me
to do that. I was comforted just by the words of the
poem. I am thinking of making another one for my house and
have a collage of pictures around it of all my loved ones.

The pain will take a long time to go away, but I hope that
you can find true happiness again. Now, when I think of my
grandma, my grandpa, my dad, my uncle, and I could go on...
I think of all the happy times we had together. Of all the
joy that came out of knowing them. Of the love we had for
eachother. And sometimes I am angry that they are gone,
that I can't share things with them anymore. Just this
week it snowed where I live - national news. I wanted to
call up my grandpa and tell him, but then I remembered he
was gone. It hurt so much not to be able to tell him.
Even so, concentrate on the good times. It will be a long
road ahead to heal. If you need anything, need to talk,
anything, please email me. You live in CA right? Well, we
are pretty close so if you need ANYTHING - go ahead and
email and maybe we can get in touch.

Sorry about rattling on and on.

Take care of yourself and remember the good times.
Love, Rachel - ACME BB
Saturday, January 30th 1999 - 10:16:30 AM
Name: Debi (Feather Duster)
E-mail address: dstokes@sky.net
Comments:Francoise, not only has your loss touched me very deeply,
your strength has shown me how poorly I dealt with my own
loss so many years ago. You have shown how much it can
help to cling to your humor during such painful days. I
wasn't able to do that and suffered terribly for many
years. Nor did I have the support of so many wonderful
friends. The outpouring of Love and Caring we've all seen
this week speaks volumes....it is so refreshing to see
there are still so many wonderful, loving folks out there.
I'm so pleased to see you are not withdrawing as I did, you
will do fine once the pain and shock gradually make way for
changes in your life. Take good care of yourself and
Leilah. Please pass along my sincerest condolences to your
family and friends.

I love you,

Debi
Saturday, January 30th 1999 - 10:34:34 AM
Name: Lhasa mom (Eve)
E-mail address: goyas@stny.lrun.com
Comments:Francoise,

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Remember what I said,
we are all with you in spirit even if you don't see us.
When you feel the breeze in the air know they are hugs from
those who can not be with you. When you feel the rain drops
or snowflakes you will know those are kisses from those who
love you. When you feel the sun, know those are smiles and
love coming your way. Also don't forget to go out at night
and look for the twinkling star that is Nick smiling down
at you. You are not alone. God bless. Eve (Lhasa mom)
Saturday, January 30th 1999 - 10:40:58 AM
Name: Kristina (KShannon)
E-mail address: kris81@hotmail.com
Comments:Francoise, I must admit I was slow to figure out what
happened, but once I did I cried for a long time. I know I
haven't known you that long, but you offered me great advice
and help and I appreciate it emmensly. If there is anything
I can do to help let me know.
Saturday, January 30th 1999 - 11:42:18 AM
Name: Mike and Franca ( Golden Dad )
Comments:Our deepest heart felt sympathies, may you live with the
knowledge that your love for each other will prevail and
last for ever.

Saturday, January 30th 1999 - 04:06:57 PM
Name: CindyV
E-mail address: cindyv@ntr.net
Comments:Francoise, Thank you for the laughter and technical support
and friendship, but even more vitally, thank you for sharing
your pain and helping each of us learn from the sharing. I
know many of us have been more thoughful in all our
relationships this past few days. May we be able to help
you move forward with our love and support in the face of
your awful loss of Nick.
Saturday, January 30th 1999 - 04:28:20 PM
Name: Lisa (LisaK and Tara)
E-mail address: bcrane@warwick.net
Comments:Francoise, there are just no adequate words.......I am so
terribly sorry. I hope you might find just a small amount
of strength and comfort knowing there are so many who
care. You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Lisa
Saturday, January 30th 1999 - 05:47:51 PM
Name: Sal's mom
Comments:I am thinking of you in this sad time. I pray that you
will find the peace and strength you need to get you through
these hard days. Remember that many people have you in
their prayers. My sincerest condolences.
Tuesday, February 2nd 1999 - 08:34:27 PM
Name: Capri
E-mail address: kytty@cadvision.com
Comments:I am so sorry for your loss. This following poem gave me
comfort when my father passed away:

A POEM FOR THE GRIEVING...
Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn's rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there, I did not die...


-Anonymous
Tuesday, February 2nd 1999 - 09:16:30 PM
Name: Louise (tinidogz)
E-mail address: louise@petlover.com
Comments:Francoise, I remember well how gracious and cheerful you were when I unintentionally omitted inviting you (and others) to astro's surprise party. I knew then what a lovely person you are...and I felt so sad when I heard the tragic news. It reminded me of "bad things happening to good people..."

Please count me among the Acme BB friends who feel sadness & sympathy for you, and who will continue to be here for you in any way we can, and to hold you close to our hearts.

((((Hugs))))
~ Louise
Tuesday, February 2nd 1999 - 09:37:22 PM
Name: Pat
E-mail address: maxima@dsuper.net
Comments:Dear Francoise,

Please know how very sorry I am for your loss. Though we do
not know one another, I know you are a wonderful-hearted
person, and so must have been Nick. How do I know this? The
extended family of animal lovers at Acme Pet are all
wonderful, and for one member to be honoured so, by so many,
is because they have been there for others, offered a
helping hand and a sincere caring and respect for all God's
creatures.

J.D.'s words touched us all at Cat's Window very deeply. My
heart goes out to you at this time and if I can be of any
comfort to you in any way, I welcome you to only ask. I will
happily give you my ICQ number if you email me. I may only
be able to listen, to let you know I care for your wellbeing
as you travel through this heavy part of the journey, but it
is yours.

I keep you in my prayers. I wish to pay you and Nick my
respects, and offer my sincerest sympathies. I hope you
increasingly find peace and comfort in your heart.

~Pat
Tuesday, February 2nd 1999 - 10:25:26 PM
Name: granny
E-mail address: granny415@hotmail.com
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Garden/7813/
Comments:My deepest sympathies and prayers for you and your
family.Remember that love does not die..A part of him will
always be with you. I lost my wonderful husband and soul
mate over 8 years ago..Time does help heal the devestating
pain you feel right now..
Tuesday, February 2nd 1999 - 10:44:02 PM
Name: Roxie
E-mail address: RRoxie@aol.com
Comments:Please accept my deepest sympathy and loving support, and the support and caring of so many of us out here on the "boards." Purrs and headbutts, doggie licks and love.

Roxie
Wednesday, February 3rd 1999 - 03:45:29 AM
Name: Abigail (aka Neko)
E-mail address: abigail@tam-lin.org
Comments:Francoise, I am so terribly sorry for your loss. You
have been so caring and so supportive of others, giving so
much of yourself out to help your friends. I never knew
Nick, but I saw your generosity and compassion, your good
humor, your delight, it speaks of a sense of stability and
security that tells me he is a good man. The pictures you
showed us of him and Leilah show that too, a person who gave
joy to those around him.

Your words when you informed us of your loss made a big
impact on me. I have tried to pass the message on to others,
asking them to take a moment to say "I love you" to their
family, however they define that term.

I am so terribly sorry for your loss, I wish I had better
words to say it, and I hope you know that your friends from
the acme boards will always be there should you wish to
talk.
Wednesday, February 3rd 1999 - 06:40:20 AM
Name: Carolyn Burdette(Banners Mom)
E-mail address: ckbscats@aol.com
Comments:In this time of sorrow I send my prayers and hugs to you and
your family.

Carolyn
Wednesday, February 3rd 1999 - 08:14:27 AM
Name: Carolyn Burdette(Banners Mom)
E-mail address: ckbscats@aol.com
Comments:In this time of sorrow I send my prayers and hugs to you and
your family.

Carolyn
Wednesday, February 3rd 1999 - 08:14:44 AM
Name: Sheila
E-mail address: willcad@icon.co.za
Comments:My Dear, dear Francoise

I have missed the BB and now I discover this terrible truth.

you are in my prayers and my thoughts - may God guide you
and comfort you in your desperate need. Whenever you feel
up to it - please write - you will remain in my prayers
Your "training" friend Sheila
Wednesday, February 3rd 1999 - 09:11:02 AM
Name: Charity
E-mail address: Charbray@aol.com
Comments:Francoise:

My family and I are praying for you and your family. We
are terribly sorry for your loss. "The soul would have no
rainbow, had the eyes no tears." John Cheney
Wednesday, February 3rd 1999 - 09:15:54 AM
Name: Charity
E-mail address: Charbray@aol.com
Comments:Francoise:

My family and I are praying for you and your family. We
are terribly sorry for your loss. "The soul would have no
rainbow, had the eyes no tears." John Cheney

Charity
Wednesday, February 3rd 1999 - 09:16:10 AM
Name: Jan M
E-mail address: janaustin@wsu.edu
Homepage URL: http://www.ansci.wsu.edu/users/Musick/janhome.htm
Comments:Dear Francoise,
You have been a valued presence on the Acme Bulletin Board
for as long as I have been there. Your posts reflect your
thoughtful reflections before answering, your kind heart,
and your bottomless "well" of understanding and compassion
for other people and animals. Without fail I have enjoyed
your posts, learned from you, admired you, laughed and
cried with you. Now at this sad time of sudden bereavement
in the loss of your dear Nick, I hope the support from Acme
people has done some good in comforting you, and reaching
out loving arms of support in a big cyber-
(((HUG!!!)))...and shared tears. Thinking of you often
with the deepest sympathy and respect. Jan Musick and Huggy
Wednesday, February 3rd 1999 - 10:06:55 AM
Name: AuntieJan
E-mail address: jholt@interactive-media.com
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Acres/3345/
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I just wanted to send my condolences as well as my thanks
for your friendship; you were one of the very first ones to
welcome me to the Acme board and make me feel at home, I am
so sorry that you have suffered this terrible loss. Hugs to
you and to Leilah.

Jan Holt
Wednesday, February 3rd 1999 - 10:33:47 AM
Name: AJ
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Wednesday, February 3rd 1999 - 10:41:40 AM
Name: Lis' & Kumba
Comments:Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in
this time of grief.

Be thankful for the years you had together, and the happy
memories you hold in your heart will be with you always.
Nick is at peace, and it is comforting to know that a
person with his animal loving attitude will be at the
bridge to welcome our beloved furball friends in the future.

Our heartfelt prayers and sorrow are reaching out to you
and your canine child at this time. May you find the
strength in Nicks memory to face everyday with your face
reaching up to the sky being proud and feeling so lucky to
have loved him for the time you had together.

Best wishes and God Bless

Lis' & Kumba
Wednesday, February 3rd 1999 - 12:14:00 PM
Name: Muttpack
E-mail address: vineyridge@yahoo.com
Comments:I have no comforting words, although religious books are
full of them. All I can offer you is a way to get through
each day as it comes.

Always remember that no matter how empty or sad today is,
tomorrow when it comes will not be the same. It may be
better or it may be worse, but it will surely be different.
In that difference is hope, the blessing that humanity kept
in Pandora's Box.

Cherish your friends, cherish your memories, and above all
cherish hope and tomorrow. Time doesn't always heal, but it
does dull the sharpness of yesterday.

At the celebration of Nick's life, rejoice in him. You were
so lucky to have found and loved him. He will always be
with you, young and happy, loving and bright, smiling from
his own separate star, while he'll splash at his "ten league
canvas with brushes of comet's hair."

May the Master of All Good Workmen bless you and keep you
and Nick both safe in the palm of his hand, now and forever.
Wednesday, February 3rd 1999 - 12:24:46 PM
Name: Sandy Paws
E-mail address: Beachmist@yahoo.com
Comments:I am only an occasional poster to the board so I know you
don't really know me but please accept my deepest sympathy
on the loss of your dear husband and a big
((((((((((((((HUG))))))))))))))of support from my gang to
you and Leilah.
Mary Jo (Sandy Paws) & George Valkos
Emmers & General Lee (the dog gang) and
Cashmere, Pirate, Dragon & Wizard (the cat gang)
Wednesday, February 3rd 1999 - 01:44:51 PM
Name: Andrea from Cat's Window BB
E-mail address: asmith4840@aol.com
Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Park/2323/index.html
Comments:Dear Francoise,
I saw your message on the Cat BB to run tell your loved ones
how much you care..right now. I did not know what was
happening at the time. Later, on reading what you went
through, I marvelled at your being able to even type!
What a show of strength as you reminded us of how we must
treasure our loved ones while they are with us.

You have my deepest condolences. I can't imagine the grief
that you are suffering. Words can't express how terribly
sorry I am to hear of your devastating loss. I know that
your friends on the Dog Board will help sustain you at this
time, as I know mine at the Cat BB would do for me. Take
strength from their love, and know how much they cherish
you. I pray that you will find some solace as time passes.
And as the story so beautifully expresses it, The Head
Trainer only takes the best. I'm only sorry that your
husband was taken from you much too soon. He must have been
one of the very best.
Thursday, February 4th 1999 - 10:53:56 AM
Name: Tom and Patti Mira
E-mail address: mctkm@aol.com
Comments:Dear Francoise:

Nick was our first nephew and the first born of your
generation in our family. We love him dearly and have many
wondeful memories of him when he was just a little guy and
the apple of everyone's eye. I remeber lying on the floor
watching TV with little Nick. He would always sit nex to me
and hold my right earlobe. I can still feel it as I write
this.
He grew into a kind, decent and loving young man. He will
always be in our memories. God bless him, and you.
Friday, February 5th 1999 - 09:14:30 AM
Name: ROBERT MIRA
Comments:THIS IS VERY KIND OF YOU TO DO. I THINK NICK WOULD BE
TOUCHED.
THANKS!
Friday, February 5th 1999 - 03:12:27 PM
Name: ROBERT MIRA
Comments: Francoise,
You know how much Nick meant to all of us. You also know my
cousins are like my brothers and sisters, Nick was the best
of us. One of the few people, on a very short-list, I've
known to be completely unconditional in giving his time,
love, and friendship. Generosity was as much a part of his
nature as you were a part of his heart and are of his
soul. He lived a happy life, because of you. He got to
experience one of the rarest, purest forms of love in
existence, again because of you. You were his smile. And
he shared that smile with everyone he met.
Saying I will miss Nick doesn't come close to expressing
how I feel. But, I would much rather miss him, than to have
never known him. He made everyone that met him a better
person. We all owe it to him to live by his example. To be
happy.
Friday, February 5th 1999 - 03:53:56 PM
Name: roym7
E-mail address: roym7@earthlink.net
Comments:Francoise,

When someone close to us dies, it leaves an empty space in
us. A space that can be filled with many experiences.
Leave out the grief, sadness, and the loss.
Fill it with the love and the difference that Nick gave you.

With Love
Roy
Sunday, February 7th 1999 - 10:40:41 AM
Name: TeresaR
Comments:Francoise,

You have been in my thoughts all day, as I worried about
you. I can only send you my strenght and love. God Bless,
and remember, he still loves you, even if he is not here on
this earth. He will always watch over you, and keep you as
safe as he can.
Sunday, February 7th 1999 - 06:07:29 PM
Name: Paul Richards
E-mail address: paulrr@earthlink.net
Comments:Dear Francoise,
I'm here anytime you need someone to talk to, you have
my number.
Stay strong and always look forward, all your old and
long-time friends are here for you always.
Sunday, February 7th 1999 - 06:58:24 PM
Name: WOODY
E-mail address: BSPACECASE.@AOL.COM
Homepage URL: http://NOT
Comments:If Barbie is so popular why do you have to buy her friends.
Thursday, February 11th 1999 - 08:08:43 AM
Name: Drew Horton
E-mail address: drewski411@aol.com
Comments:Nick was he best friend I ever had, our love for eachother was always unconditional, though we were very different people, raised in different ways, with different talents and abilities, we had a mutual respect for each other borne on the wings of our admiration and love for eachother. We had so many wonderful experiences together as young boys and young men, too many to note, and I guess they will be with me forever. I of course could go on like this for hours but shant, Nick always thought I talked too much, though he never shut me up,... Let me just end by saying that his inner strength and peace, and easy smile, will be with me forever, there simply was no sweeter, gentler, kinder person in the world, for those of you who never knew him, think of the most perfect, sunshiney, beautiful day you have ever seen, the slight warmth of approaching summer on the breeze, the scent of wet leaves and honeysuckle, the sound of bees buzzing, the soft gentle feeling of eternal youth,... this was my friend Nick, I will miss him greatly but know that he's a big sweet angel now, and will always be with me. I send thoughts of Joy and Love to you all, Drew Horton
Monday, February 15th 1999 - 08:44:55 AM
Name: Donald Condit
E-mail address: condit@jps.net
Comments:Dear Francoise, I loved you and Nick and I still do. Every
year you always sent me a Christmas card and I never sent
one back, I'm sorry about that. I bought one this year for
you and I never got around to sending it. I've known you
most of my life, and I feel really bad about the pain you
must be in. Please try to have a positive attitude and
things will eventually get better, this too shall pass.
God bless you, and please take care of yourself.
Friday, February 26th 1999 - 08:26:32 PM
Name: Yvonne Jennings
E-mail address: TGood2B2ru@aol.com
Comments:Francoise,

When you told me of your loss some months ago, I could
think only of your heavy heart and many words that seemed
so empty, too empty to share with you. In your loss you
shared with me words of wisdom that I fathom only now, some
months later. You told me to take nothing for granted and
to not let a moment go by without saying, "I love you" to
my husband. I have heeded your advice and would like to
thank you for your wisdom.

I recently came upon a poetry book which contained this
meaningful poem, and I thought to share it with you.

SHOULD YOU GO FIRST, by A.K. Rowsell

Should you go first and I remain
To walk the road alone,
I'll live in memory's garden, dear,
With happy days we've known.

In Spring I'll wait for roses red,
When fades the lilac blue,
In early fall, when brown leaves call
I'll catch a glimpse of you.

Should you go first and I remain
For battles to be fought,
Each thing you've touched along the way
Will be a hallowed spot.
I'll hear your voice, I'll see your smile,
Though blindly I may grope,
The memory of your helping hand
Will buoy me on with hope.

Sould you go first and I remain
To finish with the scroll,
No length'ning shadows shall creep in
To make this life seem droll.
We've known so much of happiness,
We've had our cup of joy,
And memory is one gift of God
That death cannot destroy.

Should you go first and I remain,
One thing I'd have to do:
Walk slowly down that long, lone path,
For soon I'll follow you.
I'll want to know each step you take
That I may walk the same,
For some day down that lonely road
You'll hear me call your name.

My thoughts and prayers are still with you, and shall
always be.
Saturday, July 10th 1999 - 09:11:57 AM
Name: Mike and Stephany Rothschild
E-mail address: violet1035@aol.com
Comments: Hi Francoise. We were both very sorry to hear about
Nick. Neither of us knew him but he must have been a great
person, especially after reading about him on your website.

Sincerely,
Mike and Stephany
Monday, February 21st 2000 - 02:07:30 AM
Name: Wendy
E-mail address: urumandi@yahoo.com
Comments:Dear Francoise

I have come across your grief story and the joy of your
life with Nick at a late stage. The wonderment of eternity
is that nothing is ever too late. I hope these words below
(which are not mine) will give you a little solace in your
quiet world.

It is a pleasure to know you and, through these pages and
your good friends, Nick.

REMEMBER

by Christina Rossetti

Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into the silent land;
When you can no more hold me by the hand,
Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
Remember me when no more day by day
You tell me of our future that you plann'd:
Only remember me; you understand
It will be late to counsel then, not to pray.
Yet if you should forget me for a while
And afterwards remember, do not grieve:
For if the darkness and corruption leave
A vestige of the thoughts that once I had,
Better by far you should forget and smile
Than that you should remember and be sad.


Wendy (of Wendy and Joe)
Monday, February 28th 2000 - 07:56:36 PM
Name: lora
E-mail address: lorabenny@aol.com
Friday, March 24th 2000 - 02:59:19 AM
Name: Shooting Star
Comments:

I looked up one night, and saw a shining star,
Falling from the Heavens,
And I made a wish from afar.
My Husband told me once when I was young,
"When people die, they go to Heaven,
When you see a falling star,
A soul that star will be."
The night I saw that star,
My Husband went to Heaven.
I remember now what he told me,
And I hope that star was he.
Thursday, August 10th 2000 - 01:58:26 PM
Name: Francoise
Comments:Happy Birthday Nick!! I love you!
Monday, January 22nd 2001 - 01:38:17 AM
Name: angel
E-mail address: starlessnite17@hotmail.com
Homepage URL: http://www.envy.nu/sidewalk
Comments:wonderful tribute you have made..



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Tuesday, April 3rd 2001 - 02:49:43 PM
Name: Jill
E-mail address: jedavis45@hotmail.com
Comments:Dear Francoise, I happened to stumble across your webpage
by accident and when I read your story about Nick and the
lovely poems your friends wrote I just broke down. My dad
was diagnosed with cancer not so long ago and its nice to
know that you're not the only one going through loss,
sorrow and bitterness at someone you love being taken away
so early. I hope the passage of time has softened the
intense pain. The hope is that the good memories and love
will never fade. Lots of love Jill and Lucy the Labbie.
Monday, May 7th 2001 - 04:02:20 PM
Name: alice schnormeier
E-mail address: aaks@qwest.net
Comments:(((((((((((LM and Leilah))))))))))))))

Thank you LM for sharing Nick with me. You were truely blessed to have him in your life. I don't know why the ones we love leave way too soon and the pain is great. I wish I knew all the answers and could take away the pain. I do know that with time and tears, it does makes us stronger and maybe, alittle..... more able to help others that those who have not lost refuse to see. If only the world would see what we do..... that life is so very short.... what a different world this would indeed be. My heart goes out to you LM, as do my heart and prayers. I can hear the pain in your words on a bad day, and I can also hear the smiles of the memories forever sheltered in your heart.
(((((((((((love and hugs for you and Leilah)))))))))))
Alice - aka sunshine~
Monday, June 4th 2001 - 04:23:20 PM
Name: Christy
E-mail address: momto3daughters@hotmail.com
Comments:I just came across your site after the post today on Acme. My husband and I had a fight last night over the stupidest trivial stuff of trying to deal with the house we are hopping to build. I want you to know that as soon as he walks in taht door I will hold him a little tighter and whisper how much I truly love him into his ear. The love you had for Nick reminds me of the love I have for Jason. How you have gotten through all this I can only imagine. Prayers and hugs go out to you. No words can truly say anything that would help, but know that this page touched my heart deeply adn we are thinking of you today.
Saturday, January 26th 2002 - 11:23:14 AM
Name: Robert
E-mail address: advisor@beagle-dogs.com
Homepage URL: http://www.beagle-dogs.com
Comments:Please visit our www.beagle-dogs.com site!
Friday, February 22nd 2002 - 12:45:19 AM
Name: Rachel
E-mail address: raeleigh143@aol.com
Homepage URL: http://www.alexisporta.com
Comments:I am truely sorry to hear that you lost your love one. I lost my friend alexis the same way. She was only 16.
Yall are all in my prayers!
~Rachel~
Tuesday, February 26th 2002 - 04:33:18 PM
Name: HOTW
E-mail address: howlofthewild1@yahoo.com
Comments:To Francoise

I am close, not far away
I know you're thinking of me today.
If thoughts of me should make you cry
And make you want to wonder why?
Remember what we had together
And feel my touch, light as a feather.
Although my body has gone to ash,
Your love for me has held me fast.
A part of me has stayed with you.
You know it well, you know it true
You take it with you every day
And this is what I have to say,
"That heart of yours, in your breast
Carries me thru eternal rest.
For every day as it flows
A part of me lives on you know.
For in your love you carry me,
Pure of soul and truly free.
The touch of Death has not won-
We are two hearts that beat as One."

In loving memory of Nick

Copyright 2001 Annette Bamper

Visited your site today francoise and saw the link to here..realized once again how much Nick was so much of your life and how much you missed him and still do...wanted to leave this here as a mark of your love and how you have touched those who care for you.
Friday, July 19th 2002 - 01:20:55 PM
Name: Joseph Santora
E-mail address: bhsclassof20042000@yahoo.com
Homepage URL: http://skipmydog2003.tripod.com
Comments:My thoughts and prayers are with you. I really love your site.
Wednesday, October 8th 2003 - 05:45:53 PM
Name: Elvis
E-mail address: preteendrama04@aol.com
Comments:I will alway love you uncle nick and know you are looking after me in my life. Have a good time up there. When I come you can tickle me like you used to. I will alway love you and miss you but i will mever feel sorry for myself.


Love Always,
Elvis In Hawaii
Tuesday, December 21st 2004 - 12:44:34 PM
Name: lil becca
Comments:I Never really knew or met you but it sounds like you were really nice person. ive lost some one close to me too and it changes everything completly!
rest in peace.
love lil becca
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Tuesday, March 1st 2005 - 06:20:45 AM
Name: Jia
E-mail address: jiaur_gts@hotmail.com
Homepage URL: http://guwahati4u.com
Comments:This is all abot the eternal love and secred love and we come imagine his genuinity through your draft. Really the truth is more in theory. The reformer of thruth is always valued hearafter. And God never gives them long kife to make this world to purify its 100%. There is a limition for the all human being we all are also may not escaping the same.

Anyways Francoisee Please come in Im that I can also have a chance to share the wonder of Nick. Really we all pray for the peace of soul of late Nick.

In my URL there is a live chatterbox u mar get me the also against the user name : Jantra

We are always with never feel lonely. You are lone atleast u have the memory of that heroic personality what you can only value well.

Regards, Jia
Thursday, July 20th 2006 - 03:33:35 PM
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