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Thursday, February 9th 2012 - 02:52:31 AM Name: Expert Subject: Lincoln Shitting E-mail address: old gay on facebook Homepage URL: http://www.lincoln-shitting.com/images/lincoln-shitting.gif

It ain't easy being confused.

It ain't easy to wear heels.

It ain't easy selling boats. That's what I do.

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Keep the faith, don't let no one turn you around, and for God's sake, fix that doorknob.

Love will follow.


Sunday, March 6th 2011 - 05:55:48 AM Name: Eric Subject: My fun E-mail address: eric_manzanarez@yahoo.com
I've been crossdressing for 5 years now ever since i was 10. I started out wearing my moms heels. Nowadays my mom is slightly supportive. She let me grow out my hair, i wear nail polish on occasions. My friend bought me a cute dress (before she moved) that is white and has a black bow.


i just wanted to tell some one =]


Saturday, February 12th 2011 - 12:25:07 AM Name: Bruce Subject: Horny E-mail address: Bmenesses97@yahoo.com
Hi, ive been a cross dresser since about twelve and now all i want is for girls to paint my nails. When i see nails Painted it gets me so horny that i cum wIthout masturbating. If any one one has the same feelin and is a boy like me( thirteen years old and kind of gay but not) feel free to e mail me(bmenesses97@yahoo.com) or post back

Wednesday, September 22nd 2010 - 09:09:00 PM Name: Jaqueline Subject: 1st time E-mail address: jdshab@hotmail.com
Ive been a crossdresser since I was about 11 just sneaking panties from everywhere...I finally started to dress more like a girl out in public but only for little walks. I love dressing in miniskirts and lingre. One day my bisexual step sister and her bi boyfriend came over. They caugt me wearing this skimpy school girl outfit while I was riding a dildo. They watched me doing it and both were getting off. They came over and he started to suck me off and me and her started making out. She said I was the sexiest girl ever. I always wondered how youd do a DP with a penis in the ay well I found out. She started riding me and grabing my fake my tits well he rammed me in the ass. It felt wonderful. He cummed all over my face and she licked it off and I did the same to him and she licked it off. We now attend group parites together and still have a little fun on the side.

Sunday, July 18th 2010 - 03:39:08 AM Name: Amanda Subject: Crossdressing E-mail address: abeutler@roadrunner.com
Hi, My son is 12 and I know he is wearing my clothes, mostly my lingerie, I can see the semen stain's. When he was 5 he said he wanted to be a girl. At the time, I thought nothing of it. At 7 he asked when his 'boob's' were going to start growing as he wanted them like mine. At night he lay with me on the couch watching TV and he felt my breast's as I saw his erection bulging through his pajama's. I took it and masturbated him. It was wonderful as his semen squirted out and over me. After it was over I asked him why he wore my lingerie. He said he wanted to be a girl. We moved to a different part of the city and he dressed as a girl ever since. She is so happy now after being on hormone's. At 13, her breast are a 34B and a very shapely female body. She wear's ton's of make-up and very skin tight clothes, only in the house. She's a little slut! But I love her and she's my daughter/son. I am saving now for her sex change operation soon as she turn's 18. Please answer if you have a related story.

Thursday, October 30th 2008 - 11:02:36 PM Name: Zack Subject: My Boyfriend (Yes I Am Gay) E-mail address: zackattackhunter@yahoo.com
He sent me a messge! YAY!!!!!!!

Thursday, October 30th 2008 - 10:56:28 PM Name: Zack Subject: My Boyfriend (Yes I Am Gay) E-mail address: zackattackhunter@yahoo.com
My boyfriend and me talked like everyday, but then he just stopped. I feel neglected! Yes, I've also put my mom's panties, bras, and panty hose, but not in front of anyone. Plz help me with the bf situation!

Sunday, August 31st 2008 - 05:53:25 AM Name: Melissa Subject: xdressing E-mail address: NA
Hi Girls, my story goes like this...I was five when I wore my mom's panties to school...and was almost caught by her when I got home...I was always in her dresser or the hamper...as i turned 12, I would wait till I was alone and put her bathing suit on, and stare at myself in the mirror...that is until my lil brother caught me...but even then i did't care...I started using tampons at 13...when I would go to a friends house, I would sneak into there sisters room and take their bra's and panties...blouses,skirts,make up...and would hide them from my family...when i turned 15, I'd wait for my mom to leave at 6 in the morning... take a bath and get all dress up...but i couldn't just stay at home...i was dying to see if i could pass!!so I would go for a walk down the street(scared)in the middle of the day, no one notices!!this was a daily routine for me...until a friend showed up at my door...looking for me,he wasn't very bright but i turned it into my chance to see if i was able to pass...


I answered the door dressed in a skirt and a blouse...when he asked for me i just told him that (I) was at the store and would be right back!!! and i invited him in...he sat down, as rushed to the restroom to check my make up!! he didn't notice that it was me!!then it dawned on me... how far could i take this? i started thinking, i loved being dressed like a girl, then i must try to do thoses things they commonly do when a boy is around(flirting,teasing and pleasing)why shouldn't i try it!(i just can't let him up my skirt)i got so excited thinking about it that i walked out of the restroom and went down on him...it was the first time since i was five...that i had a penis in my mouth(my uncle would have me relieve him when my mom was out)i felt when he was cumming and tried to hold it in my mouth...i just ended up making a mess everywhere...he left and i never saw him after that...


it was months after when i got the idea to try walking into a store...this time using my girlfriends clothes..as i was walking down the street...some construction workers were checking me out(making cat calls)so as was walking back from the store i dropped my lighter and bent over to pick it up...giving them a tease...as i walked away..i got hot thinking about the attenion i got from those guys...i loved it and wanted more...dressing up is cool but teasing guys is fun since then public was my addiction...i would goto the mall,target, restraunts,to get a thrill!!but the best thing is the girls restrooms,changing rooms...and why should i care i'll never see those people again right?

well i'll write another one of my adventures later
like when my girlfriend found out about melissa


Monday, April 14th 2008 - 12:48:03 AM Name: Jordan Subject: Panties E-mail address: th_isis_mylife@live.com
I'm a 22 year old striaght male and I like to wear panties, it started when I was about 6 my sister and her friend dressed me up in her dress, i hade everything on a bra, make up, and the whole 9 yards except for the panties and i told her to let me wear a pair of her she was about 7 8 yrs old, and as soon as i put them on i felt good, but I though it was stage and I would grow out it but I haven't, I need help becuase I want to tell my mom about it but I don't know how, so if someone out their can give some advice it would be really helpful, so please drop me a message at th_isi_mylife@live.com

Thursday, January 24th 2008 - 03:34:08 PM Name: TheBoy Subject: Panties,Bras, Shirts ( GIRLS BUT IM A GUY ) E-mail address: n/a
hi im a boy im straight and evberything @ the age of 13, sometimes when every1 is gone or asleep i like to put on a pair of panties but never walk around or anything just put it on for a couple of seconds and stop, today when my sister leaves im going to put some panties on untill i go to bed and see what it is like. Is this usual for me to want to wear panties,shirts, and bras @ my age? will it go away or what will happen? i also never will tell any1 b/c im scared of what might happen pls help me!!! THANK YOU!!

Friday, October 19th 2007 - 05:25:05 PM Name: ryan Subject: new Homepage URL: http://www2.victoriassecret.com/collection/index.cfm?&rfnbr=3812&cgname=OSSLPSNTZZZ&cgnbr=OSSLPSNTZZZ&page=all
check it out girls new tuff at victorias secret

Wednesday, October 3rd 2007 - 03:50:51 PM Name: Ryan Subject: panties
oh My God Today a order from victorias secret came in and my mom had bought panties for my it was so amazing.
well...bye peace out girls

Monday, September 24th 2007 - 08:08:21 PM Name: nate Subject: crossdressing E-mail address: nateman2@rock.com Homepage URL: http://msn.com
im a 18 year old guy and i am a cross dresser but i am not gay i love women and i like to act and dress as one some times it makes me feel good and happy like i belong. some times i get depresed and alone cause not many people know .my soul screams the truth but my mouth is sealed shut.i want to come out,for ex i want to go to the mall dressed as a girl plz email me at nateman2@rock.com and give me some tips or advise or any thing helpful.
ps:i think im a lesbian in a guys body

Thursday, September 6th 2007 - 02:07:16 AM Name: Samantha Subject: What Should I Do?
Hello My Name Is Kathryn, I'm a single mother of two My daughter Michelle who is 17 and my son who is 15. Well this was weekend and i was supposed to be going away for a day out with my friends to Brighton and asked my son if he'd be o.k on his own for a few hours and my daughter was going to stay with her boyfriend. So i got myself ready and got picked up at about 1 by my close friend Tasha. Well we got to about a quarter of the way and i stopped to be sick and felt really bad and therefore couldn't go and enjoy myself so i got dropped back at my house. I opened the door quietly for some reason and heard noises coming from upstairs so i crept upstairs and to my suprise see my son dressed in stilletos, my daughters best clothes, make-up, ear-rings and wig. I was so shocked seeing my son like it and just as i was about to go in one of his friends come from behind the door and stood my son up and stripped and revealed what i can only describe as really big. I was really worried and froze and couldn't move as my son started to masturbate him and suck his friends penis. I crept up to beside the room and still watched without speaking whilst my sons skirt is being taken off whilst he still continues to suck his penis.
I stood there and watched as my son finished the job with a mouthful of cum as he then began to lubricate his bum whilst his friend put a condom on and i couldn't just barge in and stop it because it would ruin his life and whilst thinking this i continued to see my son take it deep in his bum whilst screaming with delight. I made my way downstairs after seeing my son riding his friend he had round for dinner about 3 weeks ago. I am really confused about this situation. Should i confront him about it or ignore it or perhaps ask him his feelings and i have been doing some research, he has always been a feminine lad and maybe he is a girl trapped inside a boys body and therefore might require a sex change. Well many thanks and any help will do
Love Kathryn xxxxxxx

Tuesday, September 4th 2007 - 07:55:44 AM Name: Jodie Subject: My Boring Life Story
Hello my name is Jodie and i am 15, i am really confused and i am going to explain why. Since i was about 7 i have been looking at girls on the t.v and asked myself why am i different. As i have got older i have tried to keep a low profile until i was 11 when i was alone at home i dressed up in my sisters clothes and felt really comfortable. After that i started to take little amounts of my sisters clothes and make-up and hide them in my room. I have not told anyone except my closest friend Danni who helps get me clothes shoes, make-up and accessories. I feel although she is my best friend and is always there for me when i need her. I think myself lucky because i live with my mum ans my two sisters (16 and 19) and i just get my stuff from them. The next step was me searching on the internet about crossdressing and finding about anal sex which made me think, so i went into my elder sisters room and finding some adult toys which felt nice and felt even better when i was dressed up.
When i told Danni she asked if i were going to get a sex change (not forgetting that i was about 12 and knew nothing about this sorta stuff) i of course asked her about it and had a long conversation with her. About 2 months ago Danni told me that she was not going to be able to help me with shopping forever so i had to come to town with her dressed
as a girl. At first i was really worried about what people were going to say but i decided to do it. I went round her house and got dressed up in my black lacey thong and matching bra (with fake breasts) short denim skirt, tight white top, white tights and white high heels. I had Danni do my make-up because i was really nervous and i had two of her diamond ear-rings in and my £35 wig on (yes £35 but it looks great) and a pair of sun glasses. I walked out of her house and felt really good and got no funny looks as the chavs walked past. I had a few boys look at me as we walked through town which made me feel so good. My new set of clothes were really nice and when we got back to her house she asked me to put them on, so i went into her bathroom and
put on my knew pink French knickers and matching bra, short pink skirt with sexy belt, tight white top which comes down to my belly, and my white high-heels. i done my make-up and combed my wig and put it on and put my ear-rings in and my belly bar which Danni done shhhhhh... lol, and while i was there i shaved my legs and pits and pubic area(don't go anywhere with hairy pits or pubic area btw) i spraid myself with deodorant and went out there as she clapped and told me that i was prettier than her which i must say i did. I felt really feminine and started to act it and she asked me to sit on her lap which i did and she started to kiss my neck which was really nice but i got up and asked her what she was doing and she said that she found me really attractive and that she was really turned on and she sed that we should do role-reversal which sounded good so i sat on her crutch (facing her with my legs around the chair) and started to let her kiss my neck which made my feel so good and then moved round to my lips which were lovely and glossy and then asked if in would like to feel like a girl which i said yes to. She got off the chair and went to her cupboard and pulled out a strap-on (what was she doing with a strap-on?)
i asked her why and she said for this occasion. I felt a little bit weirded out and goy unchanged and went home What shall i do??? Any ideas???? Love you Jodiexxxxxxxxxxxxx


Saturday, August 18th 2007 - 10:49:46 AM Name: Joanna Subject: I Had The House Alone And Got More Than I Bargained For
Well a few nights ago was the best, my parents went to my sisters boyfriend for dinner so i shaved my legs, armpits and other necessary places and put on the clothing that my boyfriend sam had bought me which consists of black bra, black panties, pink leather mini-skirt, pink top, matching pink leather jacket, pink knee high stilletos. (I knew that he really did love me because how many people would spend that much on you) I then put on my foundation, false eyelashes, glittery eye-shadow and bright red lipstick. i put in my hooped ear-rings and put on my new wig (blonde and loose) I was incredibly horny and thought about giving my ass a pounding with my dildo but then i thought i should get the real thing and i should ring sam and see if he wants to come round. I rang him and without saying much he was on his way round so i got out my sisters old bondage kit which she kindly gave me. About 20 mins of me waiting hornily there was a knock at the door and it was sam so i opened the door and kissed him with my hand firmly on his crutch and then ran up the stairs teasingly, the door slammed and he ran up after me seeing me on the bed biting my bottom lip, he walked in and undone his top and crawled onto the bed and started kissing me i kissed back but was too horny to just kiss so i tipped the box of bondage toys on the bed and tied my hands to the railing of the bed. i could see the bulge in his trousers grow and grow, he gagged me and took his trousers and boxers off and started to lubricate his cock, i could feel myself so exited and he started to take my skirt and underwear off and lubricate my ass, he then stuck his large stiff cock in me which made me feel so good and he put it in really deep and it got better as he upped the tempo and began to penetrate my ass which began to make it hard to breath as i was in so much pleasure, i was getting so into it then he let out a big groan and he cummed all other and in my ass which also felt so good. He ungagged me and i could finnaly breath properly and asked to be released from the bed, he done as i asked so as a thankyou i began to kiss him whilst sliding up and down his cock and this time just before he cummed i stopped and put my mouth other his cock so i could get a taste. i began to kiss him again and whilst doing it managed to tie him to the bed, he asked me what i was going to do and i just smiled and winked at him i then gagged him and asked him if he has ever been given anal he shook his head violently as if to say dont you dare so i pulled up my underwear and skirt as he let out a sigh of relief, i then went and got my dildo and without realising that it was too big for a begginer walked into to the room and could see the worrie on his face, i started to lubricate his ass for the first time and whispered in his ear don't worry you will love it, i put the tip against his tight ass and began to push it in and suddenly i pulled it out again and asked if he were ready, he just shook his head and i could here him shouting no but he was gagged and i pretended not to hear him and pushed it half way as he let out a scream and i pulled it out and all the way in again and after about 2 mins he was really enjoying it. I stopped and untied and ugagged him and he called me a cheeky little bitch and said that i should wait and that he would be back in a minute and he went into my room, he came back in my clothes that my sister had left me and asked if i could do his make-up which i did and i gave him my dads wig and we both sat on the bed and started to kiss again but it was passionate kissing and he asked if i was really going to get a sex change and i replied yes and he said that he would to, i think i am the luckiest girl on this planet to have such a gnice and understanding girlfriend and she now doesnt like to be called sam because she says she is now samantha and i am joanna. Could anyone tell me if i am doing the right thing and if samamtha is because we both love each other very much.

Thursday, August 16th 2007 - 01:56:38 PM Name: not important Subject: panties
how can i get panties please give me some advice bye!!!

Wednesday, August 15th 2007 - 08:03:12 AM Name: Joanna Subject: Yep Lucky Alright
It was the luckiest and best day of my life but im not sure if i should tell anyone except my sis who now is bying me clothes and she also bought me a vibrator which is great. Me and sam are great friends and do now have a regular sexual relationship and i do not feel gay. I am a woman inside and i will soon be on the outside. any one else had a great first time?

Wednesday, August 15th 2007 - 07:53:53 AM Name: Naomi Subject: luck E-mail address: monkeymanred@hotmail.com
i wish i had an older sister. Joanna you lucky. your frist time and you got a guy. you gotta teach me some moves.=) but anyone with an older sister i evny you. all i have is a older brother. and my mom doesn't have very girly things. the only thing my mom has that i like is a vibrator i found when i was exploing. but it doesn't vibrate!!!. well i guess i just unluckly.=(



e-mail me bye

p.s. i'm going to go use the vibrator now!!!


Tuesday, August 14th 2007 - 05:14:26 AM Name: Joanna Subject: My First Time
Crossdressing was also the best damn thing i have ever done, and it had a great reward,im 16 but it all started about 3 years ago when my family went out to town for a few hours and i was so bored so as you do i was hunting around the house for something to do when i was for some reason dragged towards my older sisters room, so through what i suppose was bordem i tried on her pink g-string, bra, denim skirt, tight top, tights, high-heels. I then put on some make-up, nail varnish, some ear rings and the brunette wig that for some reason my dad has always kept. (hmmmmmm..... strange???) I stood infront of the mirror and to my suprise i actually lokked like a girl, well a flat chested girl so first i tried stuffing the bra with toilet paper and it looked pants so i was thinking to myself what to do so i went through the cupboards and found baloons. Baloons were great and they looked real. i stood infront of the mirror again and remember thinking to my self how hot i looked. Well after about 10 mins i was so wrapped up in acting like a girl and trying to improve my make-up that i forgot all about what i was actually doing and there was a knock at the door, i opened it and invited my best friend sam in and then i froze as i was walking through my living room door, i had just realised how i was dressed and that my best mate had just seen me. I had no idea what to do or say so i just sat down and picked up the closest thing to pretend to read.(the avon catalogue was not the best thing) To my suprise sam come over and sat next to me. i was shocked, my heart pounding thinking to myself how the hell was i gonna get out of this when sam put his hand on my lap and began to softly rub, i thought he was just pissing around but he leaned over and whispered in my ear how beautiful i looked. I tried to think of something to say but the words thank you just slipped out, by now sams hand were next to my groin, still softly rubbing. I got a little weirded out so i got up and said well im going to get changed, but before i could go, he got up and grabbed me by the hand and said why do you wanna go and do that, i was trying to figure this one out but before i knew it he leaned in and he was kissing me so my natural reaction was to kiss back and may i say he was great still holding hands he sat down and i looked at him as if to say wtf he just smiled so i sat on his crutch with my legs around him and began to kiss again, i kept thinking to myself what the hell am i doing but at the same time i was enjoying it so i just kept going. About 3 minutes later i climbed off and said bravely to him how good he was and i remember him just smiling and getting to his knees (baring in mind we waere still holding hands) so i did as well. He kissed me and then got back up and i was just about to when he said to me, just stay there and began to undo his flies. I knew what was coming next as he asked me if i was ready and i all i could say is yes. He pulled it out and it was not as big as i thought it was going to be. Well i opened my mouth and started attempting to give him head whilst he was pointing me in the right directions and all i could remember at that stage was getting aroused myself as i could taste the pre-cum and the best bit was he was enjoying it to. About 2 or 3 mins later it was over, i had not chosen to swallow but that is what happened. He said to me that i was a good girl and that i should go get freshened up so i ran upstairs to my sisters room where i hunted for more clothes, in the end i chose a pink lacey thong, short white skirt, pink bra with the same baloons, tight top, high-heels. I put in dangly ear rings and half way through doing my make-up he called up to me if i had any vaseline i replies yeah in the bottom drawer thinking nothing of it. I had finished as i put on my brunette wig, i had realised how much i had enjoyed this being it only my first time. I ran down the stairs and he put his arms round my thighs and started to kiss me again. He asked if we could go to my room so i took him to my sisters room where he sat down and kissed again when i needed a pee real bad so i kissed him rubbed my hand gently on his face and went to the bathroom. I closed the door and i even sat down to pee. When i finished i went back upstairs and realised he was not in my sisters room and noticed that my parents room door was closed i took a peak round the corner and there he was naked on the bed. I worridly walked in and he said to me that i looked amazing which turned me on so i sat on the bed next to him and started to kiss his cock, he pulled it away and put a condom on and got up he started to pull my skirt off and i was not worried but incredibly turned on he then rolled me over, pulled my thong to one side and started rubbing my ring, i wondered what he was doing and then i realised why he asked for the vaseline, he was lubracating me. He rolled me back round and stood me up as he sat down and put a condom over his finger and put it in me, it felt so weird but yet nice and then he said sit down so i was about to when he said no sit down and i realised what he meant si i bravely began to slowly sit down i felt the tip go in and still slowly began to sit. He pushed my shoulder and i fell down all the way as i let out a scream of pain and pleasure i suddenly jumped off and shouted at him how i wasnt gay and didnt want to do this, so i pulled up my skirt and sat on the bed next to him. He once again put his hand on my leg and slowly rubbed and then leaned over and kissed me again and i got aroused again so i took my skirt off and turned around facing him whilst sitting up and down on his stiff cock, it was the best feelng i had ever had and i could feel his cum inside me and it felt so good i then got off and put hands and knees on the bed (the only position i could think of) he looked up at me and then pushed it in me as i let out a groan of pleaure and i remember asking for it deeper as he pushed it in deeper each time. But then he started saying stuff like how deep do you want it joanna?, do you want to taste my cum joanna? and each time replying to the name i would scream yes!!! If you havnt already guessed that is now my female name and me and sam are secretly a couple. We are both straight and i will be getting a sex change as soon as i turn 18 and no my family do not know except my sister.

Friday, August 10th 2007 - 08:39:41 AM Name: Naomi Subject: crossdressing E-mail address: monkeymanred@hotmail.com
I just wana say crossdressing is the best thing i ever did. I started one day school day i faked sick and stayed home alone. After sometime I got bored, so i wondered in to my parent's room and sence my mom is doesn't pick-up much her panties and bras were enery where. I picked up some panties and took off my cloths and put it on! it was Fabulous! I've never felt this way. Next i put on a bra and then a skrit and a tight top. I kept looking i found thigh hi's, nail polish, make-up, and hiheels. The make-up looked good for an eight-year-old boy. I stuffed my bra and walked around the house as a new happier, better me. I love it now I find myslef dressing up enery chance I get and I look in the mirror and smileying.

love ya E-mail me PLZ!!! =)


Friday, August 10th 2007 - 08:38:33 AM Name: Naomi Subject: crossdressing E-mail address: monkeymanred@hotmail.com
I just wana say crossdressing is the best thing i ever did. I started one day school day i faked sick and stayed home alone. After sometime I got bored, so i wondered in to my parent's room and sence my mom is doesn't pick-up much her panties and bras were enery where. I picked up some panties and took off my cloths and put it on! it was Fabulous! I've never felt this way. Next i put on a bra and then a skrit and a tight top. I kept looking i found thigh hi's, nail polish, make-up, and hiheels. The make-up looked good for an eight-year-old boy. I stuffed my bra and walked around the house as a new happier, better me. I love it now I find myslef dressing up enery chance I get and I look in the mirror and smileying.

love ya E-mail me PLZ!!! =)


Tuesday, July 31st 2007 - 07:52:47 PM Name: Ryan Subject: talk
today i finally asked my mom to buy me panties and i used to be a closet crossdresser

Wednesday, July 25th 2007 - 09:12:32 AM Name: Naomi Subject: me E-mail address: monkeymanred@hotmail.com
I am a 12-years-old gay closet crossdresser and this is the frist time i've comeout. I choose Naomi as my female name 2 weeks ago. No one knows my secret I wish i had courage to tell some one but i'm afriad on how they will react.(my dad would say i dont have the balls to do it)I love this site and cheak in daily when i get the chance. plz E-mail me.


thanks love you!!!


Monday, July 23rd 2007 - 11:02:49 AM Name: Samantha Subject: HELP!!! E-mail address: N/A
Let Me First Say Wow, This site is great and there is so much information but however i do have a few things i need to say, Right i am 15 and a (male crossdresser)I have been crossdressing for about 3 years now and love it. I steel from my auntie and my sister to get my clothes but i get really bored wearing the same old thong, skirt etc. I would love to wear other stuff but unfortuantly i cannot because if i order online my mum will find out and i will be too embarrased to buy some at the shop. I am also confused because when i dress up i get aroused and use my mums dildos but i do not find boys attractive but love anal with the dildos. I'm told day in and day out that i would make a great girl and that i am really feminine which makes me wonder am i meant to be a girl. I have got to a stage that i do want to become a woman and really need advice. Please write back mwah xxxxxxxx samantha

Thursday, July 19th 2007 - 08:53:43 PM Name: 1 of u Subject: all of u
Name: one of you
Subject: all of you
E-mail address: na
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PLEASE NOTE: I am going to give you some advice that has no motives behind it. I once stood where all of you are now. It is confusing,scarry,and yet exciting at the same time. Whether you are a cross dresser, transgenderist, trans-sexual, or gay, it doesn't matter at all. Nor if your a pre-operative or post-operative trans-sexual. Male or female, black, white, or green. What does matter is that we are all ONE community and have to be supportive and open to each other. No back biting,no name calling or outing each other from the closets. Not a single one of you is any better than the other, remember this. Rich or poor, skinny or fat, ugly or beautiful,young or older, we all share a common thread, and that is; our deepest needs and heart felt feelings. Be assured of this; you are not the first to feel this way and you most certainly won't be the last. We come from every walk of life and from every corner of the planet. We are everywhere! What you are experiencing now is not illegal or in violation of any religion. No matter what some one may tell you. You are within your civil liberties and personal rights of freedom to follow your hearts. It is only in the matters of a minor child, that the local,civil,state and federal laws challenge any percieved physical or mental harm to ourselves . That is why minors are, and must in be, in a legal adults protective care. Like it or not, that is the way it is. This is also why a parent CAN stop you from pursuing your feelings. So, this brings the question; what can I do and how can I acheive it? This is where you must gather all your heart felt feelings, thoughts, ideas, and strength. If necessary, write a diary to yourself about how you feel and why. Be honest and don't go into wild fantasies. Don't waste your time on wild sexual wishes that could backfire on you if you carried them out. What your doing is a soul search and keeping a log of that journey. If you are totally afraid that you parents will kill you or throw you out of the house, believe me, they won't. And besides that, they can't by law. Make a simple plan of what you'd like to make them understand about you first. I would guess that it would be, deep in your heart your unhappy. And that, you've felt this for however long its been. You needn't give any specifics just yet, only that you are feeling very deep internal quetions about who or what you are. Your seeking inner answers that only you can decide and you need and want their support when you figure it out. Let them absorb that for awhile and continue to be honest with yourself. If you haven't bonded very closely with one or the other parent, then try to make the effort. It'll pay off later. Step parents can be especially hard because they tend to be overly judgmental. They tend to feel that they have to repair what someone else did wrong. Whatever you do, do not let your parents or another adult tell you that your suffering from hormone swings or from some bad external influences. Your not mentally ill and the devil isn't making you do it! It isn't immaturity or that we don't know what we want at this age. We all know that it isn't any of those! Next; you must resign yourself to the fact, that this is going to be a life long life style. This isn't something that you just dreamed up one day and decide to do. It isn't going to matter which one it is. There are NO MAGIC PILLS to cure you, for you are not ill. Keep that in mind. This is the honest truth to this people, I am not telling you lies. O.K. It is great that you have this forum, and you have the good sense to communicate. Now, if you what to talk to some professional people the best place to start is through the school health clinic/nurse. The key word you need to express is, I have "GENDER IDENTITY ISSUES" and need to talk to someone. Don't go into details at this point, the personnel dealing with you have to help you. Don't let them pry and don't spill your guts them. They are not qualified to handle it; trust me. The Principal nor any other staff member can force you to talk to them. The nurse/clinic person WILL contact someone to help you. No one is going to come and put you in jail and call your parents. And it is absolutely confidential. You can also try any Youth in Crisis outreach programs, again these are totally confidential. Another one is the Gay and Lesbian networks. Now don't go and have a big hissy fit at this suggestion. You need to understand that the National Coalition of Gay, Lesbian and Transgendered Persons is one of largest and most powerful advocates that we have. It would be well advised that if you have issues with Gays or Lesbians , that you get over them . They ARE your best friends whether you know it or not. And NO they are NOT going to try to recruit you into something. Once you have found the source that is right for you, get all the information you can. Read it all and read it again. Get on the internet and start searching. Read and read and read. Why? Because your going to need all the information you can gather to support you status and claim that you will finally present to your parents.You will also need it if you try to get a sex change when you are still quite young. Be prepared and show them that you are not just expressing some childish whim. Be strong and assured of yourself. Know the facts and have them ready to defend yourself. The may scream and holler at first, but that's alright. They may have to express their shock and dismay, but they DO NOT have the right to beat you or punish you . If you warmed them up as I previously outlined, they will be expecting that you'll be coming forward with some kind of news. When you finally do have that heart to heart, Just say "Mom, Dad,I love you guys, but I can't live a lie any longer.." This is one of the ways that you can effectively find the love and support that you deserve. Be nice, be honest, be supportive, and be a good example for others to follow. One last thing: if your into shocking people, exhibitionism , S/M , or deviant acts and behavior, then you have much deeper issues that need to be delt with than what this forum is about. I would suggest that you seek professional help quickly before you hurt yourself or someone else. And with that my young friends I will stop, I only hope that I in some measure have helped. Bye

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Thursday, July 19th 2007 - 08:40:56 PM Name: Jimmy Jellinek / Rolling Stone Magazine Subject: INTERVIEW REQUEST E-mail address: jellinek55@hotmail.com
Name: Rolling Stone Magazine


By way of introduction, my name is Jimmy Jellinek. I work as a reporter for Rolling Stone Magazine and we are in the process of putting together a story on transgendered teens both male-to-female and female-to-male. We believe this a story that needs to be told properly and sensitively as more and more teens are facing gender identity crisis in their own lives. We would like to show them teens who have made the transition, showing them as role models and successes so they can see what they face is not so daunting. I am quite keen to get in contact witn you regarding many of these issues and would also like to speak to other transgendered teens in case you are in a community or support group with them. I can be reached at this email. And if you would like to check my credentials please call my editor at Rolling Stone, Tony Romando at 212-484-1634. I can be reached at 917-225-7269.

Best,


Jimmy Jellinek
Rolling Stone Magazine.


Thursday, July 19th 2007 - 08:25:58 PM Name: robynsummers Subject: robynsummers writes
You know, cross dressing, with me tends to happen in cycles, sometimes I want to do it more than others, and sometimes I have no interest in doing it at all. But that begs the question what is the fascination with cross-dressing? Is it do with the fact that we are trying to find something in ourselves that we are not finding in our partner. Or perhaps something that is just missing from our lives? Take this for instance, some men have a fascination with seeing a woman with a nice figure dressed a short skirt and high heels, and best of all the fishnet stockings.

Your partner on the other hand, doesn't portray this image, or fulfil this fantasy, you do not want to be unfaithful, perhaps it's not your nature. Cross dressing for some people then, it would seem, is just a way of living this fantasy, without necessarily having to be unfaithful. Or perhaps it is just a safer environment for being able to fulfil one's Own fantasy of portraying that image of which we desire within our partners or indeed, more often within ourselves. That last comment needs expanding on, To fulfil one's Own fantasy, do some men get turned on by the fact that they are able to betray a feminine image? Some will achieve this very successfully, whilst others will achieve it to a certain extent. Perhaps for some it's just a form of sexual relief, for others they seem to just one what to see what it would be like to leave as a woman for a period the time, knowing that they can return to their normal masculine self- just by taking off the make-up, the wig, the female clothes, etc.
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?From a more psychological point of view, When it comes to cross dressing the psychology behind the reasons why we do it is very complicated, For the individual concerned is really the only person that can work out why we do it, with or without counselling from a 3rd party. Perhaps we where just born this way! There is after all, a school of thought that defines the biological reason's for cross dressing through to gender orientation by explaining the reasons away in scientific terms. This theory defines that our gender is determined biologically prior to birth.


Let?s take a quick biology lesson. Life for all of us begins in the womb, prior to conception we exist as a single egg comprising amongst other things, an X chromosome. The male sperm that impregnates the egg can consist of either an X or Y chromosome, this determines the sex, XX = female, and XY = male. Should and X Y chromosome combination result, the child will be born as a Male. During the early stages of pregnancy the foetus will normally receive a large dose of male hormones from the pregnant mother. This putt?s into place all of the biological mechanisms that will cause the unborn child to develop as a male. However, studies have shown that mothers tend to have male hormones in that their bodies at slightly different levels during pregnancy, this means that during the earlier stages of pregnancy, a higher or lower dose of male hormones can affect the way in which the unborn child develops biologically. From this, it should be no news to you that, we all have combinations of male and female hormones within us, it is this balance of male and female forms that determine the way we are. So, it would not be out the sight of logic for to assume that if a male receives too low a dose of male hormones during this crucial stage of development, he might at a later age find that he has a very strong feminine side. After all this theory explains that we are all the essentially female to start off with.


Then of course there is always the psychological influences exerted upon us during the early years of developments after birth, those of our parents, our families, our schooling, other social environments, and the influences of those who we befriend as we get older. I believe that the mechanisms that define one's own gender are put into place well before birth, only the social environment to which we are brought into will really have any effect on the way we develop further. If you think about it, social roles within society are often attributed to either the male or the female depending upon the role, you know what I'm mean! You would not necessarily see a female lumberjack, because socially this is seen as the masculine role, similarly, you would not expect the male to take up sewing as a vocation. These are social behaviours exerted upon all of society; by the way society attributes masculine and feminine to strength and weakness. So you can see from this that the majority of was will develop as society dictates, this would seem to override the biological principles discussed above. But not true, society might dictate the way that things should be however we did not always listen to our peers or do as they say, or believe what they tell us. We are all exposed to other social environments to a greater or lesser extent, some environments our parents will shield us from. But as we get older, we get more independent, as we get more independent, we spend more time doing the things and being in environments that are pleasing to us. The point I am trying to make here is, that our gender is defined, along with our personality, along with all of our strengths and weaknesses, likes and dislikes, from the time that we were born right through puberty to adolescence. There is no clear answer as to why we develop as transgender or normal, it is the result of many complicated biological and sociological factors.

? For me, I can remember at a very young age, probably about the time of puberty I had a fascination with legs, and more specifically legs that were covered in nylon, oh yes! That's what started for me. I've had a fascination with legs, specifically stockings and nylons, from an early age. I was probably I about 11 years old. When ever I had a private moment I could fulfil this need for myself, and after all, I do have a great pair of legs, even if I do say so myself. And from here as I got older it naturally progressed, and as my interests in women got stronger. Look at it this way, it was the 80?s after all, you know all the great music (remember the gender influences on Pop of the time) the fashions of the Eighties, that typical nicely done well-made up face. Hell the Eighties were great, and in some of the ways that I dress nowadays is influenced by this wonderful era. Although many 80?s icons stood up for being different, and most of them had homosexual tendencies, this has caused a socially distorted view of cross dressing, in that if you cross dress you must be gay. This is simply not true; the majority of us are straight men, with a strong feminine side. But society dictates this homosexual or perverted nature, and does not accept us for what we are, just normal men who like to dress as women. Thank goodness for the Internet, Jerry Springer, and the likes, because now we have a strong voice. It is time for society to lay down their inbred misconceptions and accept that we are normal, we are here and we are here to stay.

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Thursday, July 19th 2007 - 08:22:44 PM Name: Ivonne Subject: What does it mean to be feminine?
What does it mean to be feminine?

Well, actually, I don't know. In fact, I've been doing a lot of reading on the subject of gender, and no one seems to know what it means to be feminine. Or masculine. If they do, they're not telling. And I have not been able to put my finger on the answer either, no matter how much I toss the question around in my mind.

Sometimes the answer seems to be "I don't know, but I know it when I see it…"


Yet oddly enough, almost every crossdresser I meet seems to be able to answer this question, and the number of variations on an answer are almost endless.

The most common answer to this question has something to do with, you guessed it, wearing women's clothing. Often crossdressers will say that wearing skirts and high heels, garters and stockings makes them feel "feminine". A very common phrase is "I crossdress to express my feminine side". Women wince when they hear this.

I don't believe that there is a single woman in the world who wears women's clothing because it makes them feel "feminine". I don't think that dresses and skirts, high heels, bras, corsets, panty hose or any other article of women's clothing has some magical, shamanistic power to convey, endow or otherwise bestow the wearer with "femininity".

Do you?

Every time I try to think of something that is feminine, I can come up with an example that demonstrates that a male can also be feminine. For example, baking cup cakes for your kid's birthday party. It conjures up images of June Cleaver, immaculately dressed and made up, pirouetting about the kitchen in her three inch heels.

At a support group meeting one evening, I brought a cake I had baked that day. It was really simple: open a box, pour it into a bowl, add water, eggs and oil, mix, put in the oven and set the timer for 50 minutes. A no-brainer of the highest order. At the meeting, one member didn't believe I was the baker, and actually pulled Lori aside to ask her "confidentially" if she had really baked it! I don't know what bothered me more: the fact that this person didn't think I had the fifth-grade reading skills necessary to bake this cake or that I was so insecure that I had to lie about it and ask my partner to lie for me. I mean, really!

When I found myself a single parent, I had to learn to do some simple baking, if for no other reason than I wanted that to be part of my daughter's home life with me. I wanted her to, hopefully, have some memories someday of spending a rainy Saturday helping me bake chocolate chip cookies. Or to look at a photograph years from now and say "I remember that birthday, Dad baked that cake."

It really has nothing to do with feeling feminine. But I had a sense of knowing something about how women in that role might feel.

Very often women are described as being sensitive, gentle, nurturing, supportive and passive. Ironically, there is nothing passive about being nurturing or supportive. They take a lot of work. But that's beside the point. Actually…that is the point!

All of those adjectives describe not a person, but rather a person's behavior. And behavior can always be learned.

I nurtured my daughter's love for reading by spending countless hours reading to her, letting her read to me, reading some of my favorite stories to her, buying her books, taking her to public library and letting her get a library card, getting her subscriptions to kids magazines. Not censuring what she reads, but letting her choose for herself, giving her money with which to buy her own books. It was a lot of work.

At the time of my divorce I was a software developer for a small, privately owned software company. I told my boss that I was going through a divorce and that I would have joint custody of my daughter. I explained that there would be days that I had to drop her off at school and pick her up afterwards. I had made arrangements to place her in a before and after school daycare program, so I would be able to work my normal 8-5 day, but not much more than that.

From that point on, my career with that company was over. I was passed over for a promotion I had earned and my annual raise was always the minimum percentage the company offered, even though my work was never faulted. I put my family ahead of my job, and I paid the price for that. I knew something about how it felt to be a woman, but I wouldn't say I felt feminine.

Behavior we label feminine is not limited to females. Anyone can exhibit that behavior if they choose. As I have written elsewhere on this site, society seems to be uncomfortable with the images of masculine women and feminine men. It is the lack of social acceptance of cross-gender behavior that compels males and females of all ages to behave in certain "gender-appropriate" ways.

But let's get back to the subject of clothing and gender, since that's what crossdressing is mostly about. I don't doubt for a moment that there are millions of men in our society who sincerely want to be more supportive, nurturing, caring, gentle, emotional, and maybe even more passive than what is expected from them as men. I also don't doubt that many of those men are not crossdressers, and some are.

Men wearing women's clothing, even to the point of looking completely like a woman, is, I believe, more about eroticism than it is about "femininity". I believe that "feeling feminine" has become, among crossdressers especially, a euphemism for "feeling sexy" or "feeling attractive". This is not about wanting and having sex, it's about wanting to look and feel wonderful.

I know that's how I feel about myself when I crossdress. That's why I don't like to sit home anymore when I crossdress, because I want to go out and be seen. Which is not to say I want to be liked for the way I look. As a man, I know how it feels to have someone feign friendship because they are attracted to the way I look, only to see that faux-friendship vanish when I wouldn't consent to a sexual relationship. Call me a fool, but I'm more than a little sensitive to people just wanting to have sex with me. I have my faults but, hey, I'm better than that.

Not many crossdressers want to admit that crossdressing is an erotic experience, that wearing women's clothing can be exciting and sexy, even when the clothes are very tasteful and appropriate. It's strange, because that's exactly what many women will say about some of their own choices in clothing. We all have clothes like this, the stuff we put on and we really feel great wearing it.

Keep in mind that I talking about how clothing makes us feel when we wear it, not how it makes someone else feel to see us wearing it. A woman may wear that "little black dress" out on a dinner date because she feels sexy wearing it, which is different than saying she wore it because she wanted to have sex. No matter how her date may feel about the dress.

So why can't the same rules apply to men? Why can't crossdressers feel comfortable saying that wearing women's clothing makes them feel attractive and sexy?

Usually because the minute someone admits this, someone else slaps the label "fetish" on their behavior. I can understand why no one wants to be labeled as having a "fetish". What I can't understand is why so many other people use that word incorrectly so often.

The use of clothing as a form of self-expression, both in the signals we send out to the rest of the world and the inner, minds-eye image we have of ourselves, is almost as ancient as the use of clothing itself. Certainly, the use of makeup serves no practical purpose. It's all really about liking what we see in the mirror. We all feel better about ourselves when we like the way we look.

I suppose, of course, that if your entire self-image comes from the way you look, you have a problem. Or you are a supermodel.


Thursday, July 19th 2007 - 08:20:31 PM Name: Misty Subject: why do i crossdress? E-mail address: MistyG215@aol.com
Why do I Crossdress

Why do people crossdress wheiter male or female? ? Does anyone really know ! ! ! Personally I don't think anyone knows the answer to this question. If you ask this question to a thousand different crossdressers you'll get a thousand different answers.

I have been crossdressing for almost 40 years and I still don't really know why I crossdress. I think it most likely started out as a fetish when I was younger. But as the years went on I discovered that it really had very little, if anything to do with sex. I hardly ever get aroused sexually when I dress anymore. But yet I dress almost everyday (night). I like the way I feel when I am dressed. I like the way I looking the best that I can. Taking the time to really get a close shave and putting on makeup the taste the smell of it all. The way the clothes feel against my skin. There is nothing quite like the feel of silk or nylon against the body. To wear a dress or a short skirt and feeling that cool breeze blowing the tail of it up a little and the coolness against the body. ( What a feeling) Why should all of this be reserved for the women of our lives. I love this feeling as much as anyone male or female.

When I get dressed I feel so good and have a feeling of pleasure just knowing that I have made an attempt at perhaps improving my looks. Yes I think I look better when dressed especially when I take the time to carefully apply my makeup and fix my hair (wig). If my body was just shaped a little differently I don't think I would have any problems passing. (need to lose about 20 lbs) Another reason I enjoy getting dressed up is. I feel sexy not necessarily look sexy but feel sexy. If I have any house work to do. Ha Ha If. . . . I will always dress in a pair pantyhose a pair of cutoffs and a Tee with my favorite bra. Put on a pair of tennis shoes and I am ready to clean house. I don't mind cleaning house this way but I just can't get into cleaning if I am not dressed. Why don't ask me because I can't tell you. But to me this is a sexy look that I enjoy.

One other reason that I think I crossdress is. I like the way that a pair of lycra satin panties feel especially when they really fit. The tightness of a bodybriefer. That soft smooth feel of a pair of pantyhose or nylons against my legs. The feel of a short slip riding high up my thighs maybe even exposing the top of a pair of lace top stockings help up with garters. That really snug even tight fit of maybe a corset trying to hold in that spare tire around the waist.

These are just a few of the reasons that i would give for crossdressing. . . Why don't you tell me a few of yours.

Misty



Thursday, July 19th 2007 - 08:20:17 PM Name: Misty Subject: why do i crossdress? E-mail address: MistyG215@aol.com
Why do I Crossdress

Why do people crossdress wheiter male or female? ? Does anyone really know ! ! ! Personally I don't think anyone knows the answer to this question. If you ask this question to a thousand different crossdressers you'll get a thousand different answers.

I have been crossdressing for almost 40 years and I still don't really know why I crossdress. I think it most likely started out as a fetish when I was younger. But as the years went on I discovered that it really had very little, if anything to do with sex. I hardly ever get aroused sexually when I dress anymore. But yet I dress almost everyday (night). I like the way I feel when I am dressed. I like the way I looking the best that I can. Taking the time to really get a close shave and putting on makeup the taste the smell of it all. The way the clothes feel against my skin. There is nothing quite like the feel of silk or nylon against the body. To wear a dress or a short skirt and feeling that cool breeze blowing the tail of it up a little and the coolness against the body. ( What a feeling) Why should all of this be reserved for the women of our lives. I love this feeling as much as anyone male or female.

When I get dressed I feel so good and have a feeling of pleasure just knowing that I have made an attempt at perhaps improving my looks. Yes I think I look better when dressed especially when I take the time to carefully apply my makeup and fix my hair (wig). If my body was just shaped a little differently I don't think I would have any problems passing. (need to lose about 20 lbs) Another reason I enjoy getting dressed up is. I feel sexy not necessarily look sexy but feel sexy. If I have any house work to do. Ha Ha If. . . . I will always dress in a pair pantyhose a pair of cutoffs and a Tee with my favorite bra. Put on a pair of tennis shoes and I am ready to clean house. I don't mind cleaning house this way but I just can't get into cleaning if I am not dressed. Why don't ask me because I can't tell you. But to me this is a sexy look that I enjoy.

One other reason that I think I crossdress is. I like the way that a pair of lycra satin panties feel especially when they really fit. The tightness of a bodybriefer. That soft smooth feel of a pair of pantyhose or nylons against my legs. The feel of a short slip riding high up my thighs maybe even exposing the top of a pair of lace top stockings help up with garters. That really snug even tight fit of maybe a corset trying to hold in that spare tire around the waist.

These are just a few of the reasons that i would give for crossdressing. . . Why don't you tell me a few of yours.

Misty



Thursday, July 19th 2007 - 08:13:57 PM Name: Dr. Carl W. Bushong Subject: Gender Expressions Homepage URL: http://http://www.transgendercare.com/guidance/gender_expressions.htm



During my years of work and study with gender folk, I have consistently been surprised and amazed at both the depth and breath of change that has occurred during transition. And when I say transition, I am not just speaking of individuals described (either by oneself or by others) as “transsexuals,” but also “crossdressers,” “transvestites,” “transgendered people,” etc.

As I discussed in my article, What is Gender and Who is Transgendered, one’s Gender Identity is only one of our five semi-independent aspects of gender (Genetic, Physical, Brain Gender, Brain Sex and Gender Identity). One’s Gender Identity is established early in childhood and is our Self Map. Gender identity is one's subjective sense of one's own sex. Like pain, it is unambiguously felt but one is unable to prove or display it to others. One's subjective gender is just as real and more immalleable than one's physical gender but unfortunately not recognized in our culture. This internal map forms how we see ourselves as a sexual individual (our affiliation to a gender), just as Brain Sex is our Love Map—how we identify our love/sex partner.

When our gender Self Map does not match our Physical Gender (genitals), along with our society providing no niche or role (although most other societies do) for this varied gender expression, a conflict usually develops. Although gender folk’s combination of the five gender factors is just as natural as any other, it is not perceived as “normal” (what you are supposed to be or do) in our society.

Because a child’s greatest desire is to be normal (like everybody else), they create an artificial self which meets this goal. They are often so successful at this that they not only fool everyone else but themselves as well — at least part of the time, in some way.

I have gradually come to the conclusion that for most physically male gender folk, the male persona is an artificial construction produced by the early adolescent individual (ages 12 to 15) in order to fit in and be like everybody else. For the physically female person, there is a separate and different, but still consistent pattern, which I will address in a separate writing.

Once created, physically male gender folk live in this role — a 3-D personality with its own goals, likes and dislikes, values, hobbies, etc. Although indistinguishable from the “real thing,” it isn’t themselves. It is an artificial creation for them to be able to fit in. But, as the nagging reality of the deception becomes harder and harder to suppress, one has to express their true self somehow, in some way.

For most, dressing is the obvious compromise. If one cannot be female, one can at least express femininity. But the more one expresses one’s true self, the desire for more becomes greater. Some individuals continue expressing themselves more and more, others panic and purge only to start again later.

One's transgender classification (crossdresser, transgenderist, transsexual, etc.) is due to how each individual adjusts to first, the conflict between their natural female subjective gender (Self-map) and their need to be “normal,” and later to how and how much they resolve the conflict between their female subjective gender and their “male persona.” There is no objective “best solution,” only a subjective, personal best solution, which may change over time.

After years or decades of living, working and building within their male persona, it is often too “expensive” to give up the life, perks, family, etc., one has built up—in order to go back to basics and have an emotionally 12 year old girl grow up—and live in a once male 40+ year old body.

Therefore, while all gender folk need to transition, not all need to use hormones, let alone surgery. The only person who truly knows where and how far to go is the transgendered person, themselves. But even they cannot do it alone. When one has spent decades fooling everyone, including oneself, it is difficult to tell what is true and what is smoke and mirrors. As we need a reflection to see our own face, we need a knowledgeable, experienced helper to see our true self.

How does one find such a helper? —With great difficulty, I’m afraid. In my opinion, a psychotherapist’s role is to be a helper, a teacher, and a guide. To help the transgendered with those areas and conflicts resulting from a lifetime of living a double life, one inside or hidden from others, one out in public. The therapist needs to be a teacher in making available all the accumulated knowledge, skills and choices one has as well as clearing away the myths, lies and misinformation. And as a guide, the therapist aids the client through the social, legal, medical and emotional mine fields toward one’s true self. Here are some must have’s you will need to find in your helper.

1. Is your helper knowledgeable and up-to-date about transgender needs and problems?
2. Has your helper previously helped at least two other people transition successfully before you?
3. Is your helper knowledgeable about electrolysis, hormones, surgery, transgender law, etc., to guide you through your transition?
4. Does your helper know and understand the difference between transitioning and psychotherapy.
5. Last but not least, does your helper have a working relationship with other knowing, experienced and successful practitioners such as electrologists, endocrinologists, surgeons, attorneys, etc.

While gender folk have problems and need psychotherapy, and marriage and family counseling like any other group, transitioning, itself, is not psychotherapy. Transitioning is being given the tools and knowledge to ask the questions whose answers set them free. The old artificial male persona falls away piece by piece, revealing underneath a brand new self. The new self may be female or just more feminine. Whatever transitioned people may appear to others, to themselves they are happy, and sometimes for the first time, whole individuals.

I am pleased to say that those who have stayed to complete their transition with me have all become both happy people and very happy with their decision to transition. Never have I had so many people use the word “giddy” to describe themselves and their new life.

However far one is able to go toward dismantling the male persona and allowing their naturally female subjective gender to develop, one generally seems to have the following three levels of transition:

1. Recognition that one's Brain Gender is different from one's Physical Gender —This first phase comprises the majority of transgendered persons (75 – 95%) and can take the form of seeing one's self as a "woman trapped in a man's body," a need to express one's "feminine side," etc. This stage is mainly concerned with physical/surface changes such as crossdressing, passing, makeup, wigs, etc. In this first part, many gender folk don't even venture from their own home in female attire or restrict their expression to undergarments (bra, panties) in public. They often have a juvenile (before age 15) and later, an adult phase. There is often years or decades between the two phases. This level is filled with confusion, conflict, guilt, panic, and purging. The so called "Primary Transsexual" is an individual who never constructs a male persona and therefore never accepts their male genitals or challenges their female Self Map/subjective gender.

2. Accepting one's True Self— This stage is much more varied than the first, and has less emotional turmoil. This is the stage where one begins to accept their female self in some way and to make lifestyle changes to accommodate this acceptance. One may only accept the need to appear female, still denying their female true self (crossdresser) or begin to accept their true female self, but concentrating on a superficial physical level of change (transsexual, transgendered).

The self-identified crossdresser may begin to bring his significant other into his dressing, begin going to crossdresser meetings and events, or even going out into public. Those individuals more accepting of their true self will start to look for help in physical transitioning, such as hormones, electrolysis, and surgery, as well as wigs, makeup and clothes.

The major insight lacking at this stage is that they are still under the control of the male persona with all of its unnatural fears, drives, expectations, and knowledge. Even their view of their "female self" is his view, not their freed and autonomous female self. They are still trapped in the belief that physical form alone determines gender.

3. Becoming one's True Self — This is the last but unfortunately least experienced part of transitioning. This is the stage when that little girl trapped inside an artificial male persona in order to fit in, breaks free, grows up and has her own life — often with markedly different values, temperament and interests.

It has been my observation that the female subjective self needs little help in growing up and developing if the overpowering weight of the male persona is removed from it. The individual has spent years, decades developing, reinforcing and living in this male role. Dismantling the male persona takes a great deal of time, effort and outside help. In those individuals identified as "transsexual," their subjective sense of happiness and success is directly parallel with the degree they have dismantled their male identity, not on their age, physical size, hormones, surgery, etc. Another interesting aspect of a female subjective gender with a male physical gender is the concept of Sexual Orientation. To classify a M/F individual as either homosexual or heterosexual would be equally false. If one views their gender as that established by their subjective gender, then having sex with a physical/ subjective female would make them homosexual (lesbian). But, if one viewed their actions from their physical gender, they would be committing a heterosexual act. In other words, no matter which gender they have sexual relations with, they are simultaneously committing both a homosexual and heterosexual act. (See What is Gender and Who is Transgendered for details.)

Informed Choice

My method for transitioning I term “Informed Decision Making.” In this, the client makes their own decision to go down whichever road they choose and how far, upon being given the information and insight needed to do so. I find most gender folk focus on their dress and body at first not realizing that the whole persona changes during successful transitioning. This is why physical transitioning (clothes, makeup, hormones, surgery) is only a minor part of the whole transition process. Values, lifelong hobbies, musical tastes, temperament, and goals, can and often do change. The new self which emerges from under the male personality often grows into a person no closer to the male persona than a sister. It is often a rebirth in slow motion (it takes one to two+ years). One becomes their true natural self, which is far greater than just a change in physical gender.

But, while transitioning offers great promise, there are also great dangers if one does not use care in choosing who they listen to and ask for help. All too often individuals in transition, or for that matter, those who feel they have arrived, become a collection of disparate traits and cosmetic changes instead of a complete package. Naturally, some individuals are stubborn and refuse to accept any guidance and support. But the real culprits that hold many from achieving their best are often the treating professionals themselves.

Many times providers remain ill informed about transgender issues or worse, remain uncaring and expect the transgendered client to fend for oneself. They never aid or foster an informed consumer’s mind-set. Who’s best interest is served when a provider is often unprepared to provide the client with the broad based understanding needed to make the proper choices?

If an individual happens upon “professionals” who offer no guidance or sense of priority while making available hormones or surgery with little or no life-style preparation — a disaster may be in store. The individual’s future happiness is threatened when the outcome of such “professional” intervention may be a bearded, baritone post-op lady with large breast implants but little or no training or understanding of how to walk, talk, or sit, let alone a strong sense of “female-self.”

In an area such as gender, where myth and ignorance often exceed knowledge within the professional community, it is only expected that the lay persons in need should be confused, frustrated, and uninformed. The transgendered often begin life feeling as if they are the only person in the world to have such a problem; that something is wrong with them - and not just in society’s view. When at last they try to be themselves, to throw off sometimes decades of deception, frustration and denial, they are often both fearful and resentful. So much of their life is felt to be “lost,” and naturally there is an eagerness to get on with their “new self,” right now! Unfortunately, many gender folk have collected a lot of “excess baggage” in the form of a marriage, family, children, and educational/professional development that doesn’t properly translate to one’s desired gender status. And just like society as a whole, the transgendered individual may focus far too much on the physical aspects of gender, down-playing or even missing the mental, behavioral, social and emotional aspects. Their male persona is not realized or appreciated, let alone its need to be dismantled.

When it comes to gender, our culture is genitally obsessed. What’s between your legs and on your chest determines your gender (sex). Body form and plumbing are all our society sees and therefore all the transgendered person may be aware. Actually, most conventional wisdom regarding sex and gender is incorrect. (See What is Gender and Who is Transgendered for details.)

The most important service a professional can provide for the transgendered individual is to provide the knowledge, support and resources needed for a series of “informed choices” as to what, how and where their transformation will take them.

Today quality gender based services are becoming increasingly available, although they are still geographically spotty. While some regions of the country are very “gender knowledgeable,” others are not so gifted. Even in areas with minimal professional services available, the dynamism that a conscientious and self-aware gender support group can provide is tremendous. But sometimes support groups and Internet “chat rooms” can be counterproductive, if the blind are leading the blind. All too often those with the least knowledge and most misinformation are the most eager to share their “insights”—not as an opinion, but as “fact.” When a transgendered individual who is new to the community comes across these self-appointed experts, they are often swayed by this mis- and dysinformation. Even with the gender community’s growing size, knowledge base and opportunities, groups of individuals suffering from the consequences of misinformation and the quick-fix mentality are living in a small world of their own—still trying to influence others along the same ill-fated path. Group knowledge, resources, and a desire for personal growth are essential. While the transgendered now can take a long overdue control of their destiny, one should keep in mind that success is heightened by “informed choice,” not just choice.

Counseling, though, need not be weekly. In fact, very few of my clients receive weekly sessions after the first few months. Of course, the more intensive the effort, the quicker one will reach their goal. But counseling more than once a week doesn’t seem to help — unless there is more than one problem being worked on, such as transitioning plus marriage problems.

For example, let’s say Mary (who was Bob) has recently come to accept she is transgendered, and has a wife, Betty, who she cares for, and three children ages seven, nine, and twelve. Mary is a successful engineer at a large company making a very good wage. Her wife does not work outside the home.

Mary has several problems to solve. One — what does “transgendered” mean to her? Two — how does she now relate to her wife who is fearful and upset? Three — how, when and what to tell the children? Four — what should she do about work, friends, family, etc.?

The first problem is part of transitioning and by far the most important. As Mary answers, “What does being transgendered mean to me?,” the solution to her other questions will become clearer and clearer. But at some point, as Mary gets to know and accept herself more, she and Betty will probably benefit from couple/marriage counseling as there are many issues between them they need to resolve.

Because a person’s core personality often changes greatly during transition, making too many decisions too soon is a mistake. At the beginning of transition, Bob’s values, goals and baggage (personal responsibilities, etc.) are still in charge — at this stage Mary is only a gleam in Bob’s eye. It takes time to tear down the walls and fill in the gaps. As Mary is learning and growing, Betty needs to be brought along too — at least as far as she is willing or capable of going. Remember, this a very trying time for the spouse as well as the transgendered person. The partner’s whole life is being turned upside down and she has no control over it. The partner often feels betrayed, angry and frustrated. Betty can even see Mary as her enemy, her competition. But, the more and the sooner a knowing, experienced professional is brought into the picture, the easier it is for both parties, and the better the outcome for everyone. Betty’s willing cooperation is needed for best dealing with the children, family, and future living arrangements.

With Betty brought into the process, as Mary’s transformation continues they can decide as a couple what their relationship and living conditions will be. Not always, happily, but truthfully with everyone’s needs acknowledged and discussed.

If Mary realizes she must transition fully into a female body and role, they are now positioned to deal with this together including the telling of children, family and friends. Often a completely new job description is called for upon transition — sometimes because of the difference in Bob’s and Mary’s personality and values, and other times because a woman is not as accepted or respected in the old employment. And, of course, sometimes the prejudice of the employer leads to a loss of job. But, I have found that prejudice is the least common reason for job change if the transition is done correctly on all levels — emotional and psychological as well as physical. In fact, over the last few years, I have experienced very few negative reactions from employers, family and friends towards my transitioning gender clients. So few that I have began to feel that most negative reactions stem from gender folks not being given good help during transition rather than the transition itself. The exceptions to this rule are often spouses and best friends, because in both cases, the very basis of the relationship are often threatened by transitioning.

There is a global need for all gender folk, whether CD, TV, TS or TG to transition, although the road taken and the distance traveled may vary greatly from individual to individual. Transitioning is much more than a physical/superficial journey. And transitioning in itself is not psychotherapy but a rebirth of an individual long buried under the layers of society’s imposed expectations. Like all births, it can be long, difficult, very painful and full of doubts at times. But who can deny the joy and expectation of a new life, a new beginning, even if the death of the old is needed to give room for the birth of the new?


Thursday, July 19th 2007 - 08:01:41 PM Name: Dr. Carl W. Bushong Subject: Gender Expressions Homepage URL: http://http://www.transgendercare.com/guidance/gender_expressions.htm



During my years of work and study with gender folk, I have consistently been surprised and amazed at both the depth and breath of change that has occurred during transition. And when I say transition, I am not just speaking of individuals described (either by oneself or by others) as “transsexuals,” but also “crossdressers,” “transvestites,” “transgendered people,” etc.

As I discussed in my article, What is Gender and Who is Transgendered, one’s Gender Identity is only one of our five semi-independent aspects of gender (Genetic, Physical, Brain Gender, Brain Sex and Gender Identity). One’s Gender Identity is established early in childhood and is our Self Map. Gender identity is one's subjective sense of one's own sex. Like pain, it is unambiguously felt but one is unable to prove or display it to others. One's subjective gender is just as real and more immalleable than one's physical gender but unfortunately not recognized in our culture. This internal map forms how we see ourselves as a sexual individual (our affiliation to a gender), just as Brain Sex is our Love Map—how we identify our love/sex partner.

When our gender Self Map does not match our Physical Gender (genitals), along with our society providing no niche or role (although most other societies do) for this varied gender expression, a conflict usually develops. Although gender folk’s combination of the five gender factors is just as natural as any other, it is not perceived as “normal” (what you are supposed to be or do) in our society.

Because a child’s greatest desire is to be normal (like everybody else), they create an artificial self which meets this goal. They are often so successful at this that they not only fool everyone else but themselves as well — at least part of the time, in some way.

I have gradually come to the conclusion that for most physically male gender folk, the male persona is an artificial construction produced by the early adolescent individual (ages 12 to 15) in order to fit in and be like everybody else. For the physically female person, there is a separate and different, but still consistent pattern, which I will address in a separate writing.

Once created, physically male gender folk live in this role — a 3-D personality with its own goals, likes and dislikes, values, hobbies, etc. Although indistinguishable from the “real thing,” it isn’t themselves. It is an artificial creation for them to be able to fit in. But, as the nagging reality of the deception becomes harder and harder to suppress, one has to express their true self somehow, in some way.

For most, dressing is the obvious compromise. If one cannot be female, one can at least express femininity. But the more one expresses one’s true self, the desire for more becomes greater. Some individuals continue expressing themselves more and more, others panic and purge only to start again later.

One's transgender classification (crossdresser, transgenderist, transsexual, etc.) is due to how each individual adjusts to first, the conflict between their natural female subjective gender (Self-map) and their need to be “normal,” and later to how and how much they resolve the conflict between their female subjective gender and their “male persona.” There is no objective “best solution,” only a subjective, personal best solution, which may change over time.

After years or decades of living, working and building within their male persona, it is often too “expensive” to give up the life, perks, family, etc., one has built up—in order to go back to basics and have an emotionally 12 year old girl grow up—and live in a once male 40+ year old body.

Therefore, while all gender folk need to transition, not all need to use hormones, let alone surgery. The only person who truly knows where and how far to go is the transgendered person, themselves. But even they cannot do it alone. When one has spent decades fooling everyone, including oneself, it is difficult to tell what is true and what is smoke and mirrors. As we need a reflection to see our own face, we need a knowledgeable, experienced helper to see our true self.

How does one find such a helper? —With great difficulty, I’m afraid. In my opinion, a psychotherapist’s role is to be a helper, a teacher, and a guide. To help the transgendered with those areas and conflicts resulting from a lifetime of living a double life, one inside or hidden from others, one out in public. The therapist needs to be a teacher in making available all the accumulated knowledge, skills and choices one has as well as clearing away the myths, lies and misinformation. And as a guide, the therapist aids the client through the social, legal, medical and emotional mine fields toward one’s true self. Here are some must have’s you will need to find in your helper.

1. Is your helper knowledgeable and up-to-date about transgender needs and problems?
2. Has your helper previously helped at least two other people transition successfully before you?
3. Is your helper knowledgeable about electrolysis, hormones, surgery, transgender law, etc., to guide you through your transition?
4. Does your helper know and understand the difference between transitioning and psychotherapy.
5. Last but not least, does your helper have a working relationship with other knowing, experienced and successful practitioners such as electrologists, endocrinologists, surgeons, attorneys, etc.

While gender folk have problems and need psychotherapy, and marriage and family counseling like any other group, transitioning, itself, is not psychotherapy. Transitioning is being given the tools and knowledge to ask the questions whose answers set them free. The old artificial male persona falls away piece by piece, revealing underneath a brand new self. The new self may be female or just more feminine. Whatever transitioned people may appear to others, to themselves they are happy, and sometimes for the first time, whole individuals.

I am pleased to say that those who have stayed to complete their transition with me have all become both happy people and very happy with their decision to transition. Never have I had so many people use the word “giddy” to describe themselves and their new life.

However far one is able to go toward dismantling the male persona and allowing their naturally female subjective gender to develop, one generally seems to have the following three levels of transition:

1. Recognition that one's Brain Gender is different from one's Physical Gender —This first phase comprises the majority of transgendered persons (75 – 95%) and can take the form of seeing one's self as a "woman trapped in a man's body," a need to express one's "feminine side," etc. This stage is mainly concerned with physical/surface changes such as crossdressing, passing, makeup, wigs, etc. In this first part, many gender folk don't even venture from their own home in female attire or restrict their expression to undergarments (bra, panties) in public. They often have a juvenile (before age 15) and later, an adult phase. There is often years or decades between the two phases. This level is filled with confusion, conflict, guilt, panic, and purging. The so called "Primary Transsexual" is an individual who never constructs a male persona and therefore never accepts their male genitals or challenges their female Self Map/subjective gender.

2. Accepting one's True Self— This stage is much more varied than the first, and has less emotional turmoil. This is the stage where one begins to accept their female self in some way and to make lifestyle changes to accommodate this acceptance. One may only accept the need to appear female, still denying their female true self (crossdresser) or begin to accept their true female self, but concentrating on a superficial physical level of change (transsexual, transgendered).

The self-identified crossdresser may begin to bring his significant other into his dressing, begin going to crossdresser meetings and events, or even going out into public. Those individuals more accepting of their true self will start to look for help in physical transitioning, such as hormones, electrolysis, and surgery, as well as wigs, makeup and clothes.

The major insight lacking at this stage is that they are still under the control of the male persona with all of its unnatural fears, drives, expectations, and knowledge. Even their view of their "female self" is his view, not their freed and autonomous female self. They are still trapped in the belief that physical form alone determines gender.

3. Becoming one's True Self — This is the last but unfortunately least experienced part of transitioning. This is the stage when that little girl trapped inside an artificial male persona in order to fit in, breaks free, grows up and has her own life — often with markedly different values, temperament and interests.

It has been my observation that the female subjective self needs little help in growing up and developing if the overpowering weight of the male persona is removed from it. The individual has spent years, decades developing, reinforcing and living in this male role. Dismantling the male persona takes a great deal of time, effort and outside help. In those individuals identified as "transsexual," their subjective sense of happiness and success is directly parallel with the degree they have dismantled their male identity, not on their age, physical size, hormones, surgery, etc. Another interesting aspect of a female subjective gender with a male physical gender is the concept of Sexual Orientation. To classify a M/F individual as either homosexual or heterosexual would be equally false. If one views their gender as that established by their subjective gender, then having sex with a physical/ subjective female would make them homosexual (lesbian). But, if one viewed their actions from their physical gender, they would be committing a heterosexual act. In other words, no matter which gender they have sexual relations with, they are simultaneously committing both a homosexual and heterosexual act. (See What is Gender and Who is Transgendered for details.)

Informed Choice

My method for transitioning I term “Informed Decision Making.” In this, the client makes their own decision to go down whichever road they choose and how far, upon being given the information and insight needed to do so. I find most gender folk focus on their dress and body at first not realizing that the whole persona changes during successful transitioning. This is why physical transitioning (clothes, makeup, hormones, surgery) is only a minor part of the whole transition process. Values, lifelong hobbies, musical tastes, temperament, and goals, can and often do change. The new self which emerges from under the male personality often grows into a person no closer to the male persona than a sister. It is often a rebirth in slow motion (it takes one to two+ years). One becomes their true natural self, which is far greater than just a change in physical gender.

But, while transitioning offers great promise, there are also great dangers if one does not use care in choosing who they listen to and ask for help. All too often individuals in transition, or for that matter, those who feel they have arrived, become a collection of disparate traits and cosmetic changes instead of a complete package. Naturally, some individuals are stubborn and refuse to accept any guidance and support. But the real culprits that hold many from achieving their best are often the treating professionals themselves.

Many times providers remain ill informed about transgender issues or worse, remain uncaring and expect the transgendered client to fend for oneself. They never aid or foster an informed consumer’s mind-set. Who’s best interest is served when a provider is often unprepared to provide the client with the broad based understanding needed to make the proper choices?

If an individual happens upon “professionals” who offer no guidance or sense of priority while making available hormones or surgery with little or no life-style preparation — a disaster may be in store. The individual’s future happiness is threatened when the outcome of such “professional” intervention may be a bearded, baritone post-op lady with large breast implants but little or no training or understanding of how to walk, talk, or sit, let alone a strong sense of “female-self.”

In an area such as gender, where myth and ignorance often exceed knowledge within the professional community, it is only expected that the lay persons in need should be confused, frustrated, and uninformed. The transgendered often begin life feeling as if they are the only person in the world to have such a problem; that something is wrong with them - and not just in society’s view. When at last they try to be themselves, to throw off sometimes decades of deception, frustration and denial, they are often both fearful and resentful. So much of their life is felt to be “lost,” and naturally there is an eagerness to get on with their “new self,” right now! Unfortunately, many gender folk have collected a lot of “excess baggage” in the form of a marriage, family, children, and educational/professional development that doesn’t properly translate to one’s desired gender status. And just like society as a whole, the transgendered individual may focus far too much on the physical aspects of gender, down-playing or even missing the mental, behavioral, social and emotional aspects. Their male persona is not realized or appreciated, let alone its need to be dismantled.

When it comes to gender, our culture is genitally obsessed. What’s between your legs and on your chest determines your gender (sex). Body form and plumbing are all our society sees and therefore all the transgendered person may be aware. Actually, most conventional wisdom regarding sex and gender is incorrect. (See What is Gender and Who is Transgendered for details.)

The most important service a professional can provide for the transgendered individual is to provide the knowledge, support and resources needed for a series of “informed choices” as to what, how and where their transformation will take them.

Today quality gender based services are becoming increasingly available, although they are still geographically spotty. While some regions of the country are very “gender knowledgeable,” others are not so gifted. Even in areas with minimal professional services available, the dynamism that a conscientious and self-aware gender support group can provide is tremendous. But sometimes support groups and Internet “chat rooms” can be counterproductive, if the blind are leading the blind. All too often those with the least knowledge and most misinformation are the most eager to share their “insights”—not as an opinion, but as “fact.” When a transgendered individual who is new to the community comes across these self-appointed experts, they are often swayed by this mis- and dysinformation. Even with the gender community’s growing size, knowledge base and opportunities, groups of individuals suffering from the consequences of misinformation and the quick-fix mentality are living in a small world of their own—still trying to influence others along the same ill-fated path. Group knowledge, resources, and a desire for personal growth are essential. While the transgendered now can take a long overdue control of their destiny, one should keep in mind that success is heightened by “informed choice,” not just choice.

Counseling, though, need not be weekly. In fact, very few of my clients receive weekly sessions after the first few months. Of course, the more intensive the effort, the quicker one will reach their goal. But counseling more than once a week doesn’t seem to help — unless there is more than one problem being worked on, such as transitioning plus marriage problems.

For example, let’s say Mary (who was Bob) has recently come to accept she is transgendered, and has a wife, Betty, who she cares for, and three children ages seven, nine, and twelve. Mary is a successful engineer at a large company making a very good wage. Her wife does not work outside the home.

Mary has several problems to solve. One — what does “transgendered” mean to her? Two — how does she now relate to her wife who is fearful and upset? Three — how, when and what to tell the children? Four — what should she do about work, friends, family, etc.?

The first problem is part of transitioning and by far the most important. As Mary answers, “What does being transgendered mean to me?,” the solution to her other questions will become clearer and clearer. But at some point, as Mary gets to know and accept herself more, she and Betty will probably benefit from couple/marriage counseling as there are many issues between them they need to resolve.

Because a person’s core personality often changes greatly during transition, making too many decisions too soon is a mistake. At the beginning of transition, Bob’s values, goals and baggage (personal responsibilities, etc.) are still in charge — at this stage Mary is only a gleam in Bob’s eye. It takes time to tear down the walls and fill in the gaps. As Mary is learning and growing, Betty needs to be brought along too — at least as far as she is willing or capable of going. Remember, this a very trying time for the spouse as well as the transgendered person. The partner’s whole life is being turned upside down and she has no control over it. The partner often feels betrayed, angry and frustrated. Betty can even see Mary as her enemy, her competition. But, the more and the sooner a knowing, experienced professional is brought into the picture, the easier it is for both parties, and the better the outcome for everyone. Betty’s willing cooperation is needed for best dealing with the children, family, and future living arrangements.

With Betty brought into the process, as Mary’s transformation continues they can decide as a couple what their relationship and living conditions will be. Not always, happily, but truthfully with everyone’s needs acknowledged and discussed.

If Mary realizes she must transition fully into a female body and role, they are now positioned to deal with this together including the telling of children, family and friends. Often a completely new job description is called for upon transition — sometimes because of the difference in Bob’s and Mary’s personality and values, and other times because a woman is not as accepted or respected in the old employment. And, of course, sometimes the prejudice of the employer leads to a loss of job. But, I have found that prejudice is the least common reason for job change if the transition is done correctly on all levels — emotional and psychological as well as physical. In fact, over the last few years, I have experienced very few negative reactions from employers, family and friends towards my transitioning gender clients. So few that I have began to feel that most negative reactions stem from gender folks not being given good help during transition rather than the transition itself. The exceptions to this rule are often spouses and best friends, because in both cases, the very basis of the relationship are often threatened by transitioning.

There is a global need for all gender folk, whether CD, TV, TS or TG to transition, although the road taken and the distance traveled may vary greatly from individual to individual. Transitioning is much more than a physical/superficial journey. And transitioning in itself is not psychotherapy but a rebirth of an individual long buried under the layers of society’s imposed expectations. Like all births, it can be long, difficult, very painful and full of doubts at times. But who can deny the joy and expectation of a new life, a new beginning, even if the death of the old is needed to give room for the birth of the new?


Thursday, July 19th 2007 - 07:54:29 PM Name: memee Subject: some info i found online Homepage URL: http://http://www.metrokc.gov/health/glbt/transmedical.htm
What are hormones?


Hormones are the chemical messengers of the body, manufactured and controlled by the endocrine system. There are many different hormones with many different functions in the body, from water retention to controlling blood-glucose levels to instigating secondary sexual characteristics such as breast and beard growth.

The hormones that are of particular concern for transsexual people are estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone. Proportionally, biologic females have more estrogen and progesterone than males; biologic males have more testosterone.

What are the effects of cross-sex hormone therapy?


The following effects have been observed in varying degrees with extended cross-sex hormone treatment. With effective and continuous dosages, most of these changes will start with the very first administration of hormones and will be mostly completed within 2-5 years. Genetic factors limit tissue response to hormone therapy, so individual results will vary.

A physician must carefully monitor hormone dosage --increasing dosage beyond a certain point will not increase the effects and could result in illness.

FTMs taking testosterone can realistically expect the following effects:

a permanent deepening of the voice, though not necessarily all the way down to an average male frequency
decreased fertility--menstrual cycles becomes irregular and eventually stop
permanent clitoral enlargement
mild breast atrophy (but not substantial reduction in size)
increased upper body strength with exercise
male-pattern facial and body hair growth
male-pattern baldness
increased sexual interest and arousal
redistribution of fat from hip toward waist
Some of these changes are reversible if hormones therapy is ended. Others, such as facial hair and voice deepening, are not.

MTFs taking estrogen therapy can realistically expect the following effects:

breast growth
some redistribution of body fat to approximate a female body shape
decreased upper body strength
softening of skin
decrease in body hair
slowing or stopping the loss of scalp hair
decreased fertility and testicular size
less frequent, less firm erections
Some of these changes are reversible if hormones therapy is ended. Others, such as breast growth, are not.

What are potential side effects of hormone treatment in transsexuals?


Side effects in FTMs treated with testosterone may include:

infertility
acne
increased emotional sensitivity and/or instability
increases in sexual desire
shift of lipid profiles to male patterns which increase cholesterol and the risk of cardiovascular disease
the potential to develop benign and malignant liver tumors and liver dysfunction
Side effects in MTFs treated with estrogens may include:

increased propensity to blood clotting (venous thrombosis with a risk of fatal pulmonary embolism)
development of benign pituitary tumors
infertility
weight gain
increased emotional sensitivity and/or instability
liver disease
Some patients may not be able to tolerate cross-sex hormones. Patients with existing medical problems may be more likely to experience serious or fatal consequences of cross-sex hormonal treatments. For example, cigarette smoking, obesity, advanced age, heart disease, high blood pressure, blood clotting abnormalities, cancer, and some endocrine (hormonal) abnormalities increase the health risks for the use of hormonal treatment. A patient and his or her physician must decide together whether the risks of hormone therapy are worth the benefit.

How can the intended effects of hormone therapy be maximized and the dangers minimized?


> Examinations

Check for existing medical problems before starting hormone treatment. People with existing medical problems may be more likely to experience serious or fatal consequences of cross-sex hormonal treatments. Before starting hormone therapy, get a complete physical examination. Your doctor may perform laboratory tests for liver function, electrolytes, lipids (cholesterol), prolactin, blood sugar, and estrogen and androgen levels. It may also be useful to monitor your skeletal health by measuring bone density, especially if you are more than 40 years old.


Have liver function checks regularly and keep alcohol intake low. Testosterone and estrogens can, in rare cases, interfere with liver function and stimulate various kinds of liver tumors and cysts, especially if alcohol, drug use, or infection already weakens the liver. Reduce alcohol and other drug intake. Repeat liver function tests as recommended by your physician.
> Hormone dosage

Start gradually. Do not start taking the maximum planned dosage of hormones at once. Your health care provider will use guidelines to determine an appropriate low starting dose. Watch for possible side effects and give the body time to adjust. If there are no problems after 1-2 months, you and your health care provider may increase the dosage to the planned level.


Use appropriate dosages. Use the lowest hormone dose that gives the desired changes. Not everyone needs the same dose, because of differences in body weight and genetically determined sensitivity to hormones. A physician must carefully monitor hormone dosage. Increasing dosage beyond a certain point will not increase desirable effects and could result in illness.

High doses of hormones for an extended period of time increase the risk of health consequences. It is usually not advisable to take pre-operative dosages of female or male hormones indefinitely. If you are able to have surgery to remove your hormone-producing organs (ovaries or testicles) you will be able to reduce the dosage of hormones you take to a safer level. In general, the lower the hormone dosage you can use for lifetime maintenance, the better.

Thursday, July 19th 2007 - 07:51:41 PM Name: Rebecca A. Allison, MD Interventional Cardiologist, Phoenix, Arizona Subject: Board of Directors, Gay and Lesbian Medical Association Homepage URL: http://http://www.glma.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=Page.viewPage&pageID=692
TEN THINGS TRANSGENDER PERSONS SHOULD DISCUSS WITH THEIR HEALTH CARE PROVIDERS



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Following are the health issues GLMA’s healthcare providers have identified as most commonly of concern for transgender persons. While not all of these items apply to everyone, it’s wise to be aware of these issues.

1. Access to Health Care
Transgender persons are often reluctant to seek medical care through a traditional provider-patient relationship. Some are even turned away by providers. A doctor who refuses to treat a trans person may be acting out of fear and transphobia, or may have a religious bias against GLBT patients. It’s also possible that the doctor simply doesn’t have the knowledge or experience he needs. Furthermore, health care related to transgender issues is usually not covered by insurance, so it is more expensive. Whatever the reasons, transgender people have sometimes become very ill because they were afraid to visit their providers.

2. Health History
Trans persons may hide important details of their health history from their doctors. Perhaps they fear being denied care if their history is known. Even many years after surgery, they may omit the history of their transition when seeing a new provider. Patients should see their provider as an equal partner in their health care, not as a gatekeeper or an obstacle to be overcome.

3. Hormones
Cross-gender hormone therapy gives desirable feminizing (or masculinizing) effects, but carries its own unique risks. Estrogen has the potential to increase the risk of blood clotting, high blood pressure, elevated blood sugar and water retention. Anti-androgens such as spironolactone can produce dehydration, low blood pressure, and electrolyte disturbances. Testosterone, especially when given orally or in high doses, carries the risk of liver damage. Hormone use should be appropriately monitored by the patient and provider. Some trans people tend to obtain hormones and other treatment through indirect means, bypassing the health care system. Taking hormones without supervision can result in doses too high or too low, with undesired results.

4. Cardiovascular Health
Trans persons may be at increased risk for heart attack or stroke, not only from hormone use but from cigarette smoking, obesity, hypertension, and failure to monitor cardiovascular risks. Trans women may fear that a provider who finds them at risk for cardiovascular disease will instruct them to stop their hormones, and so they do not seek medical attention even when they have early warning signs of heart disease or stroke.

5. Cancer
Hormone-related cancer (breast in trans women, liver in women or men) is very rare but should be included in health screening. A greater worry is cancer of the reproductive organs. Trans men who have not had removal of the uterus, ovaries, or breasts are still at risk to develop cancer of these organs. Trans women remain at risk, although low, for cancer of the prostate. Furthermore, some providers are uncomfortable with treating such cancers in trans people. Some cases have been reported in which persons delay seeking treatment, or are refused treatment, until the cancer has spread.

6. STDs and Safe Sex
Trans people, especially youth, may be rejected by their families and find themselves homeless. They may be forced into sex work to make a living, and therefore at high risk for STDs including HIV. Other trans people may practice unsafe sex when they are beginning to experience sexuality in their desired gender. Safe sex is still possible even in transgender relationships.

7. Alcohol and Tobacco
Alcohol abuse is common in transgender people who experience family and social rejection, and the depression which accompanies such rejection. Alcohol combined with sex hormone administration increases the risk of liver damage. Tobacco use is high among all trans persons, especially those who use tobacco to maintain weight loss. Risks of heart attack and stroke are increased in persons who smoke tobacco and take estrogen or testosterone.

8. Depression/Anxiety
For many reasons, trans people are particularly prone to depression and anxiety. In addition to loss of family and friends, they face job stress and the risk of unemployment. Trans people who have not transitioned and remain in their birth gender are very prone to depression and anxiety. Suicide is a risk, both prior to transition and afterward. One of the most important aspects of the transgender therapy relationship is management of depression and/or anxiety.

9. Injectable Silicone
Some trans women want physical feminization without having to wait for the effects of estrogen. They expect injectable silicone to give them “instant curves.” The silicone, often administered at “pumping parties” by non-medical persons, may migrate in the tissues and cause disfigurement years later. It is usually not medical grade, may contain many contaminants, and is often injected using a shared needle. Hepatitis may be spread through use of such needles.

10. Fitness (Diet & Exercise)
Many trans people are sedentary and overweight. Exercise is not a priority, and they may be working long hours to support their transitions. A healthy diet and a frequent exercise routine are just as important for trans persons as for the public. Exercise prior to sex reassignment surgery will reduce a person’s operative risk and promote faster recovery.



Thursday, July 19th 2007 - 07:41:34 PM Name: memee Subject: LOVE Homepage URL: http://www.memee.com.br
Hi!! i'm from brazil! i'm a 13 y.o crossdresser
love the place!

Tuesday, July 17th 2007 - 09:32:25 PM Name: terry Subject: dress
i love to dress and ilove to go out i allways end up sucking a cock i love to swallow

Tuesday, July 10th 2007 - 01:25:40 PM Name: Krista Subject: Crossdressing son E-mail address: kristacd28@yahoo.com
I would go ahead and buy him his own panties and make sure you let him know its ok and he can talk with you if he needs to. I would surprise him by folding the new panties in his drawer with his other unerwear, or surprise him after his bath or shower, if you lay out his clothes. About the toothbrush: he may have been exploring his body, I wouldnt worry about it yet. Feel free to contact me if you want to talk about it.

Saturday, June 30th 2007 - 11:39:03 PM Name: Michelle Subject: 8 year old son E-mail address: mlakatosh@verizon.net
Hello everyone. I am a parent of an eight year old boy who has been just recently taking my panties and wearing them to "play with". He has also been having alot of "accidents" with his bowel movements and I found a toothbrush with poo on it. I told him that I would get him his own panties to wear, but I don't know if that is the right thing to do. In all your experiences growing up with this issue, would it have been easier for you to have support at the beginning? Also, does being a cross dresser mean also mean that you are a homosexual? If he did indeed put the toothbrush in his rectum, is that a sign that he is homosexual? I just want to be able to help him through this and I hope that some of you could help point me in the right direction.
Thanks so much,
Michelle

Sunday, June 10th 2007 - 01:08:35 PM Name: Ryan Subject: ME
Hey im ryan and i love to crossdress i love panties and really mini skirts im 12 and have been crossdressing on and off for many years. When parents arent home i steal my moms pads and tampons. i love carefree pads

Sunday, June 10th 2007 - 08:41:03 AM Name: Ryan Subject: pads and tampons
how to use carefree pads and tampons help

Monday, June 4th 2007 - 07:42:12 PM Name: bob Subject: hey E-mail address: lovaduvboy05@yahoo.com
hi, im 18 and ive been crossdressing since i was 8. i finaly found a place were i can share my secret and feel that im noy the only one

Monday, June 4th 2007 - 03:15:30 PM Name: Amber Subject: got my pics here (: E-mail address: blackpinkgal@hotmail.com
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Monday, June 4th 2007 - 12:34:52 PM Name: Amber Subject: make up help E-mail address: blackpinkgal@hotmail.com
Hmm.. not that much people here huh??
But ii need help on some make up like eyeliner how can you take it off fast? And hide your you know what.. Email me alright laters girls.


Sunday, June 3rd 2007 - 08:47:02 PM Name: Amber N. Subject: My story of being a crossdresser E-mail address: blackpinkgal@hotmail.com
Well im 14 turning 15 this september.My female name is Amber. I am not gay I am straigh.But i love dressing up like a girl.I dress like one when my family are not here and i left alone in my house.When there not here i like to dress in gstrings,lingerie,and other things i enjoy but some are pink!I use eyeliner,and pink blush, and of course pink lipstick :)! I love girls so that makes me a lesbian :P.
On a normal day like school and stuff im a guy,couse im scared and I dont whant people too know my secreat. But when im alone well you get it. But when i dress like a female i fell like thats the real me, and i think im doing it with a other girl (when it turns me on baby).Me Lesbian!. I try sometimes to dress like an emogirl because that makes me look more female with my face and boddy. But i also were my moms clothing like ,thongs,and linguerie! And when i wear my older sister stuff is like a black skirts or other skirts!Shoes well my moms heels.Yes i kinda know how to use them.
tops well i use tops that i can find :P!
So im a crossdresser and i love it because deep inside me im female,and a female that likes other females lol.
And ill try to put some pics of me in emogirl :).
But need to wait till parents and family leaves the house!
And im here to talk to you becasue you girls are the only ones that i can talk to about my secreat.No one knows about this but you girls do! So i can fell that im not the only one.So you can be my friends and stuff! And shh wana know something i masturbate when im a girl and thinking i am doing it with a other one!And finger my self you know were.But shh!
I MAY have a surgery but i dont know because i like being a guy too and dont wana loose my friends or family.
Well talk to me later gals. Muah! and email me! (yup its my female side email!) Love you!and i think i need female clothes that i really like but cant get some sad it is.


Monday, May 28th 2007 - 09:43:55 AM Name: Georgina Subject: Hi Gals
Hi all u you girls, im 18 and i have been crossdressing since i was 14 and now feel i have to tell some one what shall i do???

Friday, May 25th 2007 - 03:22:01 PM Name: louise Subject: Im A New Comer
Hello girls mwah, right here we go im 16 and crossdress as much as i can, now listen im NOT gay i am a woman (well inside) when i turn 18 i will be having a sex change operation. When i first realised i wanted to be a woman was one time i was out all night watching my friend (who is gay) getting pissed and we went to my house, he was all flirting with me and he starting to kiss me, i strangly got turned on and went into my c.d collection and started to dress-up, just as i was doing my make-up he walked in my room naked, i dropped the lip-gloss and got to my knees and started to satisfy him, he ran his fingers in my hair and got me to my feet, he layed me on the bed and started to kiss me more whilst rubbing vaseline on me and then slipped his penis in me at first it felt weird but then i loved it and now me and him always have days like this. I want to tell my family and friends but i never seem to be able to help xxx

Friday, May 25th 2007 - 02:42:21 PM Name: Jade Subject: Me E-mail address: N/A
o.k im new on here i am sooo interested in all your stories, o.k im 16 and love crossdressing i've been doing it for about 2 years now and i've well gone passed just crossdressing. I once went to my ex girlfriends party a few months ago and met this gay guy who was soooo hot and i never felt this way before, so i invited him into my ex's room and dressed in her clothes and starting flirting with him and before i new it he lifted my skirt bent me over her bed and started doing me (which really hurt) but i searched inside myself and starting enjoying it and i then starting to give him head and let him cum over my ass. My ex didnt find out but i think i need to tell someone so what shall i do, please help!!!

Saturday, May 19th 2007 - 07:54:34 PM Name: Demonica Subject: ! E-mail address: gothic_mortal@sbcglobal.net Homepage URL: http://www.myspace.com/xamortex
I hoped I helped some of you with my speach. If I did, I'm very much happy...sorry it was so long

Saturday, May 19th 2007 - 04:39:58 AM Name: Demonica Subject: Follow Up
Sorry for some of the misspelling and length...What Can I say...I'm Compassionate!

Saturday, May 19th 2007 - 02:58:35 AM Name: Demonica Subject: Greetings E-mail address: gothic_mortal@sbcglobal.net Homepage URL: http://www.myspace.com/xamortex
Well, I don't know exactly where to start. I'm 18 years of age and after reading this page as far as it goes, I've noticed a few things. Whatever any of you decide about yourselfs. Don't let people discourage any of you into thinking you need help. Be yourselfs and whatever makes you happy. I may not be the sharpest knife in the drawer but I know a good amount about how it feels to fell like your the only one in this world like yourself. I've been into Crossdressing since I was about 10. It started one weird day at home. I had off of school and none of my friends were home so I just roamed the house looking for something to do. While walking past the bathroom I noticed my mother getting dressed for work. I wondered what it felt like to wear womens clothing. So after she left I decided to play dress up. I was never caught or anything, even till this day, and there is only a few select people that know, and I trust those people with my life. (back to the story) After I was all dressed up and makeup was on (as best as a 10 yr. old boy could do) I pranced around the house in my "new" clothes. Since that day I've been hooked. I know what its like to get pressured by your peers, and getting criticism about who you really are. Ive lived with people picking on me, picking fights just because of who I am. I sometimes go out as "Ginger", my girls name whome my girlfriend nicknamed me, and that is how I get critisized. People, just be yourselfs and, hell with anyone else. I used to wonder what was wrong with me, and I used to feel like some sort of parasite, but I learned to say to hell with people, as long as I'm happy thats all that matters. Sorry that I'm jumping around a bit in this post. Its 2:12 am and Im tired. I'm mainly typeing this for the people who say to seek help and that something is wrong with you. Dont listen to them. I'm also "gothic" and into just about any form of kinky sex that you can imagine so you can guess that I get alot of crap from people. I consider all TG, CD, and whatever else you may be, my friends. Because honestly, whome else do we have to turn to other than our own kind. And for the guy who posted awile back on S&M and how dangerous it is, "Dont bad-mouth something you know nothing about". I can't stress more, just dont listen to those ignorant, and feeble minded people, there just trying to discourage you on doing something that they know nothing about. If any of you want or need a friend to talk to on whatever ails you, physically, or emotionally, or just about anything thats under the sun, feel free to drop me an email and I'll get back to you. I'm starting to loose faith in myself and also need a friend to talk with. Just to clear this up, I am who I say I am, and I am my age! I'm also going through a crisis on my religious status with society. It's very hard to make them understand us. Although its fun to see their reactions when I'm in public dressed as a girl. I dont plan on having any sort of operation though. But the Idea has crossed my mind. I hope to hear from any of you. Remember: I'm always available to talk with any of you if you have problems. Being through so much in my life, I hope I can help any of you out with your problems. By the way, my real name is Robert. -I hope you all the best and happiness that one can posess-

Thursday, May 17th 2007 - 11:44:32 PM Name: Ashley Subject: girl's clothes E-mail address: ashley-christine.88@hotmail.com
hi, im ashley and im 12 yo, i like to dress in girls clothes since i was 9, have older sister, shes 14,so clothes always easy to get, looking for girlfriends to talk too. luv yu ashley

Thursday, May 17th 2007 - 10:58:07 AM Name: ashley Subject: sisters clothes E-mail address: ashley-christine.88@hotmail.com
hi, im 12 years old and have a siser who is 14, i used to borrow her clothes until she caught me, now she helps by giving me clothes she dosnt waer, she even let me hangout at her slumber party dressed in her old pjs.

Friday, May 11th 2007 - 07:00:48 AM Name: Viper581 Subject: A way to buy girls cloths E-mail address: viper581@msn.com
If you have a Bank account,get a check card and order your clothing on line. A check card can be used the same as a credit card.
Viper

Wednesday, May 2nd 2007 - 01:24:26 AM Name: Joanna Subject: Me E-mail address: N/A Homepage URL: http://N/A
Sorry in my last post i forgot to mension a little bit about myself. I am 14 and have been crossdressing for about 4 years but i need to know a place where i could get some more clothes without getting the look of of people. Plus some mak-up tips would be perfect. xxx

Tuesday, May 1st 2007 - 12:03:43 PM Name: Joanna Subject: Clothes E-mail address: James@Hotmail.co.uk Homepage URL: http://N/A
I forgot to mension in my last post im 14 and LOVE crossdressing but i'm sick of wearing my sis's clothes, do any of you know a place where i could get any and come on this website rocks keep posting. P.s any tips o how to put make-up on, i'm totally useless

Tuesday, May 1st 2007 - 11:52:27 AM Name: Joanna Subject: Tonya E-mail address: James@Hotmail.co.uk
Tonya, i am in the same situation as you i want to tell someone but find it too hard i dress up but when i try to put on make-up i mess it up lol my frien ds always say i'm feminine but pretend to be pissed off so they don't get any ideas

Monday, April 16th 2007 - 06:15:56 PM Name: Tiffani Subject: home alone E-mail address: mathman@neb.rr.com
Today, my mom went to the store for a big grocery run and my little sister was taking a nap, so I went upstairs and put on many of my mom's panties and bras and I took those off and put on some fishnet pantyhose and after I took that off I put on a white, lacy nightgown/lingerie and painted my toenails and put some makeup on and pretended to have sex with a boy. if anyone has any tips e-mail me

TTYL

Friday, April 6th 2007 - 05:19:34 PM Name: tonya Subject: cloths E-mail address: tonya@hotmail.com
hi my name is tonya i am a cd i want 2 b a girl i love wearin bras panties n make up so i look pretty i want 2 tell some1 but am scared wat should i do?

Tuesday, April 3rd 2007 - 10:19:46 PM Name: Tiffani Subject: misunderstanding E-mail address: mathman@neb.rr.com
when i said 'in the fremont nebraska area' i didn't mean just that area, so can anyone help with advice. the main xdressing thing I like to do is paint my toenails.

Tuesday, April 3rd 2007 - 10:14:38 PM Name: Tiffani Subject: misunderstanding E-mail address: mathman@neb.rr.com
when I said in the fremont nebraska area, i didn't mean just that area anyone can help

Sunday, April 1st 2007 - 10:11:41 PM Name: Tiffani Subject: typo E-mail address: mathman@neb.rr.com
sorry I didn't mean just the fremont area, anyone can give me advice

Tuesday, February 27th 2007 - 03:45:08 PM Name: mike80219 Subject: can anyone help me E-mail address: mike80219@usa.com
hi, just wondering if anyone in Denver can help me!! I am looking for someone to give me a makeover??

Sunday, February 18th 2007 - 09:24:20 PM Name: Tiffani Subject: need advice E-mail address: mathman@neb.rr.com
im 13 and I am a crossdresser secretly, but I need more clothes is there anyone in the fremont nebraska area that can help me with advice?

Saturday, January 13th 2007 - 03:32:35 PM Name: Dennis Subject: male to girl crossdresser E-mail address: Viperus3573@hotmail.com
Hello teengirls, i am a male a over 50 but under 60 and i love being a teengirl on a partime bases. if you would like to email me u can at Viperus3573@hotmail.com Regards, Mary Jo (Dennis)

Friday, December 29th 2006 - 01:17:01 AM Name: Ryan Subject: Help E-mail address: fire_soldier413@hotmail.com
I am 12 and I want to be a cross dresser but i dont know where to start(panties etc). Please E-mail me!

Tuesday, December 19th 2006 - 03:26:30 PM Name: Patrick Subject: Cross dressing E-mail address: george.carty@navy.mil
I am a male who cross dresses regulary. last weekend a male friend who knows my secret asked me to dress up as Michelle and go to the mall with him. when we returned home he asked for oral he said thats what girls do! what should i do in this case.? any body can e mail me....

Monday, November 20th 2006 - 10:12:36 PM Name: patrick Subject: want to meet a cross dresser E-mail address: patrick.tracy@aegisliving.com
I want to a cross dresser to pop my cheery. can you help?

Friday, November 17th 2006 - 08:25:57 PM Name: linda Subject: help E-mail address: t.birdy23434@hotmail.com Homepage URL: http://none
i need help! i want to have sex but the law won't let me! i am 11 and don't know how to tell parents. i just want to have sex even though i am only 11. i need help!


must have sex i dream about it! plz respond!


Tuesday, September 26th 2006 - 05:07:09 AM Name: Michael Subject: Sexchange E-mail address: tel855516@yahoo.com
Hi!
I see I´m not alone wanting to be woman.
I am one now (12 years ago I mad a sexchange mtf).
I will tell you all it´s painfull but I dont regret it for one second.
But ( isn´t it always a but, lol) as boy around 5 I was playing you know cops and robbers and since we never had any girls on our sreet I had tp be the one to be the girl whome needed resueing. I always felt better when i was dressed as a girl. Also tied me up well needlesly to say that where the things that felt right for me. And now I live in London with a qute girl and a qute man and I will the rest to your dirty minds to figure it out. lol
Good luck to you all

Wednesday, September 13th 2006 - 03:34:12 PM Name: Kayla Subject: Email Correction E-mail address: kaylaherrera84@yahoo.com
Hi its me again.. i just noticed that I had mispelled my email address.. if anyone would like to contact me this is my correct address: kaylaherrera84@yahoo.com

Tuesday, September 12th 2006 - 10:59:55 PM Name: Suzy Subject: Dress-Up E-mail address: stucomone@aol.com
Hi -- I'm 16 and have been dressing up as a girl for fun since I was maybe four or five. First time for me was when my sisters put a dress on me as a joke when I was a small boy and they were in charge of me. Mom thought it was funny.
It happened again and again. At first I didn't like it, but I got used to it and began to want to do it more. Almost every Halloween, my sisters help me choose a girl's outfit and fix me up and take me out for trick or treating as a girl. I am slender and short for a boy and can wear a lot of my sisters' clothes. This past year I've started wondering if I should just be a girl for good. They call me Suzy and everyone thinks I would make a good girl.

Tuesday, September 12th 2006 - 01:05:43 PM Name: Kayla Subject: Making Freinds..XOXO E-mail address: kaylaherra84@yahoo.com
Hi, all.
Wow.. this website is very helpful and i am so happy to read about many of the experiences.
I just turn 22 and i have been a closet cd since about 10 as far as i can remember and many fo the experiences i have read so far hit close to home since i have also gone through them.. i have struggled for so long to keep this a secret because i know it would devestate my mom and i would never want to hurt her.. till this very day i have never found another friend to share my cd'ing with or play dressup with which has made me sad.. sometimes even though i have reached certain maturity i still feel lonely because i cannot express myself with a friend.. i always used to fantazise about having a pajama party with some girlfriends and be ourselves talking about our diffilcuties and our hardships as well as our good days.. I currently live in chicago and in a last attempt to make some friends i say to anyone in you live near.. can we be friends?.. share our stories?... support each other and have fun?
I would also love to chat if anyone is interested you can add me or send me an email..

Mi IM is: kaylaherrera84@yahoo.com

Well i hope to hear from someone soon.. take care ladies and maybe someday we will wake up as what our hearts most desire.. to be.

Thursday, September 7th 2006 - 09:54:48 PM Name: jack Subject: how to fuck my teacher im female cloths E-mail address: ajsfrend@aim.com
i need help with dressing as a women . I wpuld like to be one i feel so lonely out there please tell me how to be a women

Friday, September 1st 2006 - 01:11:09 PM Name: Alana Subject: Going out in public E-mail address: acully1010@yahoo.com
Hi All,

I had the occasion to dress openly in high school (as a cheerleader for a powderpuff football game). What a rush, while the other guys tried to make a mockery out of it, I tried my best to look good. Several people commented on my shapely, pantyhose-clad legs.

I few months later, some of the school's real cheerleaders asked me to go with them to a mall (in a neighboring city). I gladly went, but they said if I went, I'd have to wear girl jeans with hose, wedge sandals, painted toenails, and make-up. Needless to say, I didn't let that stop me. It was an awesome experience to be out and about with the popular girls of the school. The best part: a lot of positive comments and not one negative! (I did get some strange looks though.) I want to take it a step further next time and go wearing a dress, wig, and heels.


Sunday, August 13th 2006 - 09:52:59 PM Name: kelly Subject: Need tips E-mail address: kscaf16@yahoo.com
Im 13 and make up tips ect plz help me.Email me at kscaf16@yahoo.com. P.s. does any one else just love tutus

Wednesday, August 2nd 2006 - 09:38:23 AM Name: Carly Subject: problem E-mail address: Kcal91@hotmail.com
im 15 ive been crossdressing since i was ten but i dont no how to tell me mum or dad

Friday, July 28th 2006 - 02:15:05 AM Name: Nick Subject: Transvestite E-mail address: bowlergcm@yahoo.com
Hey All!!!

I've been a transvestite since I was 18. I need more advice on what to wear. And is it ok If I try women's clothes on in the women's dressing rooms. Need more help!!!!!!!!!!!

Tuesday, July 11th 2006 - 12:43:44 PM Name: heidi Subject: maxi-pads and tampons
i been crossdressing since i was 7 i stared wearing my sister clothes.She was the same size as me so she let me.So she let me wear her undes and dresses and her bathensuit in the summer.my mom fond out and did not mide it. When i was 10 years old my mother made me wear her usded maxi-pads.Wich i love so much.It felt like i was a girl.Now i wear my sister used maxi-pads to and when i go to the girls room i will take the used maxi-pads and wear them to.So iam wearing used maxipads all the time.All so i like to wear tampons i like to wear playtexs gentle glide super plus and tampaxs pearls super plus.

Tuesday, July 11th 2006 - 12:41:59 PM Name: heidi Subject: maxi-pads and tampons
i been crossdressing since i was 7 i stared wearing my sister clothes.She was the same size as me so she let me.So she let me wear her undes and dresses and her bathensuit in the summer.my mom fond out and did not mide it. When i was 10 years old my mother made me wear her usded maxi-pads.Wich i love so much.It felt like i was a girl.Now i wear my sister used maxi-pads to and when i go to the girls room i will take the used maxi-pads and wear them to.So iam wearing used maxipads all the time.All so i like to wear tampons i like to wear playtexs gentle glide super plus and tampaxs pearls super plus.

Monday, June 19th 2006 - 10:21:30 PM Name: Droogie Subject: add me E-mail address: Droogie_Cabes16@hotmail.com
Melissa add me Droogie_Cabes16@hotmail.com

Monday, June 19th 2006 - 07:08:56 AM Name: Mya Subject: Out with it
I have been wearing panties and thongs since I was 11 and I am just now starting togo out in public wearing tight jeans and everything else I am nine teen almost 20

Wednesday, June 14th 2006 - 06:02:31 PM Name: Melissa Subject: where is everybody?
How come one person posts and never comes back?

Monday, June 12th 2006 - 12:32:54 PM Name: Droogie Subject: hi E-mail address: Droogie_Cabes@hotmail.com
hello I'm new here just wanted to say hi and I want to chat with people who will understand what im going through anyways add me if you want.

Tuesday, June 6th 2006 - 03:30:46 PM Name: Melissa Subject: Hi
Hello my name is melissa and I am 17 years old and I have been living as a girl since I was 13. I told my parents that I wanted to be a girl and they supported me. I took hormones and I went to a differnt school as a girl. They got me breat implants when I was 14 and now I am blonde,5'5,and I'm on the cheerleading team. I gave my BF a blow job but I wont let him get to 3rd base. Since I'm a c-cup and I have a cute face and great legs guys at my school always flirt with me.

Thursday, April 6th 2006 - 02:06:19 PM Name: Call me Kim Subject: About me E-mail address: NONE Homepage URL: http://NONE
Hey GURLS!
I am 16 almost 17 and i have been Cross Dressing for 6 years. I would wear my moms and sisters panties, bras, pads, clothes, ect...
I have even went into public dressed as a girl. I use the girls bathroom at the store and st school. I was even caught leaving the girls restroom at our Walmart by a guy from our school. At first I did not care but then after a few sec. of staring him right in the face I started to cry and ran back into the bathroom stall. But now I LOVE being a girl :) I use my dildo all the time with the help of my mussle man BF ;) and some day I want to get married to that hunk! Well got to go
TTYL GURLS!!!

Friday, March 31st 2006 - 12:20:26 AM Name: MICHELLE Subject: bountiful breast Homepage URL: http://www.bountifulbreast.com/testimonials-male.html
Hi trangendered young men do you really want to make the switch permantly one pill will give you breasts a waistline and hips and legs and it will also grow hair longer and thicker and after you`re done with the program you can use the little girls bathroom after all you will be a sexy that sexy girl that your mom wanted..

Wednesday, March 29th 2006 - 10:45:26 PM Name: sexypanties4me Subject: being more of a girl E-mail address: calvary_custompc@yahoo.com
Hi all I'm wanting to meet some cd friends like me. Holla at me.

Monday, March 27th 2006 - 04:05:27 PM Name: Victoria Subject: Lingerie E-mail address: MBTYKLDW10013042@yahoo.com
Love reading all your stories. I need some advice i am 15 Ive been a cd for 8 years but i cant find any sexy clothing how do you all get your clothing.


Id like to also get some cd friends.. Email me

Monday, March 27th 2006 - 11:49:25 AM Name: Jessica Subject: Hi ladies
Hey girls ive been a crossdresser since I was eleven. I love dressing up as a girl.

Wednesday, March 22nd 2006 - 12:47:24 AM Name: gboyrofl Subject: me too! E-mail address: gboyrofl@yahoo.com
Hey girls
I know how the last few post'ers feel! I love the feminine feeling associated with using tampons/pads. If anyone would like to chat sometime hit me up at gboyrofl@yahoo.com!

Friday, January 27th 2006 - 01:58:28 AM Name: mjs Subject: hello
Hello.. im just wondering if any one has phobia105's photos

Monday, December 26th 2005 - 09:19:27 PM Name: claire Subject: xdressing E-mail address: macisaacs2@aol.com
hi everyone am a 30y male who has been xd since i was 13 it started after seeing my sis in law in her underwear when i was left alone in the house i would go to her room heart pounding from my chest and select silk pants tights skirt bra and blouse and slip them on and insert a tampon to act like a girl then i was seen by a friend but thats another story

Friday, December 23rd 2005 - 10:15:12 PM Name: Tiffany Subject: one of us E-mail address: Damiscinos@techemail.com
hey Gurls im new here im a 17 almost 18 yearold male cd i started to wear girls clothes at age 13 and loved it ever since. my faves are panties thongs bras and mini skirts. i usually am boy during school but when i get home i dress as a gurl i almost steal me clothes from cousins cuz im too sissy to buy them, i just dont want ne body to find out they r 4 me. ive recently been trying to use tampons and my fave is tampax pearl well gtg email me at Damiscinos@techemail.com l8ter gurlfreinds.

Wednesday, December 21st 2005 - 10:51:45 PM Name: Casey Subject: Me
Im a 14 year old boy and i love to dress up in girls thongs sometimes i "borrow" from my sister or one time i snuck in my cousins house while they werent home and i stole some of hers she has a bunch and i dont think she will even notice they are gone

Wednesday, December 21st 2005 - 02:43:01 PM Name: logan or megan Subject: crossdresser
Hey!!!! I am a crossdresser from texas i love to were female clothes. I were my moms clothes on the weekends. I want to come out but i am to scared to. I hope to have a sexchange someday to well got to go!!!!!!

Wednesday, December 21st 2005 - 02:43:06 PM Name: logan or megan Subject: crossdresser
Hey!!!! I am a crossdresser from texas i love to were female clothes. I were my moms clothes on the weekends. I want to come out but i am to scared to. I hope to have a sexchange someday to well got to go!!!!!!

Wednesday, November 16th 2005 - 11:45:29 PM Name: JESSICA SANCHEZ Subject: IN THE CLOST E-mail address: WWW.HOT GIRL 16 @YAHOO.COM
HEY GIRLZ HOWZ IT GOIN I JUST WANTED TO SAY THAT I AM SO GLAD THAT THERE ARE OTHER SISSIES LIKE ME OUT IN THIS WORLD.
I AM A VERY PRETTY HISPANIC "GIRL WHO LOVES TO DANCE A LOT"
THE ONLY PROBLEM IS THAT NO ONE HAS A CLUE THAT I AM FEMININE BECAUSE I REALLY DONT ACT LIKE IT IN PUBLIC OR IN THE HOUSE. YET I ALWAYS GO AROUND SNEEKIN TO SEE WAT FEMININE GIRL CLOTHS I COULD FIND AROUND THE HOUSE. I HAVE BEEN A LIL PRETTY GIRL EVER SINCE I WAS A LIL BOY. A LOT OF PEOPLE HAVE TOLD ME THAT I LOOK LIKE A GIRL SOMETIMES. I AM GROWING OUT MY HAIR TOO LOOK MORE FEMININE BUT EVERYONE JUST THINKS IM DOIN IT SO I COULD LOOK MORE HIP HOP.
WELL SEE U LATERZ GILS PLEASE HOLLA BACK

Wednesday, November 16th 2005 - 11:44:14 PM Name: JESSICA SANCHEZ Subject: IN THE CLOST E-mail address: WWW.HOT GIRL 16 @YAHOO.COM
HEY GIRLZ HOWZ IT GOIN I JUST WANTED TO SAY THAT I AM SO GLAD THAT THERE ARE OTHER SISSIES LIKE ME OUT IN THIS WORLD.
I AM A VERY PRETTY HISPANIC "GIRL WHO LOVES TO DANCE A LOT"
THE ONLY PROBLEM IS THAT NO ONE HAS A CLUE THAT I AM FEMININE BECAUSE I REALLY DONT ACT LIKE IT IN PUBLIC OR IN THE HOUSE. YET I ALWAYS GO AROUND SNEEKIN TO SEE WAT FEMININE GIRL CLOTHS I COULD FIND AROUND THE HOUSE. I HAVE BEEN A LIL PRETTY GIRL EVER SINCE I WAS A LIL BOY. A LOT OF PEOPLE HAVE TOLD ME THAT I LOOK LIKE A GIRL SOMETIMES. I AM GROWING OUT MY HAIR TOO LOOK MORE FEMININE BUT EVERYONE JUST THINKS IM DOIN IT SO I COULD LOOK MORE HIP HOP.
WELL SEE U LATERZ GILS PLEASE HOLLA BACK

Sunday, November 6th 2005 - 10:11:48 PM Name: jessica rodriguez Subject: too sexy E-mail address: none
hey girrlz

Tuesday, September 20th 2005 - 03:56:31 PM Name: laura Subject: dressing E-mail address: laurag240@netscape.net
i absolutly love wearing women's clothes. Skirts, panties, and high heels are my favorite things to wear.I hope so day i can go out in public dressed as a girl. i am 17 and i live near boston are there any other crossdressers around?

Monday, September 12th 2005 - 10:13:05 AM Name: james Subject: sex
hi me again could i get this answer from a girl ill check back again tomorrow

Monday, September 12th 2005 - 10:09:30 AM Name: james Subject: sex
hi im a 13 year old boy i have a 4and a half inch penis i way 165 pounds (kinda fat) and want to have sex can anyone give me tips on how to this

Monday, September 5th 2005 - 06:17:41 PM Name: Bob Subject: kk
Hey Every One.

Monday, September 5th 2005 - 01:36:59 PM Name: Devin Subject: Yo
I Love My Sisters Panties And Pretending I'm A Girl In The Miror And Pretending To Have Sex With a Boy

Monday, September 5th 2005 - 01:29:43 PM Name: Bob Subject: hey
I Love Wearing Thongs That Are Silky And Feal Nice On My Balls If Anyone Can Tell Me Why Boys Touch My Balls All The Time Cause They No I Am A Boy.

Monday, September 5th 2005 - 01:28:00 PM Name: Bob Subject: Yes
Hey Again I Want To No How To Hide My Penis So No boys No That I Am A Boy.

Monday, September 5th 2005 - 12:35:03 PM Name: Devin Subject: Nice
Hey I Am 9 Years Old And I LoveTo Dress Up In Girls Cloths I Take My Sisters G strings And Put Them On And Go Out Side And Walk Around The Block Boys Look At Me And Lagh. Me And Me Friend Steal My Ssiter Panties And Play Around In Them It Is So Much Fun.

Sunday, September 4th 2005 - 10:25:54 PM Name: Bob Subject: Yay
I Love Going To School Now And Being A Girl Cause Then Boys Like Me. If Any One Nows How To Get Boys To Like Me Even More Plese Right.

Sunday, September 4th 2005 - 10:23:15 PM Name: Bob Subject: Fun
I Love Wearing little G-strings that are really tiny. At School Boys lift up My skirt and touch my balls and now i am starting to like it.this year at school i'm going to not wear panties and let boys realy touch my balls.

Sunday, September 4th 2005 - 09:50:08 PM Name: Bob Subject: I Like It
Hey I'm 13 Years old and I Love To dress up in womens cloths. When I Was 11 I stated to buy panties and now i take them from my mom and i get girls to give them to me.

Tuesday, August 2nd 2005 - 10:16:46 PM Name: Jennifer Subject: dressing up E-mail address: nevets2125@hotmail.com
Hey, I am 16 from Morganton. I have been dressing up for several years now and want to have a sex change whenever i get enough money. I usually wear my mothers clothes when she is out of the house, and i have had some friends give me clothes that I hide. I am not planning on telling my parents anytime soon because I know i would be homeless. I am looking for ways to get more clothes for my wardrobe and keep them safe from discovery, but haven't found a way yet. Any suggestions will be appreciated. I am also going to the Renaissance festival this year as a wench. I need some tips on applying makeup and giving myself a feminine look. E-mail if u wanna help.

Friday, March 11th 2005 - 12:04:40 PM Name: Billi Subject: plz post E-mail address: billiz12@yahoo.com
I hope we "gurls" will start posting more on this site. It really is good.


I'd like to chat with some other young CDs

or maybe a bf.

Chat soon?


Billi


Monday, March 7th 2005 - 12:30:24 PM Name: Billi Subject: Hi, Em E-mail address: billiz12@yahoo.com
Hi, Emily
I hope you get this posting. Doesn't seem like this site is visited very often anymore.


I play with a butt plug, almost every day. I change from my boy clothes to panties (I especially like Tommy Girl) and wear my plug. I take care of my elderly Mom, and she would freak if I went all the way.


Do you have any problem yet with hair removal? Damn,
epilating my "pussy" is hell! lol


Hope to hear from you.


Billi


Monday, March 7th 2005 - 12:29:06 PM Name: Billi Subject: Hi, Em E-mail address: billiz12@yahoo.com
Hi, Emily
I hope you get this posting. Doesn't seem like this site is visited very often anymore.


I play with a butt plug, almost every day. I change from my boy clothes to panties (I especially like Tommy Girl) and wear my plug. I take care of my elderly Mom, and she would freak if I went all the way.


Do you have any problem yet with hair removal? Damn,
epilating my "pussy" is hell! lol


Hope to hear from you.


Billi


Monday, March 7th 2005 - 12:27:21 PM Name: Billi Subject: Hi, Em E-mail address: billiz12@yahoo.com
Hi, Emily
I hope you get this posting. Doesn't seem like this site is visited very often anymore.


I play with a butt plug, almost every day. I change from my boy clothes to panties (I especially like Tommy Girl) and wear my plug. I take care of my elderly Mom, and she would freak if I went all the way.


Do you have any problem yet with hair removal? Damn,
epilating my "pussy" is hell! lol


Friday, January 28th 2005 - 10:53:31 PM Name: emily Subject: toys
have ne of u ever used a dildo or sothemthing like it
did u like it jus curious by the way im 15

Thursday, January 27th 2005 - 05:02:23 PM Name: emily Subject: post !
i jus found this site nd realized no 1 has posted in like 4 months

lets start posting again people tips comments Q's ne thing


Sunday, October 24th 2004 - 04:54:25 PM Name: Dave Subject: Hello girls E-mail address: romjock@aol.com
I stumbled on this page...and WOW very kewl !!!!!!!

I am a jock boi that likes feminine boys.

I am in So California....

I love to find some friends.....

Dave
romjock@aol.com

Saturday, October 9th 2004 - 09:07:28 AM Name: Jeremy Subject: Young Cross Dressers E-mail address: phobia1980@hotmail.com Homepage URL: http://community.webshots.com/user/phobia105
I guess I don't really qualify as being a "teen" here on this board. In fact I'm much older. I just wanted to say how lucky you people are because today you have a thing called the Internet. I didn't have such a luxury when I started dressing up like a girl at age 9. I am not a full fleged cross dresser today nor a TG, a TV or anything else you want to call it. What I do like are pictures of young boys dressed like girls with short haircuts so you can see that they are boys. I guess the only way I can describe myself is that growing up I was a faggot. A boy who wanted to wear girls clothes and shoes but doesn't really want to be a girl. Please have a look at my homepage URL to see pictures of young boys who are sissy's. There is nothing pornographic on my site. Just young sissy boys.
I would love to hear from you...please take the time to e-mail me with your comments.

http://community.webshots.com/user/phobia105

Saturday, July 24th 2004 - 10:15:26 AM Name: Alexia Subject: What's up E-mail address: bonehead0006@yahoo.com Homepage URL: http://www.geocities.com/bonehead0006/haven
What's up everyone? Alexia iz my cd name, I'm 17 yrs old and looking for other cds 15-18 2 talk 2. If u want 2 talk 2 me, u can reach me at bonehead0006@yahoo.com, or on AIM at bonehead0006. I'll c u later! XOXO

Friday, July 16th 2004 - 12:04:10 PM Name: Bridgette Subject: Hi Guys E-mail address: bridgettechs2006@yahoo.com
hello

Wednesday, June 30th 2004 - 02:53:08 PM Name: Frankie Subject: I need tips E-mail address: Mattybeano@aol.com
i have been wearing girls clothes for some time now n i have just started to wear skirts. i love the way u can pull them up a bit n see your panties! i like to fully dress as a girl now it feels great. i want to be able to hide my features wen whereing girls clothes so i can go out in these clothes n been seen as a regular girl. How can i hide my male features/ plz email me i need help asap

Wednesday, June 30th 2004 - 02:52:34 PM Name: Frankie Subject: I need tips E-mail address: Mattybeano@aol.com
i have been wearing girls clothes for some time now n i have just started to wear skirts. i love the way u can pull them up a bit n see your panties! i like to fully dress as a girl now it feels great. i want to be able to hide my features wen whereing girls clothes so i can go out in these clothes n been seen as a regular girl. How can i hide my male features/ plz email me i need help asap

Monday, May 17th 2004 - 04:46:17 PM Name: jesica Subject: i love it E-mail address: sk8@yahoo.com
I just started cross dressing.It felt wrong at first but well i didnt want to say this but i would get very horny.Thats what started me in crossdressing.I just do it in the bathroom with my brothers clothes. I like the way i look in boys close i imagine having sex with the boy in the mirror.Who is actualy a girl me. But i still have my verginity and will save it

Sunday, May 9th 2004 - 07:07:07 AM Name: kelli sue Subject: crossdressing E-mail address: beaner63@peoplepc.com
beth
well were do i start. ok when i was 12 i lost my mom n she told me befor she past to be my self so i did i use to wear my sisters bikini in the summer n loved it. then it got to the point i found a cute girl that lived next to me that found out that i wore girls clothing n she helped me out by buying me my underclothes then when we departed she went to college n i went to the military we lost contact with each other. but since i been out of the military i got back to whom i use to be so please think about how you want your life befor doing anything crossdressering is fun but very hard to walk away from it taunts you always.

Sunday, April 25th 2004 - 01:36:13 AM Name: Beth Subject: Hello Agains E-mail address: Beth2004gurl@aol.com Homepage URL: http://ai.eecs.umich.edu/people/conway/TSsuccesses/TSsuccesses.html

Hrm, it's late. Wow, somone actually posted after me. But no one has written to me ?? I am 12, but will be 13 this summer. I've searched all over the web, but have not found that many good sites for us teens. A lot of the sites are BAD and not good IMHO. This site is kinda neat and not bad at all. I like it. The one I posted as Homepage URL this time. I like reading the Bios. I'm sleepy. So I will go for now. Write to me !!

Beth !! /hugs !!

Beth2004gurl@aol.com

Bye !!

Thursday, April 22nd 2004 - 03:52:02 PM Name: Sarah H Subject: Yall E-mail address: ssj12trunks@sailormoon.com
I see some 12 and 13 year olds here.
Yall dont know how lucky yall are to be so young,
I remember when I was that age (Almost 18 =(
Everything was so much easier just wanted to tell you to cherish thems times.
There are some advanteges to being older im about to move out and dont have to worrie bout me mum as much =)

And yall al gotta post more dernit.

Friday, April 16th 2004 - 04:01:20 PM Name: Beth Subject: Hello Again E-mail address: Beth2004gurl@aol.com Homepage URL: http://www.transproud.com
Hello again,
I just got home from school a while ago, and no one is home now so its fun time for me. I could not wait to get home, I decided to shave my legs again today. Much better look. I'm wearing a t~shirt, blue jean mini skirt, white hose, sandles. I painted my toenails, and did my make-up. Since I have a little time I did a full make-up and even fluffed up my hair.
Its getting warm and the girls are getting out their neat outfits. I was so envious today, I wish I had the nerve to wear this outfit to school on Monday. I'm sure everyone would freak, but it's near the end of the year. Girls just amaze me how they can just wear anything they want.
I wish I had the nerve to go out for a little walk around the neighborhood, but I'm afraid somone would see me. I'm such a chicken. What is so wrong about wanting to dress-up?
Bye !! /hugs Beth !!

Friday, April 16th 2004 - 02:26:48 AM Name: BETH Subject: HELLO E-mail address: SOON Homepage URL: http://www.varsity.com
Hello,
I'm in the 7th Grade. I so wish that I could be on the cheerleading team or dance team. Envy on !! I dress at home now, in my room, regular clothes. Top, jean skirts, tights, and shoes. I just want to look like a regular girl. I'm think one day soon, I will just dress up and go to school and see what happens. Do any of you go to school dressed up? How does it go ?? Bad , good ?? What do the teachers say ?? How do your friends treat you ? Are you allowed to dress-up at school, or get sent home?
Take care girls !! /hugs !! Beth

Tuesday, March 16th 2004 - 12:58:54 PM Name: Melanie Subject: Hi everyone E-mail address: beachgirlmelanie@yahoo.ca
I just want to say hi. i am back again. i can't believe how much that this site has grown. it is really cool to know that there are other teen cd's out there. if anyone wants to chat and exchange tips i would love to chat. i am also looking for any cd's in canada. i would love to chat. i am really trying to make myself more convincing. so if anyone knows anything, email me

Tuesday, March 16th 2004 - 12:56:41 PM Name: Melanie Subject: Hi everyone E-mail address: beachgirlmelanie@yahoo.ca
I just want to say hi. i am back again. i can't believe how much that this site has grown. it is really cool to know that there are other teen cd's out there. if anyone wants to chat and exchange tips i would love to chat. i am also looking for any cd's in canada. i would love to chat. i am really trying to make myself more convincing. so if anyone knows anything, email me

Tuesday, March 16th 2004 - 12:55:42 PM Name: Melanie Subject: Hi everyone E-mail address: beachgirlmelanie@yahoo.ca
I just want to say hi. i am back again. i can't believe how much that this site has grown. it is really cool to know that there are other teen cd's out there. if anyone wants to chat and exchange tips i would love to chat. i am also looking for any cd's in canada. i would love to chat. i am really trying to make myself more convincing. so if anyone knows anything, email me

Monday, March 8th 2004 - 04:21:10 PM Name: kelli Subject: hi E-mail address: funfan104
hi my name is kelli i am new here please be my friends

Saturday, February 28th 2004 - 01:02:29 PM Name: Stephanie Subject: Help Homepage URL: http://dubrovina.net/
I just need some help with getting dressed and everything. My mother just doesn't want my email out ion the web, so could some one please post with tips, and some ways i can bind my parts(cause im a cd guy) and to give me th3 effect of breasts cause mine just don't cut it.

Tuesday, February 24th 2004 - 06:57:01 PM Name: NeVeR_BaBy_YeR Subject: S1ck MoFos E-mail address: nevermind1_@hotmail.com
well, you always get that unfortunate guy who was looking for information on how to feminise cannabis seeds and comes across a page of crossdressing freaks lol. im going to offer some advice for some of you guys who don't know what the fuck your doing (be carefull most of the posts who claim to be a teen are probably within the age range of 30 to 40, never give any personal details away}. be proud of your sexuality, embrace your manlyness, dont wear womens cloths. if your a bit of a weed or look like a girl, bulk up a bit, try and do something. im sure that you guys get your little rushes but if you had read this far and not turned away with disgust i recomend a good counciler. dont turn away from your true roots. no matter how many operations you have, deep down your trying to be something you just cant be.

Wednesday, February 18th 2004 - 07:14:43 AM Name: CDer Subject: Teen CDers in NC E-mail address: cder529@yahoo.com
Im a 16 y.o. CDer looking for other teen cders especially in the NC area.
If your a teen cder or a teen cder that lives in NC email me.

Monday, February 9th 2004 - 06:29:41 AM Name: Stephanie Subject: Help Homepage URL: http://veranstaltungen.billingbest.biz/
Hi. I'm only 16 and am looking for some tips on how to dress. I have a bra, and panties I were to school, but I want more clothes and need to learn more about women's clothes, and I also need to learn to be more feminine. Also! is there anyway I can bind my... parts... so they don't get noticed in tight clothes.

Sunday, February 8th 2004 - 01:42:23 AM Name: notreallyimportant Subject: good forum E-mail address: iamanoverweightindividual@hotmail.com
this forum is great, it shows teen cds that were not alone. Im 15 and ive been wearing my sisters clothes whenever i get the chance for like, 5 years now, and my problem is im getting A)bigger than her and B) kinda bored with just the same dresses and bras and such. I see pictures on the internet of people who do it so convincingly and it makes me wish i could look like that too... If you have any advice for me then just email me


Sunday, January 4th 2004 - 05:23:13 PM Name: JC (Founder) Subject: Long Time No Post... E-mail address: awesome85@hotmail.com
Hello all who have come here in my absence. I am very sorry I haven't been moderating this board like I promised, but after a couple months with one or two posts, I gave up. It's only now, a good deal later, that I finally come back and check up on it. I do apologize, but this forum isn't really about me, it's about all of us. So now that I see more people have come here, I'll do my best to keep posting.

Sunday, November 9th 2003 - 08:20:29 PM Name: Robert Subject: Nothing Really E-mail address: hakaider87@hotmail.com
Hi Brita! I'm posting, I'm posting! For no apparent reason right now. lol. E-mail me again soon, okay, 'cause I got your reply to my first e-mail. Bye for now! -Robert

Sunday, November 9th 2003 - 04:18:22 PM Name: Brita Subject: POST MORE E-mail address: britacd@yahoo.com
POST MORE PPL PLZ IM GETTING BORED *sniff*

Thursday, November 6th 2003 - 03:35:46 PM Name: Brita Subject: sry E-mail address: britacd@yahoo.com
sry bout 2 posts i thought the first one was to long cuz i would not show the next page so i made a smaller one and that would not show up so all im saying is sry for 2 almost the same posts

Thursday, November 6th 2003 - 01:10:53 PM Name: Robert Subject: I'm New Here... E-mail address: hakaider87@hotmail.com Homepage URL: http://None
Hi, my name is Robert. I'm not a crossdresser, nor am I transgendered. I'm just a regular guy, looking for a transgendered girlfriend. I honestly don't know why, but I just love you transgendered ladies out there (And not for a perverted reason! I'm not that kind of guy!). Um... I'm kind of nervous (I always have been around girls), but, if anyone's interested, e-mail me. Oh! And I'm looking for friends, too. A little more about me: I'm 16, I live in Florida (Quite possibly the most humid region on the planet), and I'm starting to think that I'm one of the last true gentlemen left on Earth (I'm not bragging, I just don't treat women as bad as most guys do these days). With that said, I'll let everyone get back to more important things. I'll keep checking back every few days. It was a pleasure to meet you all. -Robert

Wednesday, November 5th 2003 - 08:57:02 PM Name: Brita Subject: So far E-mail address: britacd@yahoo.com
we just moved and now i go to school in new york inrolled as Brita Smith. I have a very girlish voice and i go to school in skirts every day. At least 3 guys have asked me out with in the week. I'm so happy because I just got word that when i turn 16 i can get breast implants. I bent over in history today (i was wearing a skirt) and every one got site of my pantys :-D i could tell some of the boys were excited just by looking down. Well i g2g get ready for my date ttyl later and be sure to e-mail me.

Wednesday, November 5th 2003 - 08:54:11 PM Name: Brita Subject: So far E-mail address: britacd@yahoo.com
we just moved and now i go to school in new york inrolled as Brita Smith. I have a very girlish voice and i go to school in skirts every day. At least 3 guys have asked me out with in the week. I'm so happy because I just got word that when i turn 16 i can get breast implants. I know your all dieing to hear what i wore today, i wore a silk black skirt white panty hoes high heal sandles my silk pantys a bra with my breast forms a blonde wig and a real short sleved tee shirt. I bent over in history today and every one got site of my pantys :-D i could tell some of the boys were excited just by looking down. Well i g2g get ready for my date ttyl later and be sure to e-mail me.

Saturday, November 1st 2003 - 10:57:30 PM Name: Nicole Subject: just checking this site out
hi, im 16yrs old. I just found this site and through id give it a try. When my parents go out I put on my pink thong and pink bra and i wear my moms skirts and tops around the house. I wasnt sure what else to say.

Saturday, November 1st 2003 - 08:51:14 PM Name: Brita Subject: skirts,dresses,ect E-mail address: britacd@yahoo.com
I love to wear skirts and dresses my fav outfit is my sisters lime green skirt white high heals silky pantys white tank top and sweater. It makes me feel like a real gril i even put on make up, the reason i wear makeup is because the other day i told my parents about this and there ok with it :-D they let me dress when im home and they even got me some cloths of my own.

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