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Melissa Sunday, February 12th 2012 - 07:18:54 PM Sister Dad shaved his mustache for his surgery and I realized just how much AJ looked like him. Miss him so much still. He left a shadow in all our hearts that will never be the same again. Can't wait for Heaven!!

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Jennifer Sanchez (Gilbert) Tuesday, November 8th 2011 - 02:39:34 PM havelocksanchez@aol.com Childhood friend of his sister Melissa A.J. was so little when Melissa and I were growing up, I remember his fuzzy blonde hair and never-ending smile!! Such a loving family, I always loved going to stay over at the Dyk house. Having kids of my own makes me realize what a huge loss you all must feel. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

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sydnee Tuesday, November 8th 2011 - 12:15:00 AM sydnee_8@hotmail.com friend Wow...10 years! Can't believe its been that long. I miss you everyday and always will! Love you friend! Syd

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Mom Monday, November 7th 2011 - 02:31:09 PM Mom Yesterday was the 10th anniversary of A.J.s' death, sometimes it seems like a long time and sometimes so recent! Mel and I think of A.J. everyday, we miss him so much!! The only thing that makes it bearable is knowing he is in heaven. I am so thankful for the assurance God has given us that now heaven is his home. I am thankful for all of you as well that loved our son and remember him and let us know that- THANK-YOU !!! God Bless you always!

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Debbie Cain Sunday, November 6th 2011 - 02:28:50 PM tymedc@comcast.net Matt's mother-in-law I don't think there can be anything more devastating than loosing a child. Comfort only comes in knowing he is in, Heaven, where someday, there will the best family reunion ever! Though I only met him a few times, it is obvious, he would have been the best uncle ever to my grandsons. Praying for God's comfort for, AJ's family, today and everyday, as they wait for that great reunion in, Heaven. Debbie

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Michelle Sunday, November 6th 2011 - 08:00:49 AM michelle_broach@yahoo.com Friend Ten years ago today, the world lost one of the greatest men to walk on this earth. I can't help but think the world lost a small piece of everyone that was blessed enough to know AJ. Ten years may have passed, but the feeling in my heart still feels the same as it did November 6, 2001. Miss you like crazy AJ.

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Peggy Erickson Tuesday, August 30th 2011 - 09:36:37 AM friend I have not been here for a long time but that does not mean I don't htink of A.J. often. I went by the cemetary on Friday since I was out in the area and wanted to sy hi and Happy Birthday to a wonderful person who is still missed so very nuch by so many. Mel and Cindi I think of you both often I cn't believe it is almost 10 years. Sabrina said it was a nice memory of A.J. at the reunion but it would have been better had he been there. Just want to say I enjoy the memories shared of your son and am always amazed at just how many lives he touched and continues to touch.

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Carla Thomas Tuesday, August 30th 2011 - 07:00:13 AM clthomas@Fairpoint.net teacher AJ ALWAYS HAD A SMILE ON HIS FACE AND A JOKE IT HIS EXCHANGE WITH YOU. HE LOVED TO TEASE BUT WAS PRACTICAL AND GOOD NATURED WHEN IT CAME TO WORKING THROUGH A SITUATION OR PROBLEM. THE BOY HAD SO MANY SKILLS FROM BEING RAISED ON THE FARM I AM SURE HE COULD OUTWORK MANY A MAN. VERY INTERESTING PERSON TO TALK TO. HE LOVED HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS. HE WAS ALWAYS THERE TO LEND A HAND. HE IS SORELY MISSED BY ALL WHO KNEW HIM.

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Teal Boyce Monday, August 29th 2011 - 03:48:59 PM tealboyce@mail.com Friend I have so many memories of AJ....some that make me smile, and some that make me cry. But I'm so happy that Michelle has shared this site because I love reading, remembering, and being able to talk about him with people that knew him so well! One memory I do want to share today is the reason I got my tattoo on my back. AJ and I dated briefly when I was a freshmen in high school. I was young but my dad has always told me he would take me to get my first tattoo when I turned 16. I was so excited but could never decide on what I wanted, so AJ and I had many conversations about this...and his answer for me was always "Get racing flags on your back!" and I always told him he was crazy, that I no reason or desire to get a tattoo of racing flags!! So after he passed I thought it would be a PERFECT reason to get a tattoo of racing flags :) Over the years people have asked me why and if i regret putting his name on my back....but I never have. AJ was a huge part of my life and had such an impact on my that he will always be with me and I think of him everyday!!

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Mom Saturday, August 27th 2011 - 11:02:04 AM Mom Today would have been A.J.s' 29th birthday. It's hard to think about him being gone almost 10 years. His life still touches people. We have so many wonderful memories and so many caring friends and family that keep his memory alive for us. We could never forget that boy, we think of him every day. Miss him soooo much!!!

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Michelle Wednesday, August 17th 2011 - 04:57:05 PM michelle_broach@yahoo.com Friend I've been thinking a lot about AJ lately, more than usual and have been seeing him in my dreams at night. Seems like I always do this time of year. I'm so grateful to have known him and shared part of my life with him. After recently having my own son, I've thought a lot about how crushed I would be if anything happened to him. Mel & Cindy... You are very strong people and I admire you both so much for that as well as rausing such a wonderful person like AJ. It's so hard to believe its almost been 10 years. I was very happy when my sister told me there was a picture and memorial for AJ at the class of 2001 10 year reunion last weekend. Made me smile... Just like thinking of AJ always does!!

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mom Saturday, August 13th 2011 - 06:56:53 PM Tonight the class of 2001 will be celebrating their 10 year reunion. I can't help but think how much A.J. would have loved seeing everyone. The next few months are always hard,A.J.s' birthday, and the last days we spent with him, sending him off to college. I think of him everyday and still miss him so much!!!

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Phyllis Shaw Thursday, July 7th 2011 - 11:25:38 PM Former teacher to AJ's siblings Oh my goodness, what a wonderful avenue you have opened up to share with everyone. I got lost in emotion looking through pictures of AJ and the reading messages left here. You have done such a outstanding job of setting a beautiful example of a caring, loving and supportive family. I will always remember AJ as the darling, smiling little boy walking with his mom and dad to and from all the activities at school for Melanie, Melissa and Matt. AJ was quiet to those of us he didn't really know, but you could catch the sparkle in his eyes and smile that very few people have. He just oozed "fun". It would make anyone warm up inside just thinking of all the funny business he had to be pulling on all of you at home. It was a cute theme that seemed to always run with the thread of your family life, warming everyone's heart. As a family, mom and dad, you have continued to touch the hearts of so many and hold our admiration - thank you.

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Mom Sunday, April 3rd 2011 - 11:37:32 AM Mom I'm thinking a lot about A.J., He loved sping and getting the blazer out, we still have it behind the barn. It seems like a really long time he has been gone. It is coming up on ten years. I still miss him so much.

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Melissa Thursday, February 24th 2011 - 05:27:51 PM Sister I miss Skeeter today

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Kim Thursday, January 13th 2011 - 09:32:23 AM ckwillett@charter.net Friend Today marks a day of another friend that has passed away too soon. Made me think of AJ and the silly things he would do. It breaks my heart that AJ and another friend have been gone so long , it would have been a kick in the pants to have them grow up with us. Who they would have married and what kind of children they would have had. Just thinking about you today and I hope you and my other friend have a nice beautifully sunny day in heaven!

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Mom Wednesday, December 15th 2010 - 11:03:05 AM Mom Last night we went to the Compassioate Friends candle lighting ceremonie. It was good to see everyone but sad also, to look in the eyes of those who know exactly how we feel. Mel got up and spoke, it was so touching. So many have lost a child and some have lost two or three. We prayed a special Christmas prayer and each lit a candle and said our childs name. It's amazing how a like we all think. There were parents who only recently lost a child and they were so afraid others would forget their child, Mel was able to reassure them that they would not be forgotten. That's where all of you come in, thank-you for remembering A.J and letting us know that, and thank-you for seeing us and telling stories of A.J. Hearing someone else say his name is a gift to us. You have all truly become our family. I know it's been 9 years and last night one parent espressed how we all feel, no matter how long it has been we will always think of our missing child, that doesn't mean we don't go on with our lives and even have good times it just means that life is more precious for us because we KNOW how quick it can change. As you celebrate Christmas remember our savior and how HE gave HIS ONLY son that we might have eternal life, I am amazed at how much he loves us! Merry, Merry Christmas and we love you all very much! Mel & Cindy & family

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Ruth Miller Saturday, November 6th 2010 - 10:13:42 AM rmiller314@charter.net daughter-in-law's brother miss the great smile and carefree attitude

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Sandy Morris Friday, November 5th 2010 - 10:56:35 PM Aunt Nine years...your memory will live forever:-) Love you and miss you always

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Sarah Eberhart Wednesday, October 6th 2010 - 08:47:45 AM sarahgrace0223@yahoo.com 2nd cousin by marriage (I think) Stumbled upon this link through Faceboook. The website is very touching and full of love. Such a wonderful family!

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Melissa Stevens (Schwartz) Monday, September 20th 2010 - 01:29:15 PM mstevens1028@yahoo.com Melanie recently sent me a message on Facebook and when I was looking at her pictures she had a link to AJ's site. One I started looking at his pictures I couldn't tear myself away, I was on my computer for hours looking at all his pictures. He grew into a very handsome young man. I remember AJ as the little blond guy following Melanie and I around when I was at her house...he was such a cutie!!! It is amazing all the wonderful things you have done in his memory...he was a very lucky boy to be loved so much. You will all meet again someday, I believe that, because I know that Elijah Edward Stevens is waiting for me as well!!! Thank you Dyk family for sharing all of your wonderful memories and pictures of AJ.

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La Ronna Montgomery-Ulmer Wednesday, September 15th 2010 - 02:41:38 PM atma_sky@yahoo.com Friend I want to convey my condolences to the Dyk Family!!! I just recently was informed of what had happened. I am truly sorry. Our prayers are with you and the whole family. Best regards; La Ronna Montgomery-Ulmer

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Debbie Cain Friday, August 27th 2010 - 09:15:39 PM Mom of AJ's sister-in-law I'll never forget AJ climbing into the trunk of the car at Matt & Lori's wedding...For some reason, even though they are the only three people who wittnessed the end result of this event- I have created a permanent, vivid picture in my memory of him jumping out and scaring the heeby-jeebies out of Matt & Lori! Happy Birthday, AJ... We'll meet again. 1 John 2:24-26 (Worldwide English (New Testament)) 24: So keep what you have heard from the beginning. If you keep what you have heard from the beginning, you too belong to the Son and to the Father. 25: And he himself has promised us that we will live for ever.

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Mom Friday, August 27th 2010 - 10:33:38 AM Mom Another birthday. A.J. would have been 28 today. Mel and I went to the cemetary today at 7:46 AM , the time he was born. All we can do is put flowers on his headstone and think of him. We were so blessed the day he was born. He was the sweetest baby, of course, he had just a little bit of white hair on his head. I would not have given up being his Mom for anything, even the horrible pain we have endured since his death and I know Mel feels the same way. He brought so much laughter into our family, he had such a quick wit! We still tell the stories about his antics and always will. And I know many of you have crazy storiesto tell!!! I love hearing from all of you. Brandy Ward called this morning from Tennesee, we had a wonderful visit and she had stories about A.J., She also had tears but we agreed that today is a day to be thankful we had A.J. in our lives. Jonathan Emmons called yesterday from Maryland and it's always good to hear from him. We will miss A.J. allthe days of our life but will be thankful for all the memories!!!

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Brandy Morgan (Ward) Friday, August 27th 2010 - 08:55:59 AM brandydub@gmail.com Friend AJ...I never thought I would get married without you there to see it. I never thought I would celebrate your birthday by crying. Today you turn 28 and I never thought I wouldn't be able to call you. I think it gets harder the longer it has been. I miss you now more than ever AJ, I know I will get to see you again...its just the time in between our last visit and our next visit is so hard. God is good and I know He will carry us through. I love you AJ. Happy 28th Birthday.

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Matt Dyk Friday, August 27th 2010 - 07:31:08 AM Brother Happy Birthday Bro. Miss you every day

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DALE & KATHY JURGENS Monday, August 23rd 2010 - 05:42:32 PM

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Mom Wednesday, July 7th 2010 - 08:59:50 AM mdyk@ajdyk.com Mom A couple weeks ago I was at Matt & Loris' for Masons' 1st birthday party. I was visiting with Loris' Grandma, I looked up across the patio and there were 4 chairs together in a row, Melanie was in one then Melissa then Matt the 4th one was empty, it was kind of sad but I could see A.J. sitting there. I love Gods' reminders of my boy! I hope you all are having a great summer! Cindy

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Melissa Thursday, May 13th 2010 - 08:41:44 PM Sister Yesterday an employee asked to meet with me at work. She was sobbing and having trouble with her boss. As we talked she told me her sister had passed away a few months earlier. I was able to share with her AJ and how hard work is when this happens. After we talked and made a plan she thanked me and I told her it was an honor to talk with her. That I felt I approached my job differently on these topics after my personal experience and it made a small thing good out of a horrible, horrible loss.

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Mom Sunday, May 9th 2010 - 03:14:01 PM Mom I put flowers on A.J.s headstone, I found a note in the box, the poem was very nice, thank-you! Matt, Melissa came over, Alli was sick so Melanie couldn't come over. After I talked to Melanie I kept thinking what am I waiting for?And then it hit me, that fourth phone call or visit it seems like it's always that way. At Easter I bought 4 bags of the kids favorite candy, when I got them ready to give to them I couldn't believe what I had done, I guess I will always think in fours. Happy Mothers' Day!

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Mom Tuesday, March 23rd 2010 - 09:01:39 PM mom A.J.s' cousin Kevin got married last saturday. It was a beautiful wedding with a beautiful bride and a handsome groom! We had a wonderful time there. As usual at weddings I think of A.J., I know he would have been standing up there with Kevin and Nick. I got my crying done before the ceremony and again on the way home. This coming saturday Brandy Ward will be getting married. I will be thinking of Brandy and Phil, but also of A.J. It sure doesn't get any easier to be without him but I do function a little better as time passes. Cogratulations to Kevin & Jacoba and to Brandy & Phil!

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Autum Nesmith Monday, November 9th 2009 - 06:21:16 PM autumjulie@yahoo.com Friend Another year. I keep getting really down thinking about it. It's hard remembering to remember that I am really blessed that he was a part of my life. When you are down it's always hard to remember to think positive, I try most of the time but this time of the year is the hardest. Miss you a bunch and am always thinking of you. Love Autum

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Brandy Monday, November 9th 2009 - 06:13:57 PM Friend On my way to work this morning I heard the song Wish you were here by Mark Wills. This song makes me miss AJ so much. The chorus goes like this: "Wish you were here, wish you could see this place Wish you were near, I wish I could touch your face The weather's nice, it's paradise It's summertime all year and there's some folks we know They say, "Hello, I miss you so, wish you were here" Its so hard to believe its been 8 years...I thought it would be easier by now, but its not. I miss him like crazy. We were all so blessed to have AJ in our lives. Mel & Cindy, you all raised such a fine young man who had a huge positive impact on every single person he met (even if it was the hitch hiker with a dead battery we picked up one afternoon). So, thank you!

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bobby white Friday, November 6th 2009 - 10:46:20 AM juggalobob123@yaho.com childhood friend from thorp i lost contact long ago but when me nd my brother sean got onto facebook it brought my childhood back. memories are a little fuzzy but if you ask matt about sean i think he will know who i amim seans younger brother. my thoughts and prayers are with you all

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Michelle Friday, November 6th 2009 - 10:16:50 AM michelle_broach@yahoo.com friend I can't believe how fast 8 years has gone by. I still remember this day 8 years ago like it was yesterday. I can recall every minute and conversation I had that day as well as every feeling and emotion. I miss AJ terribly and wish he was still here to talk to with life's little problems. I'm so grateful to have had AJ in my life and cherish all of the memories and fun times I had with him.

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Sandy Friday, November 6th 2009 - 08:53:28 AM sandy@rrautobody.com Aunt 8 years.... it really doesn't seem that long. I can still see his smile and hear his laugh. I miss you dearly AJ. You are still a part of our lives. There is a little bit of you in each of my boys, and for that I am very grateful. I wish you were still here with us, but I know that you and Grandma are always watching over us and having your laughs together as we deal with our struggles here on earth. I Love You!

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Mom Wednesday, November 4th 2009 - 01:37:55 PM With November 6th coming in two days, I have been thinking a lot about 8 years ago. Remembering what was going on the days before A.J.s accident. It's funny the things I remember. That day 8 years ago changed not only my life and the lives of my family but it changed who I am. I know what is important to me and what isn't, I have learned so much about people, I have learned to see lots of points of view, A.J. was given that gift instinctively. A.J. taught me so much in his short life that has helped me to help others. I am so gratful for the 19 years,2 months, 10 days he was here in my life. And because of his life I have made some very dear friends. God continues to give us reminders of A.J. And I know A.J. is happy in heaven sitting at the feet of God. I will miss my baby [he hated me calling him that] all the days of my life. As well as his Dad, Sisters, Brother and rest of my family. We are so thankful to God that we have each other.May God bless each of you!!! Cindy

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Monte Monday, October 12th 2009 - 04:15:49 PM None. We were dirt biking and came across his memorial. it was amazing and the spot was absolutely gorgeous. i would have loved to gotten the chance to meet him. It seemed like we had alot in common.

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DALE and KATHY Friday, August 28th 2009 - 05:34:52 PM family friend Hi all, last night we let some balloons go at Mel and Cindy's house. Of course they had to be green and yellow color to reflect john deere equipment.Many happy memories along with some sad ones.We will always miss A.J. along with the excitement that he brought into all of our lives. Never a dull moment around that guy! And NO FEAR. Dale

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Mom Thursday, August 27th 2009 - 05:40:09 PM We went to the cemetary today at 7:46 A.M. the time A.J. was born! All of a sudden it seems like he's been gone a long time. We miss celebrating with him today.

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Melissa Thursday, August 27th 2009 - 04:47:57 PM Sister Missing AJ today...

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Melissa Thursday, August 27th 2009 - 04:47:03 PM Sister Missing AJ today...

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Michelle Thursday, August 27th 2009 - 03:00:43 PM HAPPY BIRTHDAY AJ!!! Matt- I'm sure AJ will be watching Smokey and the Bandit with you tonight. His all time favorite movie!

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Tim Thursday, August 27th 2009 - 02:23:16 PM Matt's Friend Happy Birthday A.J. Sure glad I got to hang out with him as much as I did, although I definitely wish it could have been longer! I know it's a tough day for the whole Dyk family, and my thoughts are with you, as always.

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