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| Name: | Markus |
| E-mail address: | MarkusBergau@googlemail.com |
| Comments: | Thanks for these very helpful writings. But it seems that the "True Submissive" text isnt available anymore. Is there some way to get a hold of it ? I would much appreciate it. |
| Name: | Kane |
| E-mail address: | bunnyrabbitsuicide@hotmail.com |
| Comments: | I've read and enjoyed 3 of your articles now, and I wanted to thank you for making them available. It's hard to find clear minded, smart writing on Domination.
I have for most of my time been a submissive with Switch tendencies, and I find myself about to meet a Switch male that wants me to top. I've had that asked of me before, and always refused, but I happen to like this fellow and I thought I'd read more and see if I could harness the top part of my inner Switch. Your writing has been more helpful than anything else I've come across. Thank you! |
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| E-mail address: | nicole@cox.net |
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| Name: | Techster |
| E-mail address: | techieantechster@juno.com |
| Comments: | It was fun reading your site- tehie and I have been enoying the benefits of enforced male chastity for over 15 years and it keeps ourt mariage hot and fun. |
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| Name: | Linda F. |
| Comments: | I really like Rika's ideas. Lately I've added phone sex into
play with my boyfriend. He's allowed one orgasm every three weeks or so, in whatever way I choose. The last couple of times I got him incredibly aroused, then had him dial up a phone sex line and jack off for a mistress, while I watched. He was so humiliated. God that was fun. |
| Name: | Linda W |
| E-mail address: | rcktbalplyr@tmo.blackberry.net |
| Comments: | How about a butt plug up a mans ass to stop him from masterbating while preforming oral sex? |
| Name: | Patrick |
| E-mail address: | passionhunger@hotmail.com |
| Comments: | Hello Rika
I am a 48 year old lifelong submissive male that has FINALLY confessed my desires to my wife of 24 years. I can not describe the over-whelming relief and pure passionate excitement within me as I see a possible change in our relationship. I am trying to do my "homework" and approach this delicate situation in little steps so as to not scare off my "vanilla" wife. I am going to order your book online today. Any advice you can share with me on how to approach this would be greatly appreciated. I feel like I want to explode with new found passion and an incredible enduring love for my wife. Patrick |
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| E-mail address: | jack@prodigy.net |
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| Name: | Jeff in Sandals |
| E-mail address: | pmt530@live.com |
| Comments: | Love your work! Have been in chastity many times by my wife and enjoy it completely. Along with chastity, I an also bound and gagged and adorned in sandals and sometimes a thong to cover the CB 2000. Just gotta love it!! |
| Name: | Patsy |
| E-mail address: | sissypatseybelle@yahoo.ca |
| Comments: | OMG Lovely site, lovely topic, looking forward to exploring more! You and your submissive rock! I wish I was in the same place with my wife of over 40 years! Currently I am self locked in a Spiral Stainless Steel Device from Tickleberry, which is superrior to a CB6000 (my little opinion). I have alos used a Birdlocked device which was very satisfining (trying to control my masterbation obsession)! Love Patsy |
| Name: | techster & techie |
| E-mail address: | techieantechster@juno.com |
| Comments: | We are a long married couple (40+ years)and have been using enforced male chastity to (a) provide a non- pharmaceutical solution for erectile dysfunction (2) to add spice to our sex lives and (3) most importantly keep mus both feeling young his getting excited and having no release possible increases his testerone level giving him more energy and my pleasure of al least 2 orgasms per day keeps me looking and feeling young( who needs estrogen pills?).
Techster is locked up 6 1/2 days per week- each Sunday after sex he is returned to his CB6000. I receive orgasms whenever I want. He enjoys the "teenage horny feeling and my pleaasure. |
| Name: | Jaime |
| E-mail address: | jaimedl416@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | I am looking forward to reading your book "Uniquely Rika" |
| Name: | David |
| E-mail address: | david929@comcast.net |
| Comments: | I read your articles and sent a separate e-mail. Being controlled wuld be highly satisfying. |
| Name: | Ellen |
| Comments: | Your ideas regarding having the man swallow his ejaculate have been very useful. My boyfriend was quite reluctant to even try this at first, until I made the punishment so large that he had to try. Now it is a regular, required thing. I like to have him go slow and often photograph the proceeding. I've played with the lighting and have some beautiful images of my boy as the ejaculate drips down his mouth and onto his fingers. Occasionally I will have him consume it from a special place, such as my nipples or bottom. Thank you for the advice. |
| Name: | Max |
| E-mail address: | dompupil@hotmail.com |
| Comments: | Thank you for a wonderful site.My dream would be to be allowed to receive remote chastity treatment. |
| Name: | Miss Charlie |
| Comments: | I like this site very much. I agree with Rika that complete chastity for the male is a less useful way to go. My boyfriend gets relief every three weeks or so, but he never knows when it will be. Sometimes I do hours of foreplay with him, and then tell him to get dressed. I've also had him drop his pants on the spot and masturbate and had him climax in two minutes, and that's his relief for another three weeks. The goal is to have him always wanting, desiring, frustrated, never completely fulfilled, always yearning for more than he's getting. He is so sweet and needful, and thankful when he's allowed some brief pleasure. Sometimes I take him right to the edge where he thinks he's about to lose it, but I know his limits and he knows that I would never take him beyond what he could stand. I've taken to recording the events lately, and we look at them together later on and talk about how he was feeling and what he was thinking about. The more I know about his body and its reponses, the better. |
| Name: | Traci |
| E-mail address: | jezob@aol.com |
| Comments: | I love the site and am starting a new amazing journey with a man who lives for being teased and denied... Too bad "Normal Guy" didn't have the balls to leave his contact information!!! ;) If he only knew the joy that could be found in his submission to a Dominant Woman.
Mistress..... |
| Name: | Laura |
| Comments: | Rika, thank you for your site, it's very informative. I wanted to relate a story I thought you and your readers may appreciate. One day during the recent Olympics I found my boyfriend watching an event very intently on his new plasma TV. When I came in the room he tried to switch channels but I told him to put it back on the Olympics, and sure enough he had been watching a women's beach volleyball game. He was a little chagrined and then I noticed that he had an erection through his shorts, which made him even more chagrined. At that point I asked him to remove his shorts and underwear, and we watched the rest of the match together on the couch while I lightly stroked his genitals. We had an excellent discussion about what he found arousing about the women, what they were wearing, who he liked best, and so on. The match ended about 20 minutes later, and then I had him join me in the bedroom. We continued the discussion while I lightly tickled his by-now full erection with a feather that I keep by my bedside. I learned all sorts of new things about his preferences and desires for over an hour before ending the discussion and having him get dressed. Possibly some of your readers have also found this kind of session very useful in getting to know their men better. |
| Name: | David |
| E-mail address: | vondarkmoor@comcast.net |
| Comments: | Very informative website, i have been looking for this for a while, i have read about half of the articles so far but unfortunatley work takes me away. I look forward to reading more and possibly taking a look at your book. Thank you for placing the site on the web, you have been very helpful. |
| Name: | Joe |
| E-mail address: | joe@juno.com |
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| Name: | Normal Guy |
| Comments: | You and your husband need therapy. This is pathetic, and extremely fucked up. You need a good backhand across the face to end all that shit. |
| Name: | Xavier |
| E-mail address: | xavier@cox.net |
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| E-mail address: | kenne620@bellsouth.net |
| Comments: | You have a really nice web page. |
| Name: | Rebecca |
| E-mail address: | Rebeccaphonevixen@yahoo.com |
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| Comments: | I like your style... yes I do! |
| Name: | Madame Lisa |
| E-mail address: | madame@madame-says.net |
| Homepage URL: | http://madame-says.net |
| Comments: | Thank you for your wonderful articles Rika. I have always felt the same way about True Submission and I have a question for you, but I will email it elsewhere.
I look forward to reading your book! Madame L |
| Name: | Noreen |
| Comments: | This is a remarkable site and I just came across it recently. For those who use chastity devices, one thing I've established with my boyfriend is the idea of a "relief day." Once every four weeks, I let him out of his chastity device for 12 hours, and he can masturbate to his heart's content, as long as I'm there to observe. This seems to
make the chastity regimen easier for him to handle. Obviously we don't go out or do much that day. He usually reaches four climaxes or so before I put him back in the device. He sleeps very soundly and I wait a few days before resuming any tease-and-deny activities. |
| Name: | Rah37 |
| E-mail address: | rah37@hotmail.com |
| Comments: | I'll happily give you my real name but not for everyone to see at this time. Thank you for letting me look at your wisdom. |
| Name: | Grig |
| E-mail address: | azakur@km.ru |
| Name: | sissygirl |
| E-mail address: | submaidmale007@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | Hello,i havnt read anything yet,but it looks like a good site.i was sent here by GoddezzT.i plan to read the site and be a better sissymaid. |
| Name: | Irida |
| Comments: | This lifestyle is a learning experience, you have to adjust
as you go along. Recently my boyfriend and I agreed to have him placed in a chastity device, due to his longstanding masturbation problem. He was reluctant but we both realized we needed to take this step. The device involved a piercing, which he was particularly concerned about, but the woman who did the work was very professional and installed the device in about 10 - 12 minutes, while I held my boyfriend in my arms. (Ironically, I needed to get him erect briefly so that she could pierce him correctly.) We went home and he went to bed for several hours, but by the next day he was adjusting to his new situation. I would recommend this approach to anyone who is dealing with the masturbation issue, as a possible solution. |
| Name: | Chuck |
| E-mail address: | vocatus@bigfoot.com |
| Homepage URL: | http://humankindnessalways.blogspot.com/ |
| Comments: | Ms Rika,
You are absolutely right about female led relationships and feel that unless the world is destroyed by nuclear holocaust more and more relationships will be that way in the future. Women are naturally dominant, but so many have been brainwashed by the male dominated system to believe it's not ladylike to be dominant. Gradually the old patriarchy is becoming obsolete, giving way to a new gynarchy. |
| Name: | Chuck |
| E-mail address: | vocatus@bigfoot.com |
| Homepage URL: | http://humankindnessalways.blogspot.com/ |
| Comments: | Ms Rika,
You are absolutely right about female led relationships and feel that unless the world is destroyed by nuclear holocaust more and more relationships will be that way in the future. Women are naturally dominant, but so many have been brainwashed by the male dominated system to believe it's not ladylike to be dominant. Gradually the old patriarchy is becoming obsolete, giving way to a new gynarchy. |
| Name: | Mr B |
| E-mail address: | bttrfly6@gmail.com |
| Homepage URL: | http://bttrflysix.blogspot.com/ |
| Comments: | Ms Rika,
The wisdom of your words helps me understand why I am submissive to women. Dominant women have found me all through the course of my life. They seem to know my nature. Thank you for helping me and other understand just a little more. B |
| Name: | joseph |
| E-mail address: | jaspersbone@hotmail.com |
| Comments: | thank You for the wonerful articals and sharing You time on here on the things i totally adore have a blessed endevor
joseph |
| Name: | Sweat Shop Sissy |
| E-mail address: | sweatshopsissy@gmail.com |
| Homepage URL: | http://http://sweatshopsissy.wordpress.com |
| Comments: | Dear Ms. Rika;
I enjoyed your interview with Tom Allen and your book is on our wish list. I have a short post on my blog about you. We'd be flattered if you stopped by and said 'hello'. http://sweatshopsissy.wordpress.com/2008/02/24/true-submission/ Cheers, sss |
| Name: | Ellen J. |
| Comments: | Rika, I wanted to say thank you for this wonderful site. I'm 23 and have been using many of your ideas in my relationship with my boyfriend. Most of all, limiting his orgasms has really made things special. He now focuses on my pleasure and I've never been more sexually satisfied and fulfilled. For him, we've found that one release per month is about right, with some teasing and sensual sessions in between. When he gets his chance, I dress up in sexy lingerie and spend awhile kissing and caressing, letting him enjoy my body. When the time is right, I slip out of the lingerie, get him a big jar of Vaseline and a towel, and let him masturbate. I love it that he has to jerk off like a 13-year-old while a nude woman is sitting a few feet away. Like you say, the joy of irony! He "sings" so sweetly when he finally climaxes. When he's done, we cuddle some more and he begins his wait for the next time. Thank you again, Rika. |
| Name: | new2ideas |
| E-mail address: | ksweeden65@yahoo.com |
| Comments: | I am very new to the use of submissiveness your articles are very informative, It is nice to have someone with your experience helping those of us who aren't very knowledgeable at this point. |
| Name: | Rachele M. |
| Comments: | Rika, I admire your site and was particularly interested in the section in your Forum regarding males swallowing their own ejaculate. This was a new concept to me but one I was eager to introduce in my relationship with my boyfriend. As expected, he was very reluctant, almost to the point of refusal, but when I told him he would be facing an extended
period of chastity, he agreed. It seems to work better for us if we make a small ceremony out of it, with a special ceramic dish that we use only for this purpose. He shows me its contents and then I hold the dish for him while he swallows it down. We've been doing this for several months and while he he does not enjoy it, I think it reinforces his submission in a healthy way. |
| Name: | realistic approach - huh |
| E-mail address: | williesnoodle@aol.com |
| Homepage URL: | http://get-a-grip.com |
| Comments: | You have an overly lazy philosophical approach that won't last without active consent, approval and agreement with the "sub." Maybe if you "paid" better the odds would improve for a long(er)lasting scenario, but your best you should hope for is an occasional fun "scene" where you get to be on top. Put some active effort into your desires and you'll get paid in spades. Lovingly, williesnoodle |
| Name: | Lady Melissa |
| E-mail address: | melissa@dshaven.com |
| Homepage URL: | http://dshaven.com |
| Comments: | It's wonderful to read a common sense approach to this lifestyle. The Internet has become a double edged sword that I fear has done more harm than it has done good. I'm exhausted with the number of "slaves" asking me, what am I going to do for them?
Thank you for your efforts, Melissa Mistress of Ds Haven |
| Name: | Webmaster |
| E-mail address: | webmaster@everydayslaves.com |
| Homepage URL: | http://www.everydayslaves.com |
| Comments: | As a fetish enthusiast and one who documents real 24/7 DS relationships, this site has been a great experience for me! |
| Name: | slaveduties |
| E-mail address: | edsmontreal@hotmail.com |
| Homepage URL: | http://www.slaveduties.com |
| Comments: | wonderful site :) thank you! |
| Name: | slave ron |
| E-mail address: | MrsClaudia@MrsClaudia.com |
| Homepage URL: | http://MrsClaudia.com |
| Comments: | Hello Mrs. Rika, I am a collared slave to my wife of 13 years. We are a 24/7 life style couple for just over a year. All though we have been in and out of the scene for over 10. I just wanted to say hello and thank you for your help. I am under instruction from Mrs. Claudia go to your site daily with diferent things to lean and acomplish each day. We have found your info invaluable and look forward to learning more each day. My goal is o become the best slave for Mrs. Claudia in the ways she wishes me to be.
Thanks again, slave ron |
| Name: | antoni |
| E-mail address: | slaveantoni@mygamma.com |
| Comments: | Mistress.Your perception of the submissive has a joy in it that is,as You say,usually absent in writings about the male creature's function.Recently Caroline,a friend of ours,bought a holiday house near us in France.Knowing that i appreciate doing as i am told She has started using me as the houseboy to look after the house,prepare it for Her arrival and do the laundry and clean after Her departure.She says that serviles should not be whipped,it gives them too much pleasure.i have never felt so fulfilled since Her starting to use me in this way and derive new satisfaction from my duties at home. |
| Name: | Steve |
| Comments: | Dear Mistress Rika,
Thank you for having your site out there for us. It is very hard to find good quality information on all the subjects you cover. Needless to say I wouldn’t be here signing your guest book if I weren’t intrigued but the subject matter. It is a huge turn on for me… Once again, thank you. Steve |
| Name: | Anon |
| Comments: | Rika, I was going to read through all of your wonderful advice before thanking you but I am overwhelmed by the quality of what you have so kindly offered. I see many of the mistakes that I have made described here and it is great to learn about how to put it right. Visited many such sites and learned some useful information but it is all here, and much more. I hope to work up the courage to share this potentially wonderful experience with my wife. Now, I am going back to reading ALL of your advice. I cannot thank you enough. |
| Name: | arjan |
| E-mail address: | ten_dienste_van_u@hotmail.com |
| Comments: | Dear Ms Rika,
Thank You for this unique site, which offers lots of information, and at least as important: a platform for like-minded people. What strikes me in particular is the sensible, non-sensational, non-'kinky' way in which the subject of LFA / FemDom is explained, studied and advocates. I live in Holland - Amsterdam. And although we have the reputation in Holland that we are very tolerant, also about expressing sexuality etc in public, there seems not to be much interest in LFA. Probably due to our 'ideology' of equality of the sexes, which seems to forbid serious discussion about LFA / FemDom. Therefore; I'll visit Your site more often to read the proceedings / development of this wonderful development in M-F relationships! |